Most common responses I get when I post any sort of cluster B positivity:
An extensive trauma dump in an attempt to validate their hatred towards us.
"You sound like a narcissist"
"You're just trying to manipulate us but we won't fall for it"
"This is really invalidating to actual trauma survivors"
"This is why people don't like cluster B's"
"Part of supporting someone with a cluster B disorder is by not enabling their abusive behaviour"
"I'll only support cluster B's if they get help"
Assuming that my opinions are based on a lack of research.
A looooong response about how trauma survivors need to stick together that promptly gets deleted when they realise I myself have a cluster B disorder.
*Posts to r/fakedisordercringe*
Tries to justify the exclusion of an entire group of trauma survivors because "we need to keep ourselves safe from people like you"
how the world feels about cluster b
bpd: need me a bpd girl ahah mood swings hahaha crazy girls with daddy issues
npd: a narcissist is anyone who is mean to me ever and i sense them with my Empath Eyes
aspd: exclusively serial killers and psychopaths, they are so evil and terrible
hpd: what the fuck is that
npd culture is seeing someone mass reblog/like my posts and getting a narc high because yesss they love me they liked all of my posts and then followed me they see how important and special I really am
-feral (if not taken)
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scrolling the npd tag and scoffing at someoneās superiority complex while simultaneously thinking how iām so much better than them. Girl
āif youāre worried that youāre a bad person, donāt be! bad people donāt worry that theyāre badā <- seeing this a lot lately and i find it so goofy lol. itās always a waste of time to categorize anyone as an essentially good/bad person but also like. you can be a āgoodā person who agonizes over their choices and still end up making choices that are careless or cowardly or even deliberately harmful. the act of worrying doesnāt absolve you of shit bro
Some of you think bpd is the only pd and it rly shows lmao
"narc abuse has nothing to do with npd!!" "narcissism isnt npd" then please explain that to the other people in your community like this.
be real. its about npd. the other people in your community fucking argue so. narc abuse = npd and its fucking harming us stop pulling "nArc iS aN aDjEcTiVe!!" out of your fucking ass and grow up.
"Stop saying 15 year olds with weird interests are cringe, they're 15" this is true however you should also stop saying adults with weird interests are cringe because who gives a shit
My fellow narcissists (people who have NPD) are one of the most loyal, resilient, and straightforward people Iāve met in my life. I know that our disorder is terribly misunderstood but hereās a reminder that we donāt have to align with unfair treatment pwPDs receive within the mental health advocacy community.
Itās okay to love your narcissism, itās okay to appreciate the positive and beneficial attributes and qualities it gives us. A lot of us are incredibly protective of our friends, more than a non-NPD individual will ever be - because our disorder makes us so. A lot of us are helpful and incredibly caring individuals because of our NPD, and those closest to us can feel this blanket of care and protection settling over them. A lot of us are self-sacrificial (shocker.) because of our NPD, passionate because of it, or have other pleasant, beneficial, good qualities of character amplified because of our NPD.
Iāll make a rough guess and say that one of the most pleasant people youāll ever meet are probably narcissists, because it benefits us to be liked, not all of us thrive off negative attention. So, hold your sanism. And to my fellow pwNPD, I love you.
adhd + questioning npd culture is hyperfixating on npd and over analyzing your thought processes instead of taking care of basic needs and responsibilities or engaging with other people
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why does npd make me a massive fucking hypocrite like damn iām judging somebody for doing something i literally do myself ?????? the fuck ?????
Crow | 29 | System | Diagnosed BPD | Questioning NPD | Physically Disabled
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