Block Gaslighting:
Don’t tell me what happened, I was there.
Now on top of saying that, you claim you didn’t, that’s two lies in a row.
I heard you the first time. If you can’t stand behind your words maybe keep them in.
Do you honestly think I don’t have a working memory? I know exactly what happened
It’s a little late to revision the past now, don’t you think?
You don’t get to change the past, sorry.
Maybe if you wish thats how it happened, you should have done it that way? And not pretend later
You seem to think you can convince me that my memory is wrong. This will not happen.
Facts will stay the same no matter how many times you say that.
Don’t smile expecting me to take this as a joke.
Sure, except that’s not what happened.
Yeah, and then we all climbed on top of the easter bunny, sure.
Stop insulting my memory.
Regretful for you, I know what happened, maybe you should try convincing the dog.
Even you know it didn’t happen that way. Don’t lie.
And now how about you tell the truth? I’m tired
Tell the truth or leave me alone. You’re sickening.
I will not have you change what happened just because it makes you look better. You did what you did. It’s time to live with it, as I have lived with it. You don’t get a revision.
(Only use those in non-dangerous situation, I know a lot of abusers will turn more dangerous and violent if their gaslighting is rejected. You can still say these in your head to keep yourself sane. You can always, in 100% cases trust your memory over what they say happened. And know if they’re trying to get you enraged with their lies they’re only doing it because it’s easy to manipulate a person once they’re overwhelmed with emotions, keep aware that their words hold no ground at all.)
Take your attention away from your problem and the multitude of reasons why you cannot achieve your ideal. Concentrate your attention entirely upon the thing desired.
—Neville Goddard
Life works for me in unexpected ways!
I am blessed in every single aspect of life!
Failure doesn't exist in my reality,there is no choice but for my dr to happen!
I declare myself as SUCCESSFUL!!!
10.14.22 Instagram Services Artist credit at bottom of post Use these affirmations daily for a month and see the difference <3
PILE 1 "I live in the moment, embracing my mind with love & understanding. Having empathy for myself is a priority, so I'm always sure to be kind to myself. I'm at peace with the hidden aspects, what ifs, twists, & turns of life. Because I understand these are all just moments that serve a purpose in the grander scheme of things. I transmute my heartbreak into abundance. I am beautiful, I am sexy, my body is worthy. I love myself, even if others don't show me that love. Other's opinions of me do not affect me. It is only me who has say in my world. I retain my Autonomy at all times, only agreeing to what sits right with me in my mind, body, heart, and soul. My creative endeavours are abundant, people support my ideas, I have an abundance of creative energy and ideas. I am Goddess." Recommendations: Meditations, Dark Green colors & forest imagery, Earl Grey Tea, Sensually rubbing lotion on your body, removing calorie counting from your routine, Daily prayers to your higher self, Journaling, developing a healthy relationship with exercise, citrine, carnelian, cats claw bark If you want personalized advice on tapping deeper into the themes of this reading you can book a 15$ consultation with me! Some of you could have a mom who lives vicariously through you. Or you feel like you need to fill the shoes of a female figure in your life. Others of you could've had a Feminine Role Model who died and you want to dedicate your life to her. You deserve to explore, she wants you to explore too. Dedicate your life to living it in its fullness. perfection is not viable and also completely defeats the purpose of existing. Life is meant to push us to deeper understand ourselves. You don't have to nitpick every flaw, embrace who you are Pile 1.
PILE 2 "I am a force to be reckoned with, my words like swords or a storm that can shake the ground and whirl you around. I am also soft, I am kind, but I am wild- and I am free. I express myself freely, with no fear of judgement. I am well liked, and well recieved- my opinions, my beauty, my voice, and body are admired by all. I am a spectacle, almost like an illusion- the way I morph at will, because I am adaptable.. like water, but free- like the wind. I am everything, all encompassing. I respect my own autonomy, and others are forced to follow. No one would even dare disrespect me. I require only myself to thrive and find success. I plant my seeds and cultivate them with pride in knowing that I am God. I understand the intentions and hidden motives of others with ease. That which does not serve me is whisked away, and I move on quickly and integrate the lesson while prioritizing what actually serves me. I am filthy rich, my wallet is bursting at the seams, scarcity? I don't know her. People want to book me, they want to pay me, they want to pay respects to my beauty, talent, and wit." Recommendations: Pyrite, Rose Quartz, Marshmallow Leaf, Handheld mirrors, Pink Himalayan Salt baths, Ornate Jewelry, Sunbathing, Light Exercise, A special Hairbrush for your altar space. If you want personalized advice on tapping deeper into the themes of this reading you can book a 15$ consultation with me! You are literally so much better than the treatment you allow others to give you. Get rid of those shitty friends, pay attention to yourself! People might judge you because of your looks. Maybe you don't realize how beautiful you are. Who says pretty & talented people have to be shallow? Cut those people off, you deserve so much better. People who try to compete with you are insecure, they feel they can't measure up to your beauty and skill. You are graceful, kind, loving, and nurturing. Don't worry about the imbalance with those people, are y'all libras? Cut those bitches off! Focus on you. You are so youthful! You are naturally supported by the universe, people give you so many gifts & items because you are naturally attuned to a very venusian energy.
