my theory is that a lot of "autistic behaviors" are just behaviors that anyone would do if they were no longer masking, like theres a lot of "queer behaviors" that are just due to people not caring about social stigma or judgement and just being comfterble as themselves instead, like wearing dresses, vibrant colours, being "weird", being flamboyand, etc.
like i never wear jeans or tight socks, not because the texture is bad and triggering my sensitivety, but just because its way more comfterble wearing baggy pants and wooly socks [and thats true for everyone]. And hey, society already thinks im lazy and stupid, so why not wear something more comfterble that society also thinks is lazy?
also liking specific animals, everyone deep down has a specific animal they like and think are cute, but just never play into it, because society deems that as "childish", "unaware", "stupid", hell "intimate", etc.
But us autistic people no longer care about stigma or judgement, we just do what we think is good for ourselfs, like wearing baggy pants, having fun with your friends, having a favorite animal, quitting a job for a better one, having long hair as a boy (and gender swapped), even one of the most cited autistic behaviours (having a media you really like) is just due to not caring about stigma, its not due to weird behaviors or autistic people being "stupid" and "lazy" and "childish", its just due to having fun, and not caring what people think.
this isnt google
grinch and onceler french-kissing passionately
i like how pukicho deals with politics, we should tell more bigots to go kill themselves tbh.
denmark isnt here, you know what that means, its even more invadable now.
oh i didnt see you came out since now, congrats du(o)de!
So the uk law states that im now a legally a woman instead of a (trans) man.
bring it, bitch.
the video that makes your video lag so much it pauses permenently at the start of watching it (its an image with fidget buttons)
ok lets try to flip it, a terrorist donates all their money to charity, does that mean terrorism is good? Fuck no. lets say even 50% of terrorists donate to charity, does that mean the other 50% is good? FUCK NO, lets say 99% of terrorists donate just some amount of money in their life, does that mean all terrorism is good? well its certainly warranting an investigation, and proper tax deduction for the 99% that did it, but it does not make terrorism good.
the only difference [that isnt it being flipped] is that the non-survival crimes among immigrant isnt anywhere NEAR 50%
its always funny when people say "lgbtqia+ is based on sexuality" because like dude the only ones that even include sexuality (and are commonly used) is just LG and B, like three of them. And even then, asexuality IS about sex in-normativity, being about not having sex. Just like how the world was straight sex themed back in the day and people were homophobes, the world is about sex themed and people are acephobes, or even transphobes (because oh that isnt based on sexuality). Like lgbtqia+ is just a group of groups whove been hated due to something they cant control, and isnt hurting anyone.
the more I get back in my habit from 2018-ish of searching "asexual" on blogs before I make a habit of interacting with them frequently, the more I realize that a lot of people started to reblog way less aphobia circa 2018, but without literally any sign of their opinions on asexual people changing, or making any effort to include them.
and that's how we get the current tumblr climate. people doing a disservice to important stuff like sex positivity or kink at pride, by just regurgitating shit like "well sex is what makes us queer, you fucking prude." instead of, you know, actually talking about why sex positivity is important for a wide range of sexualities, or why kink at pride has a long historical context. or even bringing up the fact that policing/mocking people's relationship with sex just for being different than yours is just inherently bad in and of itself. the aphobia is still ingrained in this site, just subtler now.
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Apathetic worm
the terf arguement completely ignores intent, and instead arrests on gender. like first they'll start arresting mtf people, then ftm, then they will start arresting people who dont look feminine, then start arresting lesbians because they are in the bathroom with the ones they are attracted to, then gay people with the same logic -cut here to real quick say: UNITED WE STANT DIVEDED WE FALL- then women all together because they might be lesbian/trans [we cant know whats in their brains!!!], and then all immigrants because theyre "obviously evil tax payer stealers", and then black people all together because "they dont normally live here", and then people who arent high class because "the POORS dont know latin and dont know the words of god"
-second interruption to real quick say: UNITED WE STANDD DIVIDED WE FALL-
Now youve conquered everyone, the only last people standing are cis straight high-class white males, what now?
no, im not talking about mana or aura or some shit like that. im talking about how way too many neurodivergent people only use binary descriptors for if they're tired, instead of using a fluxuating descriptor to show how tired they are.
and also people dont properly explain what type of tired they are; if theyre tired from people or physically tired
pro tip: "energy" is best to have 0% be litterally falling asleep on the spot, and 100% is if you woke up in a nice warm day and got some adhd medicine and you slept a full 8 hours
idk i love seals and spheals. i want to become a zoologist, but i cant pronounce z, you zee my problem?
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