Don't read a rule book, the truest way to learn is to get super stoned and have someone, who is equally as stoned, show you how to do it.
You have to have that wisdom imparted on you.
Like grandma teaching you how to make her super secret recipe- but worse!
I think it's hilarious that hands down the worst way to learn magic is the actual rulebook. Please do not read that. It's just there for reference when something weird happens