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Don’t know if you’ve gotten this question before but what Mars signs do you think are the most sensual ?

Hey cutie,

I love your question:) I honestly think every Mars signs have their own charms! While I'm bias in my own ways as I do have my favourites, I have to admit that all of the signs have different kinds of magnetism to them

Let's go through it shall we? 💞🥳

—ᴍᴀʀꜱ ꜱɪɢɴꜱ & ꜱᴇɴꜱᴜᴀʟɪᴛʏ

Aries Mars: They're sensual in terms of how far they're willing to go to get what they want. Very passionate people in general and can be very loyal once you earn their trust, if not they'll just be nice to you but never go to great length to please you. Most Aries Mars I've met all have exceptional people skill and naturally overachiever energy haha, they're extremely good with handling their emotions and interestingly most of them don't get mad that often, but once they do its simply too hot to handle. Sensual with their partner and can be come a schoolgirl around them and very giggly.

Taurus Mars: They define the word devotion. Laidback and seemingly very gentle people or very "motherly" in some way. Cares a lot about how they come off and they actually get angry easier than Aries Mars! But their anger die down slower. Once they're invested in someone or something they look at them with starry eyes and can't keep touching them by accident. They live for intense body language and their energy is usually so precious. Very homey people once settle down, more realistic than they look and are very reliant people.

Gemini Mars: Interesting people. Sensual in the sense that they really know what to say and when to say it. Very careful with saying what they think out loud. More considerate and introverted than how they're portray in the mainstream. Likes to read people a lot and can be amazing at it. Understanding their thoughts process is like learning an art for their partners. Beautiful minds.

Cancer Mars: Protective and subtly demanding people. Usually very in tuned with their emotions and may not like the feeling of being angry to others that often. Charm people by showing their softer and nurturing side. Sensual in the sense that they love listening to people and are very seriously with eye-contact or hidden tells. Territorial and can seem very defensive but they usually go with their gut feelings a lot of the time. Instinctive individuals. Partners should be expecting to be pampered and spoiled.

Leo Mars: Amazing eyes for the art. A true artist within. Sensual in the sense that they have the ability to defend themselves and their loved ones when they're fully bloomed. Confident kind of sensuality. Yet its not as flashy as described most of the time. Leo Mars usually have this silent yet apparent self-awareness energy. They're extremely resilient and are very passionate with things they consider theirs and they love to hype people they love up. Once a Leo Mars reach that stage of confidence, they often are extremely laidback and always seem that they're having a good time. No bad vibes here.

Virgo Mars: Virgo Mars individuals are hella intimate and bright. They do everything with so much dedication and hidden meaning in ways that normal brains can't normally contemplate tbh. Sensual in the way that they always seek to please you and have this larger than life energy that makes other very intrigue. They have a good grasp of reality but are also lowkey dreamers:) Very physical people. Usually look innocence and relaxed but are lowkey freaks, the element of surprise is never missing.

Libra Mars: Also have a sense of being very relaxed much similar to Virgo Mars but for them its also a tiny hint of fairy tale romance. Big hearts but also fragile ones. Braver than they look and softer than they seem. Wants to be loved and will give love back as they find their one true partner. Sensual in terms of they seek to please themselves and others and find pleasure everywhere they go. Comfort is essential. With them you will never feel uneasy and know how to make you feel welcomed. Addictive presences.

Scorpio Mars: Magnetic charm. Everything they do radiate ethereal energy and seems so casual but also very calculated. Their beauty lies in the way behind their eyes it seems like there are thousands of things go unsaid. Sensual in terms of how they feel the need to shelter and protect you. Also very territorial but they expect you to understand this nature too. Humorous and a lot of humility.

Sagittarius Mars: Excitement. Their charm lies in the way they have a forever young manners to them thats so refreshing and unique. Very bright minds but may come off as less bothered than they really are. Knows how to cheer people up in ways others don't fully understand. Spectacular jokester but can be very lonely deep down. Their own sensuality is the fact that they can be real loners in disguise. Their go-getter personality fool people from thinking how they actually are very deep and emotional individuals.

Capricorn Mars: They live another day with their sets of morals and values that they hold close to heart. Their beauty is their consistency and dare to dream big. They put down the foundation for anything and everything. Perfect blend of domineering and understanding. Usually very grounded, they like to fell secured and will reciprocate any energy coming at them. Their sensuality is the kindness and the thoughts they put into everyone and everything. Honourable people.

