I’d Say You Were A Little Loud

This is a post I’ve wanted to make for a while. What with a lot of the discourse.

AGABpunk people with OCD, with intrusive thoughts about morality, you are not terrible people. You are not terrible people for feeling most connected to being transfem, or being transmasc, or being cis. Even if your assigned gender doesn’t “match” what is expected for those labels. You’re also not a terrible person for self-assigning an AGAB. Or for using neoAGABs. You have committed no crime and you don’t need to do “penance” or otherwise make up for your identity.

This goes for if you’re intersex. This goes for if you’re perisex. This goes for if you’re unsure if you’re intersex or perisex.

You don’t need to apologize. You don’t need to do anything to make up for the fact that you exist. Your existence is good.

Fingolfin

The general idea that you cannot be transmasc if you're an AMAB enby or transfem if you're an AFAB enby. If you ask why, the logic essentially boils down to "you're not actually transitioning". Because nonbinary men and nonbinary women are actually just cis men and women, right?

this is exorsexism.

these arguments are messed up in many ways. it implies that afab people are feminine by default and amab people are masculine by default which is bioessentialist. it's not that uncommon for someone to be an amab tomboy or an amab femboy, realise they're nonbinary and then feel comfortable with femininity and masculinity respectively, so they might identify as transfem or transmasc. there's also more than one kind of masculinity or femininity, transitioning from binary masculinity/femininity to nonbinary masculinity/femininity can absolutely count as transmasc/transfem if that's how the person identifies.

also for the one millionth time: intersex people exist.

It was Shrek's anniversary yesterday!

And it's Shrek 2's anniversary today!

Congrats, everyone!!!

Thought I'd use this opportunity to show you all my favourite pieces of my female universe Shrek fanart💚

I'm so happy these movies exist🥰

More of my Shrek fanart here✨

The fact that nonbinary and genderqueer people assigned male at birth (and more people, but it's hard to sum up a diverse group in one phrase) are so hyperinvisible really sucks.

Like the fact that there are so many posts like "oh you thought they were men but they're actually butches" but no one ever acknowledges that there could be femme gays who look like women. Transfemininity is forced into a binary of "cis man who's kind of fruity" or trans woman with no consideration for anyone who lives on the spectrum between the two or outside of it. Like people will make room for "not a woman but yes a lesbian" (dgmw they don't respect trans butches and lesbians, but they'll acknowledge they exist and pay lip service (even if it sucks, I'm talking you "non men loving non men")) but no one ever considers people like me who are the mirror image of: not a man but yes a fag (there isn't an equivalent word even that isn't a slur, reclaimed or not). People effectively deny any nuance or gender exploration to those they view as "male" while patronizingly pseudo acknowledging that of those they view as "female" and it sucks

I'm not a cis man I'm not a woman I exist not every nonbinary person is "woman lite" (and treating nonbinary people like that is shit on its own)

this is exorsexism.

First Felon is kidnapping and trafficking.

#LanguageMatters ✨️racism✨️💫

I made this for day 2 of Femboy February but the first one only got 2 likes anyway

Ides of March, but instead of Caesar, it's Annatar