PILE 3 "Everything I cultivate is secured, I am the creator of my life. A master manifestor, my life is a canvas and I am an artist. Etching the lines of my wishes into the malleable canvas of the universe which supports my goals and wishes and births them into reality as I am an extension of the universe. I am source, and source is me. I am so decisive, I am beautifully and unbelievably graceful in nuanced and difficult situations. I approach difficulty with ease, I always know exactly what to say to quell and moderate any situation without burdening myself. People love how unique and strange I am, it's seductive, I have a natural funk to my personality that has people wrapped around my finger. I make clear and precise decisions, I know when to temper myself and how to remain calm. My emotions flow smoothly & freely, I process them with patience and love. I love myself, I appreciate being alone, I understand my worth. I protect myself from harm, and I know that I deserve nothing but the best. I move on from toxic situations, people, and places with ease. My strength and willpower is astounding, nothing and no one can stop me. Not even myself." Recommendations: Pinesol?? idk if u need to mop but get on that LMAO, Purple candles, yellow and orange makeup or clothes?, meditation focusing on your lowest 2 energy centers. (Root, and Sacral), dancing, try out new music, walk to the park more often. If you want personalized advice on tapping deeper into the themes of this reading you can book a 15$ consultation with me! You are literally soooo creative and cool, stop worrying about the shit other people have to say. They don't even know you, let people be assumptive and keep thriving. Try to upkeep your space a little better, I know some of you have ADHD or really bad depression + anxiety. Try to make things more manageable don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Be sure to be professional when approaching possible collaborators or business partners. Be you, but try to keep the cussing to a minimum. Someone might be able to quit their job at quiznos/subway soon and do something involving cars? One of you needs to get off your ass and MAKE THAT MUSIC VIDEO.
PILE 4 "I am the Queen of my world, I no longer live in fear of men or masculine expressions. I understand that I am so powerful, I am threatening to those who might try to harm me. I am divinely protected, my aura naturally deflects people with predatory intentions towards me. I am healing, being reborn- like a phoenix from the ashes. Those who caused me to suffer will see their reckoning in my evolution. I am no longer in agreement with victimhood, I see and respect my strength. I own the room, I control the flow of energy. I am not to be energetically imprinted upon by others. I choose when I wish to engage in conflict, or when I choose to walk away. Others have no choice but to respect my boundaries, and those who have harmed me fall to their knees and beg for forgiveness. I transmute the pain into passion, into protection. Fear is no longer part of my vocabulary, I take action. I have no need to fade into the background. I am in control." Recommendations: The color red, strut when you walk, try new fashion styles, pamper yourself, delete discord if thats where you talk to him, block him, private your socials, work out, begin your shadow work journey. If you want personalized advice on tapping deeper into the themes of this reading you can book a 15$ consultation with me! If someone doesn't see how amazing you are fuck them, because quite literally you are so much better than that. You don't have to be angry to fix things either, you deserve anger but not in a self destructive way. When I was 18 an older lady I was in jail with told me when I told her how I hated my mom for everything she did to me that I was swallowing poison at this rate. The only person my anger was harming was me. Put that passion into creative endeavours, demand respect, you have no need to lurk in the shadows anymore. You are a survivor, you don't have to be a victim.
