Divinestray/divinemutt

change is nature. come back to your roots

Y'know, when cis people pull the 'All trans men have to do to pass is throw on a hoodie and cut their hair.' It's like... Right. That's dumb, but you're cis, and you will never understand the lived trans experience.

It bothers me more when trans women say it. Because it's like? You know things aren't that easy, you are trans.

Trans women get shoulder dysphoria from feeling like they're too wide, hip dysphoria from feeling like they're too slim, chest dysphoria from feeling like it's too flat, voice dysphoria from feeling like it's too low, height dysphoria from feeling too tall. And no one will suggest to them that these feelings (and subsequent perceptions and hate from cis people) will be solved by growing out their hair and throwing on a dress.

What makes them think trans men don't experience the exact same things but in reverse? Shoulders that feel too narrow, hips that feel too wide, chest that feels too big, voice that feels too high, height that feels too short.

If you experience dysphoria, know dysphoria, and know how awful it can get. And you also know that cis people will use these things against you in order to misgender you. Then I do not understand why you would pretend another party in the same category would not have these issues whatsoever.

And I feel the need to clarify, because this always happens when someone makes a post about trans men's struggles. This is not a dig at trans women, this is not transmisogyny. This is about a very specific group of trans people who downplay the issues of trans men. If you are not part of that group, good! Then this is not a dig at you.

“what if kids identify with something and it ends up just being a phase-?” good. stop teaching and expecting kids (and adults honestly) to formulate permanent traits and ideas of themselves. everything in life is a phase. that doesn’t make it any less legitimate while you experience it. let people explore themselves and know it’s okay if what you think about yourself changes.

stop fucking making kink jokes towards unconsenting people. (THIS IS ABOUT FORCEFEM)

ur all fundamentally fucking missing the CONSENSUAL part of CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT.

its not fucking funny. its fucking massively dysphoria inducing if the butt of ur joke is not fucking into that shit.

and also dont fucking assume that random men on TUMBLR are cis. this platform has the largest fucking population of trans people like jesus fucking christ.

trans men are awesome because you know that opening in boxers where cis men pull their dick out? yeah it’s also perfect for sticking my hand into and playing with their tcock until they can’t breathe

okay im gonna say it. if you're not transmasc, you don't get to have an opinion about forcemasc. personally it's not my thing, but again, if you're not transmasc it's none of your business. it's not your place to call it misogynist or say it's not a real kink or whatever the fuck. let trans men have one thing, the world doesn't revolve around you

DOG MOSAICS (From Italy and Greece ××)

Imagining these two making out after acrobatics practice

before i get busy with the comms, here are some drawings i made of spiderfist that were really liked on twt!!<3

an ode to testosterone weight gain

Op turned off reblogs but I think everyone should see it