Aquarius Mars: Their ability to stay objective no matter what is admirable. Hearts usually yearn for humanity and are true empaths deep down. They experience sensuality in an intellectual level where the softer sides of them make perfect sense with the logical, rational self within. A lot of self-acknowledgement but also major esteem. They are insanely confidence when properly enabled and are not afraid to go against the norms. A wild card to others as they never fail to surprise.

Pisces Mars: They're not at all predictable individuals. Their minds are maddening and theres always a charm in any mad rebel. Surrounded by people but will always stand out by their unique energy. Extremely compassionate and yielding towards those they care for, they are never going to give up on something despite seeing a small spark of hope. Hard to pin down but their sensuality lies in the way they can love one's unconditionally.

Here are some thoughts of mine on the Mars signs and sensuality💕 I hope this helps you in one way or another beautiful!

love,

saint jenx🪐

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— A complete guide to understanding your Black Moon Lilith

be sure to check out the post below first 🪐!

🤎 The various sides of Lilith

🤎 Detailed Lilith in the houses series

Hi beautiful, it’s Jenx here! As promised, I’m back with another post on Lilith:) We’ll focus more about Black Moon Lilith (h13) this time. This should help you guys with understanding the basic of your Black Moon signs & houses as well as aspects and its transits in different points in your life🤎 Lilith has always fascinated me and I truly encourage you guys to read more into my old posts linked above before reading this:)

What is Black Moon Lilith?

To successfully connecting with one’s Black Moon Lilith means that one must essentially make peace with issues regarding life, death, and rebirth.

Themes surrounding Black Moon Lilith are:

— radical, wild femininity that radiates or emanates from deep within, femininity as an emanation and not a projection that seeks to please, ruthless self-individuation, fantastically embodying the lunar/non-linear mentality, conscious and embodied power, sex as an act of divine creation, comfort in the state of ecstatic-orgasmic being, the body as a source of infinite wisdom and grace, graceful acceptance of what no longer serves us, achieving the sacred inner marriage of anima and animus/the feminine and the masculine, intuitive connection to our creative/sexual processes and their wild nature, swift identification of falsehoods in ourself and others, the ability to cut away at the falsehoods until all that remains is the essential, core, wild self – nothing more, nothing less.

Lilith In The Signs

Lilith in Aries

The Aries Lilith emerges in the great need to be respected and to feel deserving. However, a profound sense of unworthiness stands in the way of this pursuit, frequently leading advantageous possibilities to be missed. We can only obtain what we believe we earn in life, and when we believe we are undeserving, we will evade or dismiss people, jobs, or opportunities that we believe are too good for us. With Lilith in Aries, self-sabotaging is common. There may also be a need to demonstrate one’s value to others, even if it occurs in the context of  boasting. Aries Lilith fiercely protects oneself and opposes everything that contradicts one's ideals and principles. Aries Lilith typically evaluates how well they do or measure up to their own aspirations of success, identity, respect, and accomplishments. They may hold the view that one’s success and worthiness are determined by what they have obtained or achieved. They must learn not to compare themselves to others; not to judge their accomplishment by the standards of others; and to appreciate oneself as a unique expression, therefore developing consciousness. Examine any areas where you have settled for less than you planned. Consider what you would do if you were declared worthy. Make an effort to engage with this idea. Consider how important the idea of success is in your life. Consider what you are continually attempting to achieve. When you’ve found the solution, consider if you truly want it. Is it worthwhile to put forth the effort? You will achieve a natural level of internal equilibrium by developing the knowledge that you do not have to be the best in every scenario. When the Black Moon is in Aries, we have a great fear of being inadequate. This place might make romantic relationships difficult since we feel intrinsically unworthy or worthy of things like a healthy relationship. We know we’ve found true love when we accept romantic intentions from someone who sees us as successful in some manner and admires and appreciates us.

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🌱Self Love Affirmations🌱

I am worthy of receiving the love I give.

I have enough. I do enough. I am enough.

I am proud of myself and all I have accomplished.

I choose to stop apologizing for being me.

I accept myself unconditionally.

I am becoming more confident everyday.

