My Ancestors, Watching Me Dump An Entire Stick Of Cinnamon, Two Cloves, An Allspice Berry, And A Generous

i bet when wei wuxian and lan wangji are planning their wedding wei wuxian asks about sending mianmian an invite but then he's like "oh wait lan zhan, will it be too awkward for you to have your old crush at your wedding? i know it was a long time ago, but i want you to feel comfortable. we could invite her husband and child too-" and while he's rambling away lan zhan just stares dead-eyed into the camera like he's on the office

as funny as all those “lan wangji hates bugs” headcanons are, i actually love the opposite: lan wangji loves bugs. he can identify a beetle at a glance and he always takes a few extra seconds to admire the spiders that get into the jingshi that he scoops up before he puts them outside. when he was little there was an orb weaver that took up residence beside his window and he called her maiden spider for as long as she lived. they were a special interest of his for a solid few years before bunnies, and he’s still an encyclopedia of bug facts.

but you know who doesn’t like bugs? lan xichen.

so:

lan wangji, age 8, holding up a weird-looking cricket he found: xiongzhang look

lan xichen, age 12, sweating bullets: how nice, wangji

fake dating to lovers is nice but married for non-romantic reasons to lovers is next fucking level

txt’s cant you see me hits so much harder when you realise none of your friends understand and see that you’re falling apart or maybe they just don’t care anymore

wangxian’s reunions (episodes 11, 20, 28, 32, 2)

Wei Wuxian’s adventures in wooing Lan Zhan gift-giving 😂💝 | MDZS Q ep.09

Finja Brandenburg // unknown

JAY .:. BLESSED-CURSED MV — shooting sketch

Women in STEM (Sleepiness, Time for bed, Extremely comfy sheets, Mattresses)

a child with an undiagnosed mental illness: I think I need help. I struggle with things nobody else seems to be struggling with.

a parent who never got diagnosed for the exact same mental illness: Oh sweetie. EVERYONE struggles with that :)