Concerning Age Gaps

"kill them with kindness" no kill them with the knowledge that they fucked up and will never know my kindness again

Intro Post

Name: Alex

Age: 41

Pronouns: He/Him

Location: UK

(Though I have D.I.D (and yes its diagnosed) so this can fluctuate to they/them)

I’ve been on Tumblr for a long time, possibly as long as its been around in various incarnations, I also have a secondary blog which is more socially acceptable. I have to appear normal now and again after all.

I’m literally old enough to be your father and admittedly I enjoy this fact. I also have children older than you. Don’t forget these two facts. They’re very important in remembering who I am fundamentally. I’m also very much single these days.

Secondly, I’ve been in the kink scene for quite some time, over two decades in fact, so I know what I’m doing, I’ve watched grown, and evolved, new kinks created and some disappear.

Which therefore makes this an 18+ zone, minors please DNI.

Thirdly this is all very much rooted in fantasy, imaginary what ifs, the things I enjoy or that get me hot. However, CONSENT is critical, therefore I would never practice without a conversation long before anything happened. Kink is fun and I’ve no problem pushing the boundaries of what is acceptable but some lines aren’t to be crossed. Safe and consensually crazed is my wheel house. This is very much a fantasy place, they just happen to be mine.

I also run an 18+ kinky discord and we have a lot of fun there with more planned as we grow.

Kinks: Its probably shorter to list what I’m not into, and they can change depending on who I’m playing with. But constants are CNC, DDLG, R@PE PLAY, ROLEPLAY, FREE USE, SPANKING, CREAMP1E, FORC3D BR33DING.

Limits: Scat … just no.

The point of this post is a little get-to-know-me. Feel free to ask questions on anything else you may wish to know I have an ask box after all.

date someone whose voice can make you calm… or wet… or both

"No kiddo, there's no condom, why would I wear one when you're so pretty? When I need to feel how wet you are for me!" All while you plead for me not to.

Pushes my cock inside you as slow as possible because I want to enjoy the feeling of sliding it in for as long as I can

What would a person need to do to have you take them as your Little or sub?

Come and talk to me and see if we get along

"Come on now sweetheart, use your words" while i bury my fingers down your throat

📢🚨Rant time, folks! 🚨📢

So, everyone know I’m all about that Daddy Dom life—caring, protective, making sure everyone’s having a good time and staying safe. But lately, I’ve been seeing way too many so-called "Doms" out here who are straight-up missing the point.

Let me just say this loud and clear: Being a Dom does NOT give you the right to be a jerk. I’m talking about those dudes who think they can just slide into someone’s DMs with demands or "orders" without so much as a "Hi, how are you?" first. Like, what happened to basic respect? This isn’t some fast-food drive-thru where you can just order up a sub or a little with a side of kinks.

Being a Dom means more than just barking orders—it’s about connection, trust, and mutual respect. You don’t get to bypass the whole "getting to know you" phase just because you’ve slapped a "Dom" label on yourself. That’s not dominance, that’s entitlement, and it’s toxic as hell for our community.

And don’t even get me started on the "faux Doms" who think they’re God’s gift to subs just because they can spout off a few buzzwords. Real talk? If you’re not taking the time to understand the other person, their needs, and their boundaries, you’re doing it wrong. This lifestyle is about creating a safe, consensual space where everyone involved feels respected and valued—not about feeding your ego at someone else’s expense.

To those of you who are new to the lifestyle, please take your time. Learn, listen, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. We’ve all been there, and there’s no shame in taking it slow. But to the "Doms" who are out here acting like the rules don’t apply to you? Knock it off. You’re making the lifestyle toxic, and it’s not okay.

Let’s keep this space safe, fun, and respectful for everyone involved. If you’re in it for the power trip, then you’re not in it for the right reasons.

Alright, rant over. Back to your regularly Daddy Texts content.

Stay safe.

Even if she hates her body, make sure you show her that you do not.

Repost from Old Blog

It’s a philosophical day apparently but there’s something that’s long bothered me.

The “daddy” title has become more and more popular, but it is far more than a title that’s cool or sounds good during sex.

The title of “daddy” is a responsibility its kinda in the word itself. It comes with responsibility it’s actually in essence a parental role. You can’t just dip in and out when it suits.

Yes it’s hot when they’re whimpering daddy, but it’s also a reminder that they give you absolute trust, that you will be there when they’re alone, afraid, scared, need guidance. If you don’t want that level of responsibility then be smart and stick to less formal titles.

I’m an actual parent have been for 20 years and I didn’t allow girls to use daddy for me until I actually understood the responsibilities that come with it. That I’m as much responsible for their well being as a person as I am for their pleasure. That it isn’t a choice between the two, that I can’t half ass being a daddy dom.

It is a simple fact that if you can’t handle the responsibilities out side of sexual gratification then don’t use the damn word. They are seeking comfort and safety, guidance and security, and not giving both sides is just more damage and suffering.

A daddy dom(me) is supposed to end the cycle of suffering not make it worse. Of course we make mistakes and get things wrong but communicate, as adults, put the dynamic aside and talk through your issues. Be adult, be smart and be responsible.

A daddy is a responsibility not a throwaway word during sex.