sometimes i wonder if i'm too nice for my own good
as much as i love the IDEA of doing it, i'm really awful at degrading people because i want everyone to feel good :D
it mostly comes from a place of anxiety, i guess. like a voice in the back of my head that tells me that everything i'm doing is wrong.
oh what a dilemma i have found myself in... i'd appreciate any tips if people have them, mostly about swallowing that anxiety (even though i don't think anyone would really read this)