i like to think when tim drake came out the family was overwhelmingly accepting. i always thought tim wanted to come out because he wanted to feel comfortable telling people about bernard and stuff but i just know when he told the family they went fucking insane for him. bruce wasn’t really surprised, he knew one of his kids would be queer. nevertheless he’s very happy and proud of tim. i feel like tim would tell bruce first and they had a nice talk about it. dick was SO happy to hear that tim and bernard were dating, he secretly always knew tim was a little gay for bernard and when it was confirmed to his face he was so happy for tim. jason was really proud of tim for coming out. he was happy that tim found someone and was able to share with the family. i like to think alfred knew like dick did but bruce kinda told alfred, however alfred was very happy for tim. KATE WAS OVER THE MOON. i absolutely adore the headcanon that she’s the gay wine aunt that was incredibly excited to support tim. because it’s canon tbh. SHE TOLD HIM EVERYTHING HE NEEDED TO KNOW. not saying damian didn’t understand, because obvious he does, but he just didn’t know how to take it. of course he was happy for his brother but he didn’t really understand why tim needed to come out. he just thought love was normal. (bruce explained) cass knew. she has a very good gaydar and i bet tim told her a good while before he told everyone else. she was happy to meet bernard and she helps tim get him gifts and helps plan dates. I LOVE TIM DRAKE SO MUCH OMGGGG HES MY BABY <3