Kink culture isn’t liberation. It’s the pornified, capitalist, patriarchal repackaging of male violence, sold back as liberation. Whats up with u eroticising ur subjugation and calling him daddy while he chokes you like a victim in a femicide case? Strangulation is the first predictor of domestic homicide, but sure, slap a safe word on it and call it empowerment
sure have your neoliberal “choice” bullshit but consent under patriarchy is coerced by default… conditioned from birth to submit, to please, to accept pain as sexy
its pumped into every aspect of mainstream media, normalizing it so thoroughly and, no, im not about trying to policing your sex life it’s about recognizing that if your pleasure depends on the ritualized humiliation of women, then your pleasure is political, and your politics are shit
idk interrogate ur desires
when women’s oppression gets brought up, i can’t stop admiring men’s unwillingness to admit that their “suffering” isn’t caused by women.
“men die at wars😞😠” and guess who’s sending them to wars! and guess who made it so that historically only men can go into the army!
“we aren’t allowed to express our emotions😢” or what? you won’t fit the standard of a strong heroic man? who made that standard?
“women are gold diggers😒why must i pay for you at the restaurant?🤨” who set up the system in which women had no income and were dependant on their husband?
bro. i’ll tell you why your hand is hurting and bruised. that’s because you keep punching women in the face.
Conservatives cosplaying as Christians when faced with someone who actually follows the teachings of Jesus Christ:
amazing radfem talking points happening on the threads app
I cannot believe what I am about to say, but radical feminism is healing me.
I’ve been suffering from an eating disorder (an0rex1a) nearly all my life, my first worries about weight started when I was 9 years old and slightly chubby (and people made sure to point out that was bad).
More than a year ago, I reached my weight goal of 45kg at 175cm (99 lbs at 5’9"), and I thought I had made it. Finally, I became undeniably skinny, skinnier than most, the smallest I could be without dying, and therefore worthy.
Spending my days faintly, mostly sleeping, unable to work, study, or read, I thought that made me better. That my endless suffering meant I was worthy of true love, admiration, and all the better things in life.
Looking back, I am sad for my past self. For the first time in my life, I am making an effort to gain weight, to gain my life, my capacity, my abilities. I gained 7kg (15 pounds) in a year, but most of it came after reading (and taking it in—which took months) radical feminism theory, and now, being in this community.
Now, eating breakfast worth of calories of my full day back then, I feel freer. I am genuinely stopping equating my worth to my suffering, not just pretending I do in front of therapists and psychiatrists—but from within.
I cannot stress it enough. I had never been this free in my life, and throughout the endless years of treatment, I was sure I was never going to heal; some therapists even declined to work with me, for I was deemed a desperate case.
Therapy has flaws, as it focuses on the individual, on our own actions, while radical feminism points out the wider problem—systemic oppression.
The problem was never me.
everyday i’m grateful i’m not religious/forced to be religious. i love the freedom that comes with not praying to a magic man in the sky with bullshit rules that restrict my autonomy 🙏
edit: this doesn’t apply to all religious and spiritual practices as i know some feminists do practice these things!!!
I hate organised religion and I'm tired of pretending that I don't.
”i’m just a girl.”
No, actually, you’re an adult woman who’s intelligent, capable, powerful and has a fully functioning brain that is way too old to be likening itsself to a child. Grow the fuck up. You make mistakes because you’re human and not an innocent child.
It's not progressive to say "women are oppressed so they should be brutalized in films for the sake of realism". Hate to break it to you, but most men are sadistic towards women, not empathetic. The male film director who recycles the violent pornography he’s consumed isn’t challenging anything. He's only desensitizing an entire audience to cruelty against women.
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