this.. is a thing?? THATS WHY WE DO THIS?!?
Tbh tho it could also be bcuz of our trauma since we generally run through confrontation convos (💅✨)
reminding ourselves that a symptom of adhd is playing out conversations in your head and its only natural that would apply to conversations involving system members as well. and a future hypothetical conversation playing out in our head involving multiple headmates does Not mean that A. we're faking regular communication, B. that the other headmate(s) cant be experiencing the same thing, or C. that they can't be metaphorically standing there side-eyeing you for your interpretation of how the conversation is going to happen