To calm yourself inside and out, eat lavendar. Chomp it right off the plant. Go feral. Eat the leaf.
coffee/dark cocoa - causes target bitterness
Chili Powder ~ for discord, bane, curses
Mustard Seed ~ the seed of strife and discord. Leave it at one’s doorstep, particularly black mustard seed. This seed sprinkled around the trunk of a fruit tree on the first evening of the full moon will cause the tree to bear no fruit.
Onion ~ can cause strife in an enemy’s life.
Poppy Seed ~ Causes couples to argue.
Sumac ~ for curses, hexing, bringing bad luck
Grapefruit - causes enemy sour start, but leaves a good ending
peppers - great for those spreading lies and talking general shit. The hotter the pepper (vegetable or spice) the more intense the curse.
salt - to repel someone from reentering your life and home.
vinegar - to make someone eat their words or to stop running their mouth.
basil - for someone who owes you money.
mint - to cool someone’s anger or hatred toward you.
potato - for someone standing in your way. carve someone’s name into the potato (or initials) and then cut it up/cook as normal.
having a wooden spoon you use ONLY for cursing magic within the kitchen. You can inscribe/woodburn sigils and words to your liking. This is VERY useful. Just be sure you ONLY use it for cursing and hexing for foods.
lemon/lime/any tart fruit - to stop someone’s slander, lies, and general cursing
Black pepper or ginger - add in baking mix if you want to cause the target anger.
Grated lemon - add in baking mix if you want to cause the target to be sour to others.
Black icing - colour correspondence for hexes and curses.
Stirring counter clockwise is good for undoing the actions or intent of the person you are cursing.
Stirring clockwise is for sealing/bringing to fruition.
You can do cursing/hexing in your kitchen. Write someone’s name on a slip of paper (or take their picture) and put it in your pot and add vinegar, oils, needles/nails and herbs on the stove, intending your hex on that person. Toss out like (preferably off your property) when done.
Most kitchen witches, myself included, keep glass jars and bottles around. You can take a piece of paper with the person’s name or their picture, put in a jar with oil and herbs and shake it up each time you focus your hexing intent. Obviously the more shaking you do the more intense. Do till you feel the hexing is done and they’ve stopped their shit.
When cursing/hexing food (or doing the pot trick like I mentioned above), you can also say (from Dorothy Morrison’s Utterly Wicked, pg. 66):
The magic that’s within this dish is meant for (name of target), as is my wish.
On others who may hear its call it shall not have any effect at all.
Pure delight is all they’ll feel as they fill their plates and eat this meal.
But (name of target) it will hit magically
As I will, so mote it be.
@breelandwalker and @diary-of-demosthenes
you’re not angel 𓂅 ⋆ ࣪ ˖
— A complete guide to understanding your Black Moon Lilith
be sure to check out the post below first 🪐!
🤎 The various sides of Lilith
🤎 Detailed Lilith in the houses series
Hi beautiful, it’s Jenx here! As promised, I’m back with another post on Lilith:) We’ll focus more about Black Moon Lilith (h13) this time. This should help you guys with understanding the basic of your Black Moon signs & houses as well as aspects and its transits in different points in your life🤎 Lilith has always fascinated me and I truly encourage you guys to read more into my old posts linked above before reading this:)
What is Black Moon Lilith?
To successfully connecting with one’s Black Moon Lilith means that one must essentially make peace with issues regarding life, death, and rebirth.
Themes surrounding Black Moon Lilith are:
— radical, wild femininity that radiates or emanates from deep within, femininity as an emanation and not a projection that seeks to please, ruthless self-individuation, fantastically embodying the lunar/non-linear mentality, conscious and embodied power, sex as an act of divine creation, comfort in the state of ecstatic-orgasmic being, the body as a source of infinite wisdom and grace, graceful acceptance of what no longer serves us, achieving the sacred inner marriage of anima and animus/the feminine and the masculine, intuitive connection to our creative/sexual processes and their wild nature, swift identification of falsehoods in ourself and others, the ability to cut away at the falsehoods until all that remains is the essential, core, wild self – nothing more, nothing less.
Lilith In The Signs
Lilith in Aries
The Aries Lilith emerges in the great need to be respected and to feel deserving. However, a profound sense of unworthiness stands in the way of this pursuit, frequently leading advantageous possibilities to be missed. We can only obtain what we believe we earn in life, and when we believe we are undeserving, we will evade or dismiss people, jobs, or opportunities that we believe are too good for us. With Lilith in Aries, self-sabotaging is common. There may also be a need to demonstrate one’s value to others, even if it occurs in the context of boasting. Aries Lilith fiercely protects oneself and opposes everything that contradicts one's ideals and principles. Aries Lilith typically evaluates how well they do or measure up to their own aspirations of success, identity, respect, and accomplishments. They may hold the view that one’s success and worthiness are determined by what they have obtained or achieved. They must learn not to compare themselves to others; not to judge their accomplishment by the standards of others; and to appreciate oneself as a unique expression, therefore developing consciousness. Examine any areas where you have settled for less than you planned. Consider what you would do if you were declared worthy. Make an effort to engage with this idea. Consider how important the idea of success is in your life. Consider what you are continually attempting to achieve. When you’ve found the solution, consider if you truly want it. Is it worthwhile to put forth the effort? You will achieve a natural level of internal equilibrium by developing the knowledge that you do not have to be the best in every scenario. When the Black Moon is in Aries, we have a great fear of being inadequate. This place might make romantic relationships difficult since we feel intrinsically unworthy or worthy of things like a healthy relationship. We know we’ve found true love when we accept romantic intentions from someone who sees us as successful in some manner and admires and appreciates us.
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I am worthy of receiving the love I give.
I have enough. I do enough. I am enough.
I am proud of myself and all I have accomplished.
I choose to stop apologizing for being me.
I accept myself unconditionally.
I am becoming more confident everyday.
I offer self love and tarot readings ❤️
Clarice Lispector, from “A Breath of Life”, published posthumously in Brazil in the late 1970s
“When disgust or revulsion is confronted and overcome, what was at first disgusting can become delicious.”
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Carolyn Korsmeyer, ‘Delightful, Delicious, Disgusting’, The Journal of Aesthetics and Art Criticism, vol. 60, no. 3 (2002)
She’s specifically referring here to the deliberate cultivation of a “refined palate”, which usually involves developing a taste for what is bitter, pungent and even rotten. But I’m also thinking about developing a taste for something out of necessity, and then continuing to enjoy it when it’s no longer necessary for your survival.
Our personal taste for food is always a reflection of our childhood diet, and no matter how much you develop your palate you’ll never fully disconnect it from your earliest experiences. And this is true of other kinds of tastes as well, other kinds of appetites and sensual pleasures.
Pick flowers as I walk to offer for him
Tell people I love them and mean it
Kiss my partner in honor of him
Listen to and sing love songs
Watch a cheesy rom-com
Wear pink, red, or gold
This man loves Oreos so get Oreos at any cost (or any chocolate for that matter)
Tell him about my love life and gossip I hear about others’ love lives
Carry a rose with me or wear rose scented perfume
Practice self love, also to honor his mother, Aphrodite
Practice spiritual growth and love of life, also to honor his wife, Psyche
he is also the god of sex so there are 18+ ideas I’m sure you can think of yourself that I’m not going to put here for discretions sake
Overall, the best thing you can do to honor Eros is just to love unashamedly and unabashedly. Take pride in who you love and how you love them!