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Why Your Spells Don’t Work

You set your intention. You had all the correct correspondences. You even timed your spell with the appropriate moon phase. And yet – no results. What gives? 

Failed spells happen to the best of us, and for a variety of reasons. But a spell gone wrong doesn’t necessarily mean that magic isn’t real or that you’re bad at witchcraft. Magic is complicated, and there are a lot of reasons it might not behave the way you want it to. Here are some of the most common causes of ineffective spells: 

1. Lack of real-world follow through

Magic is meant to be used as a tool to supplement your mundane efforts – not as a substitute for them. How can you expect your job hunting spell to bring in results if you aren’t applying for jobs? 

Magic does not exist in a vacuum, and it can’t make something out of nothing. If a spell doesn’t bring you the desired result, make sure that your non-magical actions are aligned with what you are trying to manifest. 

2. What you’re trying to manifest isn’t a realistic possibility

Wait, what? Isn’t magic supposed to be, well… magic? Shouldn’t you be able to ask for whatever you want and get it? Yes and no.

Magic is simply a way of directing energy. Magic can’t defy the natural laws of the universe. It can’t make something happen unless it was already a potential possibility.

If your intention is unrealistic for where you are right now, try splitting it up into a multi-step process. No spell is going to make you a billionaire overnight, but magic could help you get hired at a better paying job… and then get promoted… and then get offered a profitable side gig… etc. Starting small and working your way up is always going to produce stronger results, because you laid the foundation first.

3. Your intention was either too vague or too specific 

Whether you use written petitions or spoken incantations, clearly stating your intention is an important part (maybe THE most important part) of any spell or ritual. A good intention is specific enough to get you the results you want, but open enough to let those results manifest naturally.

Let’s say you do a money spell, and your intention for the spell is simply, “I have more money.” If you find a penny on the ground the next day and pick it up, technically that is more money than you had before. A better alternative would be to use an intention like, “I have enough money to buy ___,” or “I have enough money for everything I need and want.”

Using an intention that is too specific creates the opposite problem. Let’s say you want to manifest a scholarship to a specific school. You do a candle spell with the intention, “I have been chosen for the John Smith Scholarship at Jane Doe University.” But maybe the John Smith scholarship had already been awarded by the time you did your spell. Maybe there’s another scholarship at the same school that would be a better fit for you, or maybe you’re eligible for a grant that would make tuition more affordable. A better intention for your spell would be “I have enough financial aid to easily and affordably attend Jane Doe University.”

Magic always follows the path of least resistance, so you want to make sure that your intention is specific enough to give your magic a clear direction, but open enough to allow it some flexibility. 

4. Lack of focus/concentration

We all know the struggle. You’ve been planning this ritual forever, and it’s finally the full moon, but you’ve got a really full schedule today. If you hurry, you can probably squeeze it into the thirty minute window between school and work, right? 

If you say a few quick words and burn some incense before you head out the door in the morning, that totally counts as a spell, right? 

Not so much. Rushed, lazy, and/or half-assed spells rarely, if ever, work. Spells revolve around the raising and direction of energy, and that requires two things: a clear intention (see above) and intense focus on that intention. If you don’t have the time/energy/mental capacity to focus, it’s best to take a break, have a self care day, and come back to your spell some other time. 

5. You’re subconsciously blocking your own results OR you did a spell for someone else who isn’t open to it

I decided to lump these two together, because they’re different variations of the same issue. 

Whenever you are doing magic on yourself, it’s important that your mindset is aligned with your intentions. You can do love spells all day long, but if deep down you don’t believe that you’re worthy of love, that belief is going to block your spells from working. This is why mindfulness, psychology, and self care are all such important parts of a successful witchcraft practice. It’s also why I recommend doing the mental work before you sit down to ritual. 

If you did a spell on yourself, or are trying to manifest something for yourself, and it just isn’t working, I highly recommend setting some time aside for journaling and meditation and asking yourself 1.) if this is really what you want, and 2.) if you truly believe that you can have it.

The whole mindset thing gets even more tricky when you’re doing magic on behalf of another person, because their energy is also at work in the situation and could be at odds with yours. For example, if you do a spell to help a friend land a job, but that friend believes that they’re totally underqualified and could never get it, they probably won’t get the job even if you did everything “right” in your spell. 

