Hey (with The Intention Of Pinning You Down Into The Bed Spreading Your Legs Eating You Out Till You’re

"Well hi there little one" with the intent of pinning you down and having my way with you

She's a 10 but she gets wet when you’re mean to her

77 and 92 from the ask because I’m feeling romantic

77. Ever been in love?

Yes, with 3 women

92. Do you want to get married

Already done marriage at 17, we never divorced as she died in 2009

Don’t let the glasses fool you. That sweet nerdy guy is very freaky.

concerning age gaps <33

Intro Post

Name: Alex

Age: 41

Pronouns: He/Him

Location: UK

(Though I have D.I.D (and yes its diagnosed) so this can fluctuate to they/them)

I’ve been on Tumblr for a long time, possibly as long as its been around in various incarnations, I also have a secondary blog which is more socially acceptable. I have to appear normal now and again after all.

I’m literally old enough to be your father and admittedly I enjoy this fact. I also have children older than you. Don’t forget these two facts. They’re very important in remembering who I am fundamentally. I’m also very much single these days.

Secondly, I’ve been in the kink scene for quite some time, over two decades in fact, so I know what I’m doing, I’ve watched grown, and evolved, new kinks created and some disappear.

Which therefore makes this an 18+ zone, minors please DNI.

Thirdly this is all very much rooted in fantasy, imaginary what ifs, the things I enjoy or that get me hot. However, CONSENT is critical, therefore I would never practice without a conversation long before anything happened. Kink is fun and I’ve no problem pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable but some lines aren’t to be crossed. Safe and consensually crazed is my wheel house. This is very much a fantasy place, they just happen to be mine.

I also run an 18+ kinky discord and we have a lot of fun there with more planned as we grow.

Kinks: Its probably shorter to list what I’m not into, and they can change depending on who I’m playing with. But constants are CNC, DDLG, R@PE PLAY, ROLEPLAY, FREE USE, SPANKING, CREAMP1E, FORC3D BR33DING.

Limits: Scat … just no.

The point of this post is a little get-to-know-me. Feel free to ask questions on anything else you may wish to know I have an ask box after all.

NOT OPTIONAL!!!

PSA:

AFTERCARE IS CRITICAL!!!

Thank you. bye

Repost from Old Blog

It’s a philosophical day apparently but there’s something that’s long bothered me.

The “daddy” title has become more and more popular, but it is far more than a title that’s cool or sounds good during sex.

The title of “daddy” is a responsibility its kinda in the word itself. It comes with responsibility it’s actually in essence a parental role. You can’t just dip in and out when it suits.

Yes it’s hot when they’re whimpering daddy, but it’s also a reminder that they give you absolute trust, that you will be there when they’re alone, afraid, scared, need guidance. If you don’t want that level of responsibility then be smart and stick to less formal titles.

I’m an actual parent have been for 20 years and I didn’t allow girls to use daddy for me until I actually understood the responsibilities that come with it. That I’m as much responsible for their well being as a person as I am for their pleasure. That it isn’t a choice between the two, that I can’t half ass being a daddy dom.

It is a simple fact that if you can’t handle the responsibilities out side of sexual gratification then don’t use the damn word. They are seeking comfort and safety, guidance and security, and not giving both sides is just more damage and suffering.

A daddy dom(me) is supposed to end the cycle of suffering not make it worse. Of course we make mistakes and get things wrong but communicate, as adults, put the dynamic aside and talk through your issues. Be adult, be smart and be responsible.

A daddy is a responsibility not a throwaway word during sex.