"have You Learned How To Drive Yet" I Have The Spirit Of Friendship In My Heart. The Joy Of Lifes Little

this is what i've been working hard to remind myself lately

The wildest part about being a system and having known you are a system for a while (6+ years for us) HAS to be seeing people who are just figuring it out fall into holes that you've long left behind.

Like. Yeah. We also thought we needed to keep tabs on everyone to increase communication. In the end it became too unwieldy. Especially since DID evolves with what you experience all the time.

Microlabels are cool and I fully support anyone who uses them, but figuring out what to call every single structure in your system isn't for us anymore.

Another thing we notice is people who try their best to know who is fronting at all given times. A lot of that comes naturally to us nowadays, but it's also... OK not to know. Especially if you're not focusing on anything system related at the time.

I guess a lot of this boils down to, it's okay not to care. It's okay to go with the flow of things and figure out at your own pace. Identity is fluid, especially if you have a dissociative disorder. You don't HAVE to have everything figured out 100% of the time.

It's okay to take it slow. It's okay to not know. It's okay to just exist for a bit. It's okay to live and experience things beyond being a system.

To all the people who are just starting to comprehend this. You do not need to know and label exactly what is happening in your head all the time. Fuck, we sure don't. And we're happier for it.

It's okay to just be you.

2024

DO IT SCARED

FUCK IT WE BALL

REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE CARE ABOUT YOU

MAKE THE CHOICE TO END HARMFUL PATTERNS

LOVE WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART

u heard da man

ok so this is the worst thing ive ever drawn

disloyal order of water buffaloes // pavlove

employees should be allowed to steal, actually

sometimes I feel like discord is lacking emojis and so I make them myself. these ones in particular are my favorites

frog, toad, and soup!

Feel free to use them if you'd like!

“Always got each other’s back”

ETERNITY | muse template

ok so i like did a thing ... yeah to use it just go to file > make a copy and edit it as u wish. please leave credit

( this is my call for an rpg. pls. i am begging u. i want to join an rpg so bad )

CG: I’M 6 SWEEPS OLD NOW, AND I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT!

he’s such an edgy teen…

(psst it’s transparent)