PILE 5 "I am a powerful force of love and nature, nothing stops me from achieving my goals. I am in love with myself, my love, my power, my body, my mind, my soul, MYSELF. I function with confidence, I can feel in my body, in my bones, in my mind, in my soul, in my everything that my success is here. It is succulent and delicious, juicy like a fruit. Waiting for me to devour. All I have cultivated is growing beautifully, I am a walking Goddess. My reality bends to my will, it bends, and shapes itself to my liking I am deeply in tune with my femininity. My sexuality is a point of power, and expression. I understand my magnificence, and people frequent my business or appreciate my artistic expressions. They see my knowledge, wisdom, power, and want to engage with me. Give me their money, ask for my guidance and seek my acknowledgement. I am a powerful force, fame, fortune, fantastic experiences with only the finest, most luxurious food, clothing, items, and lifestyle is what's meant for me. I am the Witch, I am the pinnacle of individuality. People admire that about me, I am well liked and well recieved. I accomplish every single one of my goals with ease, while still having the time to relax and longue. I am motivated, I am healthy, I transmute the confusion, frustration, and bullshit into stability, money, and clarity. I am." Recommendations: Sweep your home and workspace with a cinnamon broom often, plant seeds of plants and herbs correspondent with your goals and cultivate them and care for them as you grow them to help feed into your goals. It's time to trip and do a spiritual bath for some of you, I recommend shrooms or acid. Dancing in the shower, hip heavy movements, fixing your posture, Create a weekly schedule. If you want personalized advice on tapping deeper into the themes of this reading you can book a 15$ consultation with me! Keep going I heard, please keep going, you're so close. Last stretch, you need to put in some extra work for the next 3 weeks. Develop a genuine schedule and watch it all literally transform. You are so amazing and interesting, people want to hear from you.
PILE 6 "I am above mediocrity, I am a QUEEN and I will be approached as such. I am powerful, I am beautiful, Men are lucky if I even look or nod at them. I owe no one my acknowledgement. I embrace myself, I approach conflict in a self advocating way. I simply cannot be put down, those who attempt to unfairly put me down. I understand my worth, and I realize that Nothing is going to break me down or cause conflict in my life without my consent. I am deserving of patience and kindness, and only accept when people approach me in a manner that is respectful and kind. Those who seek to tear me down or belittle me I simply don't make time for. I only require validation from self, I am beautifully complex & unique. Being in my presence is a privilege within itself. I flawlessly establish emotional and financial stability into my life. I am so deeply in love with myself and my success. I know I deserve nothing but the best." Recommendations: WARNING 18+ TOPICS- Touch yourself sensually, rub lotion onto your thighs and boobs thoroughly and lovingly, meditate, play your favorite game, go on runs, wear fuzzy socks, FACE MASKSSSSS, luxurious shampoos and conditioners and body washes, GHOST HIM!!! If you want personalized advice on tapping deeper into the themes of this reading you can book a 15$ consultation with me! You are not a doormat, you are a loving beautiful person. Put more time into really developing boundaries and self love because you deserve way better than you accept from others. Until further notice quit giving to those who don't give. Start positioning yourself to cut off people who are literally loose ends.
ARTIST CRED: Pile 1 @oyouun Pile 2 @dreambabyart Pile 3 @shawnax For some reason 4 & 5 I was completely unable to find :( but if anyone knows the artist PLZ let me know so I can credit them. Pile 6 SilllDA
there is something so beautiful and soft in looking at strangers and create, imagine, guess their lives, their feelings, worries, past and future.
☆LAST POST,THE FINAL ADVICE☆
(Basically answers to asks I got)
Ok first thing first there is no one here to help you manifest,not the bloggers,not me, no one,if reading multiple post on same topic can't help you then why do expect bloggers to help you who are gonna give you same advice,they have been mentioning on their posts. It's not like they are writing about different things,every bloggers are telling you the same thing YOUR 4D/imagination is the true reality,you just have to PERSIST and be CONSISTENT. No like seriously I really feel like you guys are just lazy,why are you depend on bloggers,Im not saying that you can't ask for help and by help i mean understanding certain concept or doubts but you straight up ask to help you manifest or coaching don't do that until and unless they themself mention about being a coach,because see we have a life of our own too,we are God but also human who are busy in their life. Bloggers post this amazing posts talking about law and how beautiful it is. But y'all are so into the victim mindset,as if you are the only one suffering,which is correct YOU are the reason you are seeing the person taking away your sp,you are so into imagining yourself in a broke state and dwell in it,because you feel comfort in it,get a bit uncomfortable dear,you'll endup being comfortable.
You cannot just get comfortable when you are transfered in a new school,new class and the new environment,you first adjust,you go to the school everyday and get used to the new environment then you get comfortable isn't it guys. Manifesting is exactly like this you get in the state of having the desire,it feels uncomfortable,fake,delusional but the more you persist the more you get used to this feeling of knowing. It's not even necessary to be in the state a 24/7,because we are in different state all the time,just when you remember about the desire get in the state or do whatever fulfills you.
No amount of methods won't be useful if you are not even persisting and keep look for 3d validation. To sum up everything all you have to to is persist. Bloggers won't be there for you all the damn time,most of you want to manifest being independent but with a mindset of a dependent person,who are depend on other's for method and doesn't even persist in it then cries,and trauma dump on other's dm.