This should go without saying, but it is extremely unethical to use magic to mess around in someone else’s head. Even if you think you know what’s best for them, they need to be open to it. If someone is blocking the spells you do on their behalf, all you can do is try to be supportive and find other ways to help them out.

Other (Rare) Reasons for Failed Spells

If a spell goes wrong, it will almost always be for one of the above reasons. But maybe you did everything “right” – you did the mental work first, had a strong, realistic intention, put lots of focus into your spell, and followed through in real life – and you still aren’t seeing results. There are a couple of other things that could be blocking your spells, but they’re very uncommon so I’m not going to talk about them in as much detail. These may be things you want to look into if you really, genuinely can’t think of any other cause. 

It’s possible that another witch has done magic that cancels out or blocks yours. This is not common, and it does NOT mean that someone has cursed you. It could be as simple as two witches unknowingly casting spells with opposite intentions, which end up cancelling each other out. (For example, maybe two different people both cast a spell to get the same job. Obviously, they can’t both get that job.) This is why it’s never a bad idea to incorporate a protective element into your spells to block outside interference.

There is a very, very remote possibility that someone has placed a curse on you specifically to block your magic. However – and I cannot stress this enough – this is VERY uncommon. If you were cursed you would know it, or at least know that something was very wrong in your life. If you feel like you have been cursed or hexed, I recommend looking into uncrossing spells, which are specifically designed to undo negative magic.

It’s also possible that a higher power is intervening. This doesn’t necessarily have to be a deity, although it certainly could be. Most witches believe in some form of fate or destiny, and it’s possible that your spell didn’t work because what you asked for is not in alignment with your destiny. In these situations, really the only thing you can do is surrender to the bigger picture. 

Witchy Aesthetics

green witch: freshly pressed flowers, walking through a field of wildflowers, talking to the trees, terrariums, plants sitting on the windowsill, forest sounds

kitchen witch: cookbooks, stirring tea with intent, lots and lots of jars, herbs and more herbs, the smells of baking, tea blends swirling in jars 

storm witch: lightning crackling, calling up a storm, dancing in the rain, getting excited when you feel a storm coming, checking the weather activity

dream witch: sleepy eyes, soft blankets, meditating in the mornings to remember your dreams, reality checks, sleeping with crystals under your pillow

divination witch: wearing your pendulum as a necklace, sleeping with your tarot deck, shaky hands, too many tarot decks, meditating with your tools

sea witch: jars of seawater, walking barefooted on the sand, sitting on the beach at night, missing the seashore, balmy sea breeze, seashell collection

lunar witch: setting alarms for moon phases, talking to the moon, making moon water, getting ready for the next lunar eclipse, quiet moonlit nights

spirit witch: bonding with spirit companions, feeling the presences in a room, setting out offerings, seeing shadows out of the corner of your eyes, amethyst

fire witch: a whole bunch of scented candles, the smell of incense, cosy warmth, dancing flames, jars of ashes, almost burning the whole house down

crystal witch: keeping crystals in your pockets, crystals sitting on your windowsill under the moonlight, crystalline light reflections

water witch: way too many jars, running out in the middle of a storm to collect water, carrying a jar everywhere, shower cleansing and grounding rituals

tech witch: embedding sigils in code, stereoscopic light of a phone screen, ambient soundtracks, witchy phone apps, emoji spells, digital grimoires

music witch: jamming to your tracks over a spell, shufflemancy, headphones on earbuds in, charging tools with your speakers, playlist for every occasion

urban witch: dollar stores, carrying around their magickal tools, sigils for not missing the bus or train, finding that one witch book in local bookstores

glamour witch: sigils on the mirror, rose quartz in random places, makeup bags, looking fly, youtube channels on makeup, on-the-spot glamours

closeted witch: hiding grimoires in drawers, sigils for invisibility, waiting for everyone else to go out, performing spells behind locked doors at night

art witches: moon water in your paint cup, paint-stained fingers, charmed drawing tablet, colour corresponding your art supplies, local bookshops

i hope all of you beautiful witches (& of course non-witches too!) are taking care of yourselves ✨🌱🌙

here’s your reminder to:

• drink water

• compliment yourself/your craft

• pet your cat/dog

• take a deep breath

and know that everything will be okay, and you are exactly where you should be (Divine Timing).