Moshenshang Cannot Use Pet Names. Like, Not As In They Don’t Want To, As In They Are Incapable Of It.

I don’t have issues for the other main MXTX ships, because the romance in TGCF and MDZS does not suffer from a lot of those issues. Hualian is a VERY healthy relationship/romance, with a lot of the issues that COULD be brought up being dealt with or explained later. Wangxian starts out with some questionable things (for example: teen lwj wanting to SA wwx), but they’re resolved BEFORE the couple begins to view each other in a genuine romantic light, and when they’re brought up again, LWJ doesn’t gaslight WWX about it, and is apologetic. He doesn’t make excuses or manipulate him, and they have enough trust built up at that point and open communication that WWX is able to understand it.

That said, I still am open about these issues with people I recommend the series to. That’s because even if contextually, certain aspects that would be toxic in other pairings might work in this one, it doesn’t CHANGE the actions of the characters. As fans, it’s part of our responsibility to make sure newer fans have a good experience in fandom. This doesn’t mean you have to change what you do - but simply be open about your content and fandom (thoroughly tagging, acknowledging problematic aspects, and being kind towards differing opinions), and allowing people to make informed choices to choose to interact or not interact with content.

Both Bingqiu and Moshang undoubtedly have toxic/questionable aspects to their relationship, but when looking at why I think Moshang works, and Bingqiu just doesn’t, I mainly point to how the “abuse” of their partners is handled.

When SQQ is abused by Binghe, Binghe plays the victim. Instead of being straightforward and serious, he cries and pleads, making HIMSELF the one in need of comfort, and causing SQQ to feel bad for being the ACTUAL victim. Moreover, Binghe is FULLY AWARE what he’s doing when he hurts or manipulates Qingqiu. There isn’t an excuse there.

Meanwhile, with MBJ and SQH, there’s a clear reason for their miscommunication: an issue of culture. While Binghe was raised in human society, Mobei-jun is very much attuned to demon culture - and has blind spots. But unlike Binghe, when he becomes aware of the harm he’s doing, and how it’s being perceived, he doesn’t play the victim:

He sincerely apologizes to Shang Qinghua

He offers a way of “correcting” it

He then tries to do what Shang Qinghua had told him would be better understood, showing that he cares more about Qinghua’s feelings than tradition.

Mobei-Jun isn’t mean, like I see a lot of fanworks imply. Mobei-Jun sincerely does NOT WANT to hurt Shang Qinghua, and when he realizes he is, he stops. Binghe hurts Shen Qingqiu knowingly, and when he does, he plays the victim or guilts Shen Qingqiu. This is why Moshang, in my eyes, just works.

Casual CumPlane interaction?

I’ve had so many people on TikTok give new examples of Blue Food and I find it so interesting to hear about that I’ve known or thought about! Though my favourite so far has been Mobei Jun, because of course Shang Qinghua should’ve said that instead!!🤣😭

Anyways SQH needs some rest from being at Shen Yuans attacks, poor thing😭

Comms are open, links in pinned post to my Carrd and Ko-Fi with all info!💛

NHS does not have a mini doll. He cannot be held gently like baby (or whatever the fuck sort of MK-Ultra recreation games TikTok plays with their mini dolls.) However, we still can cherish his digital image.

How the hell did Nie Huaisang make it past the censors?? He's 3x as gay as everyone else put together.

OMG YOU'RE ON TUMBLR NOW I CAN TAG YOU IN POSTS AND SEND YOU ALL THE THINGS

INDEED I AM HEHEHEH

oh my! Of course! ❤️😭😊🥺 heheheh so happy to have shared this little joy of mine with others

unfortunately due to university i havent been able to finish moshenshang week... but here's a little piece for them <3

Great sect leader meeting everyone

*flirting with jiang cheng* hey there handsome, does your nephew need any more uncles?

*can be applied to every other one of jin ling’s uncles*

Honestly I had more sanzun text posts in my files but this is how every nielan conversation goes after episode 23 trust me

When it comes to transmigration, i see Mobei Jun like a middle age dad telling his friends that “this is my daughter, he’s transgender!”. But like. “These are my wives, they’re imposters from another planet…. I mean, universe?” Confused but he’s trying and has the spirit. He has no clue what a multiverse is. He thinks a refrigerator is a mythical beast. He thinks the Star Wars were a real historical set of events from their world. But he doesn’t judge and is just here to keep his beloveds happy.