Saw That Post About Transmascs And How Ppl Need To Talk More About Vaginal Atrophy And How It's Easily

We produce too much of the wrong stuff.

progress pride flags!

row one (left to right): bisexual, singulussexual, butch.

row two (left to right): gay, nblnb, lesbian

row three (left to right): abrosexual, asexual, bear.

row four: pansexual, aromantic asexual, aromantic.

singulussexual is still pretty obscure so please ask me in messages.

Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are.

St. Augustine of Hippo

The lack of agreement across brands on what “extra firm tofu” is is, in fact, very high on my list of unimportant problems.

having audio processing issues is so humiliating like yeah i heard you and yeah i was actively listening but the problem is i dont know what the fuck you sayed

more dating advice:

often times the thing a shy person needs to extend themselves a little and show you more of themselves is for you to extend yourself first, show yourself first, and make a safe staging ground for the shy person to emerge— which requires a certain amount of vulnerability and bravery on your part

that vulnerability can be repulsive to people who find vulnerability triggering, but that repulsion isn’t a reflection of you or anything to do with you and encountering that repulsion shouldn’t be taken as discouragement or negative judgement

most people who date don’t want to actually partner up with another human being and create a loving connected relationship with that person, they want to float in a sea of mostly positive feelings that make them feel better about their image of themselves

being vulnerable and brave and real has the power to jerk those people out of the fantasy. it forces them to identify themselves (and to bail) and to stop wasting your time.

other people experience great relief and warmth and increased connection upon encountering someone who can be real and can treat the relationship like it’s real

those people provide a very good baseline to start an actual romantic relationship with.