PSA to anyone who is or wants to be my friend: JUST SAY WHAT YOU’RE THINKING like i swear to god please stop beating around the bush or sending signals. i am too dense. i will not perceive the signals.
like if you have a problem with my behavior, TELL ME ABOUT IT. i won’t know it’s a problem unless you say something. and once you do say something, i’ll do everything in my power to change it. but you have to tell me.
i am so sick of feeling responsible every time i fight with someone because THEY wouldn’t communicate right off the bat and blame it on me. my entire life is like a really low stakes never ending miscommunication trope and i am so sick of it.