If You're Holding Back On Being Masc Because You Think You Need To Be A Skinny White Man To Pass, Give

If you're holding back on being masc because you think you need to be a skinny white man to pass, give that the fuck up. Be big if you're big, be brown if you're brown, be assertive, take up space, be whatever the fuck kind of man/masc you are and stop waiting. Stop trying to diminish your power out of fear.

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2 months ago
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)
This Is A Remake Of An Old Episode Of My Webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)

This is a remake of an old episode of my webtoon (episode 63 -evolve)

4 months ago

his interactions tickle me


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5 months ago

having a degradation kink is so insane. i was having a hard time verbalizing what i wanted because he called me a “poor little thing” and instead of letting me recover, he doubled down: “god, i can’t believe you like being talked down to. that’s pretty fucking pathetic, only sluts like to be treated like this.” and then istg my eyes glazed over and i was GONE

5 months ago

A brief lesson on why relying on generative AI for sex ed is harmful:

A screenshot of a Google query showing the following search: do cis women like trans men

The search results read as follows: Yes, some cisgender men are attracted to transgender women, with a significant minority of heterosexual men experiencing sexual interest in trans women, though it's important to remember that attraction is individual and not all cis men will be attracted to trans women; some may even hold negative views about trans women due to societal biases. 

Key points to consider:

Individual variation:
Just like with any population, individual preferences vary greatly, and not all cisgender men will be attracted to trans women. 

Perceived femininity:
Some cis men might be attracted to trans women because they present with feminine characteristics that align with their personal preferences. 


Social stigma:
Some men might be hesitant to express attraction to trans women due to social stigma or misunderstanding about transgender identities. 

Misogyny concerns:
Research suggests that in some cases, attraction to trans women can be linked to misogynistic attitudes, where men may objectify or disrespect cisgender women while claiming attraction to trans women.

Okay Google, what the fuck is this?

This is so concerning... The Google Gemini AI overview is clearly so confused by the existence of trans men.

A screenshot of a Google query: "can transgender men have relationships with women"

Google's returned result is "An AI Overview is not available for this search"

I'm not sure if it's better or worse that Gemini isn't even trying to answer the same question, but rephrased.

A Google search query for: "Who do transgender men date?"

The AI generated overview is as follows: 

Trans men can date a variety of people, including women, men, and queer people, and their sexual orientation can vary: 

Women
Some trans men date heterosexual women. However, dating can be difficult for trans men, and some straight women may be looking for something they don't have. 

Men
Some trans men identify as gay and are primarily attracted to other men. However, trans men may have less success integrating socially within cisgender gay men's communities. 

Queer people
Some trans men date queer women, who may be less invested in a person's gender and sexual anatomy when choosing a partner. 

Lesbian community
Some trans men have histories with the lesbian community or feel they identify better with it. Many trans men have previously identified as lesbian, often as a "butch lesbian". 

Trans men can have any sexual orientation, including queer, pansexual, bisexual, or gay/same-gender loving. A 2015 survey of about 2,000 American trans men found that 23% identified as heterosexual or straight.

The phrasing "some straight women may be looking for something they don't have" rubs me the wrong way. Also, separating queer women from women in general is upsetting.

I'm conflicted on whether or not we should help Google with training Gemini, but considering how many people rely on Google for information, I've come to the conclusion that--for now--it is worth it to always hit the "thumbs down" icon underneath the generations that turn up poorly and describe in detail what's wrong with the result. 👎

After all, when we tell people not to ask offensive questions to transgender people, the usual advice is "Go Google it!"

As distrustful as I am of Gemini's results, most people that I've met are more than willing to accept its responses at face value. At the very least, the average user seems to accept it for a quick and easy surface level response.

The HRC and PFLAG have much better resources on LGBTQIA+ identity and how to support your loved ones.


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7 months ago

divinestray/divinemutt

(pt. divinestray/divinemutt end pt.)

A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, light silver blue, foggy grey, light foggy grey. There is a cat symbol in the middle of the flag with Siamese markings with a dark outline.
A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, light silver blue, foggy grey, light foggy grey.

Divinestray: a xenogender connected to strays and divinity.

A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, reddish grey, dark pale pink, pale pink. There Is a dog symbol in the middle with a dark point marking and dark outline.
A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, reddish grey, dark pale pink, pale pink.

Divinemutt: xenogender connected to divinity and mutts.

7 months ago

Hi I’m a newly discovered system and its been causing me a little stress that I (the host?) don’t experience blackouts or full amnesia, but then I read some of your old posts about feeling like everything’s in grayscale and emotional amnesia and was like “:0 that’s like me!”

I was wondering if you would be okay describing what it feels like when someone else fronts? That’s something I’m trying figure out for myself and maybe hearing other people’s experiences would help ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

(Also all the comics are amazing keep up the good work 👍)

Hi I’m A Newly Discovered System And Its Been Causing Me A Little Stress That I (the Host?) Don’t
Hi I’m A Newly Discovered System And Its Been Causing Me A Little Stress That I (the Host?) Don’t
Hi I’m A Newly Discovered System And Its Been Causing Me A Little Stress That I (the Host?) Don’t
Hi I’m A Newly Discovered System And Its Been Causing Me A Little Stress That I (the Host?) Don’t

so the uhhh. so the person fronting never really feels like they "disappear" or get pushed away it just feels like they Change Into A Different Person . but we still Exist while not fronting but nobody remembers what that's like because w. yeah no i don't get the technicalities of how this works i'm not worrying about it too hard

5 months ago

actually getting pregnant? no. bad. awful. I do NOT want that!!

having them grunt in your ear how they're going to knock you the fuck up like the worthless breeding bitch you are while they pound you into the mattress before cumming deep inside of you? YES. YESYESYESYESYESYES. LITERALLY NOTHING BETTER. YESSSSS. THE BEST. YES PLEASE!!!

4 months ago
Devil On My Shoulder

Devil on my shoulder


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5 months ago

not to be sincere on the horny blog but i think the reason so many queer masc afabs and transmascs like forcemasc content is because it feels like being finally listened to.

like we go through life getting told we’re just confused girls, or we’ll never be man enough, or we probably just didn’t want to be like mommy, or it’s because we’re mentally ill, or a host of other invalidations.

and then we read a post that’s about someone who wants to see us being more masculine —who sees it as a good thing. who says “just take the testosterone. this what you really want, isn’t it?”

and we say, Yes. Yes, it is what I want. Thank you for listening to me.

4 months ago

I love Wolverine so much I'm gonna make a wolverine fursona one day and join the mustelid army

description: a digital drawing of wolverine from marvel rivals and deadpool hugging. logan is squeezing deadpool close to himself. wolverine has deadpools ammo belt around his neck.

marvel rivals logan


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