orang3cathaver

orang3cathaver

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orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

I just want to enjoy heavy music without songs about raping dead women/nuns. It is SO much more common than you’d think. “It’s supposed to be controversial!!” Is it really controversial when violence against women is so common?? This is why I only listen to girl bands

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

”I never see you in the club” I never see you having violent meltdowns alone in your room and hitting yourself but ok

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2 weeks ago
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On a call with our teammate in Afghanistan, I went to mute the café noise around me.

She stopped me: “I miss the sound of girls laughing in cafes. Please don’t mute it.” Smiling.

My heart sank. I left it on and just kept talking aimlessly. Anything to transport her for a bit.

— Sara Wahedi (@SaraWahedi) May 21, 2025
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2 weeks ago
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2 weeks ago

“How are you going to enforce female only spaces? Genital checks at the door?!”

No, we were hoping that males would respect women enough to not enter our spaces. But thanks for being honest and admitting that you don’t think they’re capable of such respect.

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

“How are you going to enforce female only spaces? Genital checks at the door?!”

No, we were hoping that males would respect women enough to not enter our spaces. But thanks for being honest and admitting that you don’t think they’re capable of such respect.

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago
From “the Case Against The Sexual Revolution” By Louise Perry
From “the Case Against The Sexual Revolution” By Louise Perry

from “the case against the sexual revolution” by Louise Perry

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago
Redeeming Moment For Crazy White Women Everywhere
Redeeming Moment For Crazy White Women Everywhere

redeeming moment for crazy white women everywhere

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

People be like, “Oh, you’re reducing womanhood to just having a vagina.”

And I’m like... yeah....

The fact I was born with a vulva was the entire baseline of the sexism I faced growing up and still face every day.

It’s not some abstract identity or feeling. It’s the brutal, physical reality that shaped how the world treated me from day one.

So don’t tell me womanhood isn’t tied to the body when that body has been the frontline of every fight I’ve had to survive.

I love my body, if I’m being honest: Like, thank you for carrying me through all this kind of love.

But it’s also just a body. It’s weird. It leaks. It gets sore. It’s lopsided and unpredictable at times, my back hurts a lot.

Because it’s human, my vessel, not my whole story.

But unfortunately, outside factors have tried to disrupt that and tried to make me distrust this body.

Tried to convince me it was too much, too little, too wrong, too dangerous, too female.

They taught me to flinch at my reflection and to see my body as something to fix, cover, offer, or hide.

All because I have a vulva.

A vagina.

Labia.

Ovaries.

A uterus.

Tubes.

Mammary glands.

That’s all it took.

Not my words. Not my thoughts. Not my heart or how I treat people.

Just the fact that I was born in this body with these parts and suddenly the world decided what I deserved.

Pain. Shame. Control. Violation. Comparison. Dismissal.

They built entire systems to punish me for being born with organs I didn’t choose.

And then had the audacity to tell me I was reducing womanhood by naming the body they’ve spent centuries trying to control.

So yeah I’m a woman because I have a vagina.

Deal with it 💋

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

my unpopular opinion is that i hate tiktok because now people just publicly watch loud ass videos in public spaces with no regard for anyone else. 100% it was not this bad with youtube, it’s such a different thing with tiktok. put on headphones. you are grown.

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

idk y’all should treat fat men better. and i don’t mean mildly chubby guys i mean honest-to-god love-handles-and-double-chins fat guys. stop calling them shit like discord mods or gross weebs or nasty creeps or neckbeards or that they’re stinky or sweaty or beer bellied or whatever else. fatphobia isn’t cute, even repackaged in a neat little box of “ew men”

orang3cathaver
2 weeks ago

Misogyny on the Harry Potter sub is crazy. Everyone bending over backwards to villainize Hermione while defending Ron, James, Snape, Sirius, Draco, and every other dickhead in the series, ten bajillion “Umbridge is worse than Voldemort” posts and comments…this is why I stay away from fandoms.

And then a braindead post about Hermione being an insufferable, close-minded know it all today…yeah, I think you tend to seem like a “bossy know it all” when you’re the most intelligent, capable witch of your age and no one listens to you. Also calling her sadistic and cruel when she:

1: Manages to shut up a journalist whose entire career centered around discrediting, bullying, and lying about a teenage boy, half-humans who never harmed anyone, and an elderly man. Rita Skeeta stalked children for tabloid stories, ruined careers, and spread disinformation that massively delayed any widespread action against fucking wizard hitler.

