I Think Maybe I’m A Little Bit Chubby. Just A Smidge 😇

Do yo ever feel alone and like you always have to hide from friends and family? Does your kink ever make you wish you were "normal"? I surely feel these things and I am very sad.

This is a common feeling for a lot of people, so I want you to understand that you're not alone, but also understand that it's not something you should continue allowing yourself to feel! A fetish can be extremely intimate since it's so closely tied to sexuality, personal history, etc. but feeling like you have to hide or be alone because of it is very unhealthy.

I recommend starting by trying to break down the stigma around weight gain and fetishes. EVERYONE has kinks and fetishes and niche interests that they like to keep hidden. And feedism/tummy love is actually a VERY common fetish! Trust me, as a feedism model I can guarantee you that I've gotten way more attention both on/offline as a 300+ lb person than I ever did when I was thin. It's not inherently dirty or wrong to be attracted to fat people or to want to be fat for your own sexual/personal fulfillment.

Try looking into fat politics more! Read up on biases surrounding fatness and weight gain and how that may be impacting your mental wellbeing. Do the work to unlearn what's been pushed onto you and in time you'll start to feel more comfortable speaking outwardly about fatphobia and how being fat/fatness is beautiful. At some point things will start to click for you and you can feel more at ease both with yourself, and with talking to others about your interests! This isn't to say that you should broadcast bluntly your fetishes and what turns you on, but being able to join in on those kinds of conversations when they happen can be really wonderful with building community with your friends!

Again, you are normal. Liking fat bodies (your own or others) is normal. Having fetishes is normal! It's up to you to destigmatize things and unlearn the fatphobia and puritanical ideology that's holding you back from feeling connected to others.

As a fat feedist with friends/family/community that know all about what I do for a living and why I gained so much weight, I promise it's possible to live without shame.

this is a non kink way. just fat love.

Really want to build a pillowfort and let a Dom pound me with her strap inside of it

SHELLY JOHNSON ◦ Twin Peaks 2x19: Variations and Relations

fatphobia is truly a sinister evil and I understand we are all trying to have a good time here on feedism tumblr but please. examine your fetishes and think before posting extremely fatphobic rhetoric and engaging in fatphobic kinks. just because you get off on fat bodies (your own or someone elses) does not mean you are immune to anti fat ideology.

if you run a blog dedicated to degrading fat bodies or insinuating that someone "ruined" their body via weight gain, that is an extreme kink and needs to be labeled as such. I'm tired of seeing fatphobic rhetoric passed around with no trigger warnings whatsoever just because a lot of feeders in this kink assume every feedee is okay with being referred to as a "disgustingly fat lazy slob that can't stop eating".

the rules of consent and kink/trigger warnings still apply outside of bdsm/dark kink posts. don't reblog peoples posts with commentary they didn't consent to, and please make sure to let people know in your pinned post/bio if you post degradation or death feedism! I think it would make us all have a much better experience

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i think actually the key to successfully doing tumblr (and especially doing fandom on tumblr) is realising that your blog is your little house and you can post about whatever you like there. once you realise you are just living in and decorating your very own silly little online house you start focusing on what makes you happy rather than constantly performing for & compromising your tastes for & placing all your self worth on little scraps of clout, and you will be a lot happier for it

The goddess of love always gains a few extra pounds this time of year, from all the offerings she receives 🍰🧁🍫

Feedist Kinktober '24: Day 8 👑 Ren Faire