please make sure that wherever you’re at in life, you don’t treat it like a transitory period. don’t waste your college years wishing to already be graduated & have a job. don’t waste your single years wishing for someone to be in love with. if/when those things come, they will come in due time and they will be good. but there is nothing like looking back and feeling empty because you wasted literal years ignoring what you had because you were hoping for something better. while it’s important to better yourself and reach for your goals, don’t neglect the present because that’s where you are now and it’s your now that determines your future.
“Not loving yourself back is also unrequited love.”
— Tablo (Blonote)
While cleaning your attic, you find a box of glass balls with names on them. You accidentally drop one, and as soon as it shatters, a person appears.
You see the person they could be and not the person they are. That is why you pour your heart into everyone you meet.
That is why you are so empty.
- you are a studyblr
- you are super friendly
- you love when people message you
- you want to support everyone in the community
one thing i love about this community is that it is one big family and everyone is ready to support eachother. reblog this and follow the people that also reblog and start some super cute supportive friendships because you all deserve the best
gentle reminders for when you relapse
- forgive yourself, it’s not your fault
- you’re doing your best and I’m proud of you
- try to do activities that match the opposite of your emotions
- see yourself from an outside perspective, like what you would say if your friend was in your situation
- focus on your health, like keeping hydrated
- if you could heal before, you can heal again
- it doesn’t feel like it, but this is only temporary
- you’re doing well, you are loved and you are growing from this
“you are what you consume, media, tv, social media, everything, so be conscious about who you are making yourself.”
— phoebe-does.
To all the girls with big dreams, who have been told that they are ‘too preoccupied with success’, or that they are ‘too selfish’ or ‘too ambitious’ - do not listen to the people who speak those words. If you love something that much, and will pursue it to the ends of the earth, do not give it up for anyone. Hold it close to your heart and understand that you are not obligated to dim your sparkle for anybody. In your life, there will always be people who tell you that you are too much or too little. They will say a woman is too assertive, or too reserved. They will say she feels too little or too much, that ambition is selfish. They may even be hurt or offended that you do not think the same. Yet at the end of the day, know in your heart that you are the only one who will ever know whether you are truly enough and that is what’s important. Go out there and smash the glass ceiling to pieces.
how it feels being swarmed w responsibilities but not having enough executive function/motivation too deal w them