2: Jinxes another student who sold out dozens of her peers, including her friends, to Dolores Umbridge, an actual sadistic freak who routinely tortures children. It’s fucking acne, Marietta will get over it.

3: Is jealous because the boy she likes is going out with someone else and being an insensitive asshole to her…? I think pretty much any teenager would conjure birds to peck at their longtime friend turned crush in this situation. It’s not like she fucking castrated him Jesus Christ 😭

And then people saying she’s unempathetic and mean spirited…the girl who wanted to help everyone, to her own detriment…

Hermione, they’ll never make me hate you.


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2 weeks ago
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2 weeks ago

Nightly reminder that JailBait won the best subreddit of 2008, meaning it was the MOST POPULAR subreddit and only eventually got banned years later to save reddit as a whole

Nightly reminder that when men get unlimited access to form a community with no rules, they will push the lack of rules to the depths of hell

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago
She Told a Guy She Worked at an Abortion Clinic. On Their Next Date, He Raped Her.
Clinic director Calla Hales was a victim of the extreme violence abortion providers face simply for doing their jobs and helping women.

I know Calla. 

This is disgusting and heartbreaking. 

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

men who hate feminism hate what feminism has done

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

‘the majority of men are good’

‘It’s only a few bad ones’

Then why have women be oppressed for centuries?

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

Instead of asking people "do you support trans rights", we should ask if they supports actual demands of trans activists. Because it's easy to support a popular label. The real test is to see if people are actually in favor of what lies behind it (just like instead of asking if people support feminism, we must ask if they're in favor of various womens rights).

A few examples of questions :

Do you support the right of male people to legally identify as women ?

Are you in favor of mixed-sex prisons ? Changing rooms ? Public toilets ? Support groups ?

Do you think medical treatment should be tested for a specific use before it's available for that use ?

How do you feel about taxpayers moey going to non-medically essential procedures for trans people who wants them ?

Do you think biological sex should be legally erased ?

Are you in favor of medical treatment preventing fertility for minor patients without medical problems ?

Do you think people should be able to dress however they want as long as it's not sexual in public spaces ?

Don't hesitate to propose your own questions. Doesn't have to be about harmful practices of the trans activists. Just has to be clear and objective points of trans rights.

The original idea for this post comes from @stumblngrumbl

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago
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3 weeks ago

hands up if middle aged white men scare you more than anyone else

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

When people earnestly claim that gender is the basis of discrimination against women but sex is not, and then claim that gender can be chosen, they are claiming that women’s suffering is self-inflicted.

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

men are literally out here making tiktoks that call all women who like to read PORN ADDICTS just bc some women like to read romance novels that have like 3% smut content. meanwhile like 95% of them are watching "teen slut gets anal gang bang by bbc" on the daily, which-as opposed to just being words on a page-involves the actual abuse of young women. and I'm supposed to NOT tell them to kill themselves in response...

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

i think the takes that have gotten me the most hate on here are:

children are people and it’s not appropriate to randomly insult them

smoking etiquette is generally context dependent and “this is rude” isn’t the same as “this is an unforgivable sin”

it’s not women and minorities’ fault that white men become nazis

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

natalie portman radiates such a terrifying energy i can’t describe it….. it’s not exactly evil but it’s not warm either…. i feel like she could unhinge her jaw and drag me into the ocean like a kraken but she wouldn’t bc it’s undignified 

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

A transgender man who went to Morocco was beaten by Moroccans

A Transgender Man Who Went To Morocco Was Beaten By Moroccans

why can't i stop laughing😂😂😂

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

Homophobic male violence isn’t funny. These are the same men who would beat a woman like this for dressing “immodestly” or rejecting their buddies. You should be able to express yourself however you want without fear of being attacked by a dozen men.

A transgender man who went to Morocco was beaten by Moroccans

A Transgender Man Who Went To Morocco Was Beaten By Moroccans

why can't i stop laughing😂😂😂

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

all these lonely young men need a sugar daddy, not a girlfriend

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

you’re delusional if you think there are any ethical ways for a woman to be sold like an object.

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago

crazy how every time a female character gets cliche misogynistic writing we have to explain to people again that fictional characters are not real and do not choose things for themselves.

orang3cathaver
3 weeks ago
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