Guys, Intent Isn’t Magic. This Matters When We Talk About Males In Female Spaces Regardless Of What

Guys, intent isn’t magic. This matters when we talk about males in female spaces regardless of what they are for. I’ve talked about it before, but when I was in my dv survivors group, I had male cofacilitators that led or helped lead the group. I’m sure these men believed they had good intentions. But their actions and their presence had the same result as any other male in female space. It stunted discussions, stunted growth and stunted solidarity. I lost count of how many of us would talk more before and after group than during. So I’m sorry, but I don’t care what a males intentions are or what their thought process is. This is actually still entitlement and males don’t belong in female spaces

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2 months ago

It's so upsetting to see post after post about girls and women being unhappy with their appearances, mostly after facing judgement.

I'd like to remind you that your physical beauty, your appearance, is the least interesting, most boring thing about you.

How is your appearance going to help you get good grades? It won't, your knowledge will.

How is your appearance going to save the life of the victim of drowning? It won't, your knowledge will.

How is your appearance going to keep the conversation going? It won't. Your knowledge, interests, and personality will.

Saying you don't like yourself because your ugly is like saying you hate your birthday present because it got wrapped in ugly wrapping paper. It's on the inside that counts, that actually matters.

It's more than okay to be "ugly" or what society deems unattractive. Beauty is subjective anyway. You'll never win if you tried.

1 month ago
You Will Never Be A Woman Btw! Thanks For Going 100% Mask Off And Once Again Making It Clear Why You

You will never be a woman btw! Thanks for going 100% mask off and once again making it clear why you creatures don’t belong in our spaces. The transgender community continues to show us exactly why they aren’t safe around women and girls.

Sex is why women are opressed

Gender is how


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2 months ago

Can someone just do it already

1 month ago
Lefty Cartoons

Lefty Cartoons

1 month ago
Original Tiktok Post (go Support The Og)

original tiktok post (go support the og)

her name is adriana smith. she's been legally dead for 7 months and her body is being used as an incubator. shes been in a vegetative state and her body, without her consent, has been being used as an incubator for 30 weeks, 7 months now.

she died from medical neglect. and for those that say "it's for the baby", the baby isn't expected to live through childbirth, even before adriana died. her family will probably have to pay the medical bills (and likely funeral costs for both adriana and the child).

adriana needed a life saving surgery, but the doctors were more worried about a baby that wouldn't even make it more than the woman who was already alive.

some of the comments on the og video:

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3 weeks ago

“How are you going to enforce female only spaces? Genital checks at the door?!”

No, we were hoping that males would respect women enough to not enter our spaces. But thanks for being honest and admitting that you don’t think they’re capable of such respect.

1 month ago
Where The Fuck Did The Grass Go? The Color? The Leaves? The Contrast? You’re Telling Me The Left Isn’t

Where the fuck did the grass go? The color? The leaves? The contrast? You’re telling me the left isn’t Warzone or some shit?

The oblivion remake is a soulless, ugly piece of crap that completely disregards the vibrancy and whimsy of the original. I will never stop hating it 💯

1 month ago

did anyone else see the edward snowden interview in the guardian about two days ago where he said that most of the NSA agents doing checks through people’s data are men aged 18-22 and that when they access photographs of attractive women naked they all send them to each other for reasons that are 100% not professional

like, if you have naked selfies on your phone, even if you have never sent them to anyone or moved them anywhere, these fucking mouthbreathers could be downloading them and sending them to all their friends

1 month ago

"trans ally" gay celeb men like troye sivan and pedro pascal etc will wear "protect the dolls" tshirts and spend all their time on social media saying TWAW, but won't eat a transman's pussy. despite all their posturing, their actions show that they know transwomen are men and therefore deserving of their time and energy, whereas transmen are women and therefore a forgotten afterthought. the uk supreme court's ruling that sex is biological affected both transmen and transwomen equally, and yet i have seen zero gay celeb men posting about how transmen are real men. it's allllll been about the transwomen.

no one has class solidarity quite like the male sex.

1 month ago

when people say that women in the entertainment industry who are sexualised are expressing their own sexuality, i often think of these youtube videos that came out when i was a teenager from the buzzfeed try guys of all people

in the first one, they get styled and photoshopped the way male celebrities do, and in the second they are styled, posed and photoshopped like female celebrities

their comments are surprisingly insightful

"there was nothing human about that, i was just an object"

"in an effort to photoshop you more to female standards, your look has gone from 'i will either murder or fuck you' to 'wont you please come fuck me?'"

when women are styled this way, they aren't expressing their own desire, they're embodying cultural stereotypes that say women don't have their own sexuality, they are objects for men to project their own sexuality onto. and when male sexuality is caught up in ideas of dominance and conquest, performing for the male gaze becomes consistently degrading

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