Healthy Romance Starts W Friendship

with midterms being tomorrow and living in michigan, i'm so damn grateful that i was able to go to a liberal college in a liberal city because as a trans person, i would not feel safe going to my high school in my hometown the next two days

Oh to feel silence in the woods. To lay down on the damp ground and feel consumed by the gentle heaviness of a forest falling asleep

This took me too fucking long. Anyway, like to charge reblog to cast

happy no but seriously imagine it eve everyone!!!!

ok but if letting your kid use a different name & different words & wear different clothing is scientifically likely to improve their health & happiness and lower their risk of suicide, whether or not they change their minds later….does it really matter whether you personally “get it”? does it even matter if you’re comfortable with it? 

if you’ve got all this science telling you that letting your kid do these things is going to make them happier & healthier than not letting them….then just tell them it’s ok. 

it’s not your kid’s job to be the child you wanted. it’s your job to make choices that allow them to be the happiest version of themselves. make sure your kid knows that you will love and support them no matter what gender they present as. make sure they know they don’t have to hide. 

i could get so much done if only i could get stuff done

college is like. i am the stupidest person in the world. i am a god. i am universally loved. these people only tolerate me because they live with me. everyone in this library desires me carnally. i am repulsive. i am myself. i am as far from myself as i have ever been. i am an adult and i have never left the womb.