remembering last year when my male cousins shit talked about my outfit and how a daughter from our family wouldn't show that much cleavage so I inhaled, opened my mouth to put them in their place and stopped because I was curious what my father would say to them and he never even defended me, didn't open his mouth, just laughed "you could do that on your own, you always have" I KNOW. I could've but I wanted YOU to show solidarity. "they don't actually think that they know you're a hotheaded feminist so they try to rile you up" so the constant judgement of women's clothing is a joke to you and shouldn't be taken seriously?