There is no use of DMing us too you know,we as bloggers are the one end up getting bored or annoyed,because I'm telling y'all legit leave another method and come up with a new one,I have about 50+ dms and asks asking me how to manifest or trauma dumping telling me how they aren't able to manifest,dear of course you won't be able to manifest if you keep looking for validation. I'm not saying that your circumstances aren't that bad,it's probably really hard for you but darling,everyone had faced this challenge,it's hard but learn to ignore the 3D even if it was right on your face. Be stubborn when it comes to manifesting,it took me alot of time as well to adapt that mindset,so I read alot of fanfics where reader gets whatever they want this really got me into the brat mindset,you can also find methods or ways that you help you feel fulfill,I don't care what method you are using JUST DO WHAT FULFILLS YOU NOT ME,I've got alot of asking if they should do or this,you know honey do what you believe is gonna work for you,I'm not the one using that method,i purposely don't even reply because I want you guys to try it out yourselves. That's what every bloggers did too,they learn to trust themselves and their imagination.
OK here, since most of you ask me to help manifest I'm challenging you,for the next two weeks,affirm robotically for your desire,lazy to affirm? You shouldn't be,because majority of you complain about not being able to get in a state and endup saying you'll affirm,then do exactly that.
Wavering? Keep affirming and persist.
Don't believe the affirmations? Keep affirming and persist.
Seeing the opposite? Keep affirming and persist.
Make those affirmation your dominant thought,you will know when it will become your dominant thought when it come up on it's own and you don't get effected by the negative thoughts.
But Chrissy some say affirmation don't work. SO? Keep affirming don't be a weakling just because it didn't work for them doesn't mean it will not work for you,you are not them,you are YOU ,they probably didn't even affirm enough or probably checked their 3D,there are many successful people who affirm Jennifer Lopez,Ice Spice and my fav Taylor Tookes despite being petite she still become a model and even walk on runway and now in cover magazines,if they can do it why can't you,they also affirmed right? Not gonna lie majority of the successful people who are into manifestation are into affirming.
Also log out of X and Tumblr,yes it can be motivating to see success stories or reading motivation but they are of no use,you might see a new post talking about a new method and end up leaving affirming and start following that method. Instead you should've scroll on tiktok,or youtube or making vision board while affirming,it's way easier to then wasting your time here reading posts on same topic written in different ways or perspective. So instead just log out and affirm and PERSIST.
If you are so stubborn about the fact that you can't manifest,then start being stubborn about the fact that you can manifest.
This is now my last post I will be logging out might come to check in sometimes happy manifesting🪷.
"𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒂 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒆𝒖𝒎 𝒇𝒖𝒍𝒍 𝒐𝒇 𝒂𝒓𝒕. 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝑰 𝒂𝒎 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒆𝒕 𝒊𝒏 𝒔𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒄𝒉 𝒐𝒇 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏."
𝑨𝒗𝒊𝒋𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝑫𝒂𝒔
knowing your worth, having high self-esteem, being confident, whatever you want to call it, is important and impacts your well-being, mental health and life choices. we know this already. and it isn’t easy. but i want to talk about the causes of low self-esteem and exercises / tips on how to increase self-worth.
in this part i want to describe some basic concepts. in the next parts i'll talk more specifically about the actual self, ought self and ideal self.
Source: Chmielewski, F. & Hanning, S. (2021). Therapie-Tools Selbstwert. Beltz.
what if nothing I do fulfills me :(
you are fulfilled with the idea that nothing fulfills you. you are always fulfilled in something and this idea of “lack” is what limits you and your understanding of the law.
know you are limitless self who gets/experiences anything instantly
satisfy self using techniques (stop focusing on trying to get shit and instead focus on the feeling, the knowing that it really is yours) (and yes this feeling of knowing is possible even when you dont have physical evidence of it)
i also feel like if nothing fulfills you for a specific thing, maybe you are forcing yourself to desire this thing when you rly dont. a lot of times ppl in my dms tell me they arent sure if they want this one thing and thats why they cant feel good while imagining having it. do you really want this thing or not?
either way, focus on yourself. who is the version of you you want to become? be that. take your mind off seeking fulfillment and have fun with techniques and know that once you decide something, its done. thoughts, emotions, etc mean nothing.
I am such a DREAMGIRL!
Unbothered and Living my dream life🪞🪄🪐 WINNER MENTALITY BPSY'28 pronouns:A GENIUS!
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