june is approaching and so are the insufferable exclusionists trying to make aros and aces seem inherently homophobic cringy people.
so, as an aspec lesbian who would like to enjoy pride for once in her damn life i have a request to non-exclusionists:
-when you see a post made by an ‘ace’ person that is so Obviously Bad and awful and Homophobic and all in all Problematic in Every Way, it’s very possible it wasn’t made by an asexual person but instead a piece of shit trying to demonize asexual people. if there’s a comment that says ‘this is why everyone hates asexuals’ ding! ding! aphobic asshole detected! please don’t reblog the post.
-if a post talks about how aces are better than allos and think we’re purer or whatever, that’s a troll. almost none of us think like this.
-if an ‘ace’ person refers to themselves as ‘acey’ or ‘asexy’ that’s probably a troll. while they were words we used to use exclusionists took them and user them to mock us and call us cringy. most of us don’t like using them because of this.
-if an ‘ace’ person calls allos ‘dirty allos'or ‘dirty sex havers’ that’s a troll baby! exclusionists refuse to understand the definition of asexuality, or that a lot of us enjoy sex.
-if you see a post made by an ‘ace’ or ‘aro'person that’s complaining about pda in pride, that’s a troll! if an aro or ace person feels uncomfortable we’ll just leave. we don’t go around yelling at people about pda. a lot of us like it in fact.
so in conclusion if you see a post made by an aro or ace person that’s too bad to be true, it probably is. please don’t put these people in my dash, it ruins pride month for me.
DO NOT DO THIS.
This makes me so angry.
If you work in a movie theater and you do this I have no respect for you.
My younger brother is Type 1 Diabetic.
When we go to a movie theater, we always get him diet soda. If he were to get regular when we asked for diet, we would not give him the insulin he would need for it. If that happens, his blood sugar level could go so high he could go into a coma, go blind, or even die.
If somebody gave him regular soda instead of diet without telling us, that person could be responsible for a nine-year-old being killed or blinded.
Just thinking about that makes me so angry. I get scared every time we take him to a movie in case the people working there saw this picture and decide to do the same thing.
Please signal boost this so people know.
Hell Yeah I do, I just get so fed up with the world.
@ fellow people who have shitty vision, y'all ever just take your glasses off after a long day bc you’ve had just about enough of seeing things
March 2019 Illustrations ヽ(• ‿•)ノ
Hells yeah it’s important
theres no url bc god made this post
I need these
self-care reminders
same as @artbythedarkside
Hot takes that will probably get me called a bigot on this hellhole
tearing up because i’ve been very close to the person op followed, and i’m damn glad that i didn’t manage to kill myself
Trying to prove a point to global warming
I have no contribution but I had to share this wonderful mess of kick-ass art
anyone please ask your crush out like this
so many cute cats
American Shorthair Knight
Abyssinian Bard
Norwegian Forest Cat Shaman
Persian Scholar
Bombay Assassin
Sphynx Fighter
Scottish Fold Warrior
Bengal Archer
Turkish Angora Healer
Maine Coon Berserker
Siamese Magician
Russian Blue Thief
more by Kyoung Hwan Kim
Am desperate
update: didn’t work
when u scratch a cat’s chin and they lift their head up reblog if u agree
So soft
where is that cat with the kind and reassuring face
Lol I love this
Oh, Canada. (via annascottpiano)
I wish I had this kind of family, but also? Congrats dude/ett
So i just came out to my dad abt being nb, and he said something really wise about names, i think.
He said “Gifts are not obligations. You give things to people, and you hope they like them. And your name was a gift from us to you. If it doesn’t work for you anymore, you’re not obligated to keep it.”
and i just thought maybe other people could use hearing something like that.
Thank you for this, it is needed and Valid.
The “rules” can be different for every poly/non-monogamous people and their relationships, but some things are universal:
cheating is horrible and has nothing to do w/ polyamory
honesty and communication are KEY
we often have too much affection to give rather than not enough tbh
who tf has time for orgies everyday?? it’d be so tiring??? also some poly ppl are ace so??? yeah
That blade is MINE NOW thanks and I’m NEVER giving it back!
A good thread on whether “queer” is a slur and if it should be used or not.
i dont get offended at white people jokes even though im white because:
i can recognize white people as a whole have systemically oppressed POC in america, which is where i live
most people when they make white people jokes only mean the shitty white people and i am not a shitty white person
im not a pissbaby
Trans guy runs up and grabs both person and flag
Runs back to LGBT+ side
Ties Ace flag onto LGBT+ flag
“You are valid and belong with us.”
YES, cry your eyes out if you need to, and quit repressing what you are feeling!
PLEASE REBLOG if you (male or female) believe it is perfectly okay and natural for a guy of any age to cry
And I dont mean if youre like “yeah, I’d date one because sometimes they still have sex” I mean reblog if you’re okay with having a relationship without any sex involved. I don’t mean a relationship without love because there are other ways to display affection and love just without sex. That’s it.
You were visited by the magic kitten of rest. Reblog to have a good night’s sleep.
what @beaniebaneeine said
shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.
Yesterday was World Hijab Day, did you help to end discrimination? I did and here I am in my new Hijab.
You do you and haters can fuck off!
This is why I don’t tell 99% people im bisexual
Here’s to everyone fighting their own battles.
Here’s to every brave warrior.
Here’s to you.
Here’s to me.
I’m trans so reblog every day
let’s see how many transphobics we can weed out