it impacts it in the same way bipolar or ptsd does. that doesnt make bipolar or ptsd an identity.
why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?
being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such
yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as
we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.
you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?
steven: i’m crushing on someone, but i’m kinda scared to tell you who.
marc: just rip the bandaid off.
steven: it’s layla.
marc: put the bandaid back on.
welp here we go
me and my kitty going back to live with my parents' so i can start my longterm out patient program
lets get this shit started ig
Friendly reminder with Moon Knight coming out tomorrow;
While the cast have come forward to say they tried their best to portray this disorder, they still probably won’t get it completely. And that’s ok, because at least it’ll be better representation than anything else we’ve had (hopefully).
What won’t be ok is if any of you singlets out there start treating it like its not something that seriously affects a lot of people or if you start infantilizing one of the alters of the main character. There are so many of us systems out here who really want to enjoy this show but if a bunch of you non-systems decide to take this disorder and not do any proper research on it before talking about it you could be ruining so many of our experiences with this show. So please, just remember this show is portraying an actual disorder many people have and regardless of if you think you’re spreading good information or not always double check your facts with someone who actually has the disorder.
i literally thought that when marc and steven revived one another through their love and hugged each other, marc was going in for a kiss. i watched his motherfucking neck crane and i was like, oh god. it’s gonna happen. they’re gonna do it. arguably i got something even better!
i made a polycrows sims household and inej and kaz had a baby
nina and matthias both have loyalty issues though and keep getting jealous of each other's relationship with the others (specifically with inej)
wylan's the only one currently bringing in a large enough paycheck for them to pay the bills
jesper's constantly wanting to woohoo and milo (their dog) is kinda just there existing
ive decided im bored of them all living in the same house so im going to have an accident happen where jordie (the baby, currently toddler) drowns and have a major blow out over that between a few of the crows so i can move them out into seperate neighboring houses im working on preparing rn
maybe i just need friends 💀
sometimes we want to find sourcemates for no other reason than to send memes to
like me (stiles), jason (todd) and tim (drake) really be out here like gimme someone to send fuckin memes to and laugh about source jokes
you 🤝 us
having gishaverse introjects
our jesper age slides like its a slip n slide and our kaz takes care of him most of the time when hes not regressed, and our inej and aleksander are caretakers too
AGE REGRESSOR KAZ PART TWO
If Jesper and Inej are in the know:
-jesper would play with him (hc jes regresses to ~10-12)
-inej would be extra protective of her boys
-inej and jesper would absolutely dote on their boy like he needs a snack? jesper's on it. a drink? inej is already holding it
-they would take turns covering for kaz when it comes to work stuff
-jesper likes to tell him stories his mom used to tell him and inej likes to tell him the stories of her saints
-they sit right next to him so he can feel their body heats and know that theyre there even tho he cant deal with touch
-if theyre gone for too long he starts slipping younger and crying
-eventually they work up to being able to scratch his head (kaz deserves head scratches gosh darn it) and he absolutely melts into them
-jesper gets kaz a soft and warm blanket made out of a patchwork of brightly colored fabrics that match some of his outfits so that he always has a part of him with him
-jesper also makes little metal toys for kaz to enjoy
-inej tracks down sweets and
more stuffed animals for kaz to enjoy
-JESPER ABSOLUTELY GETS HIM A STUFFED GOAT NAMED MILO
part one
When both your labels have a stereotype of being a slut so you decide to just embrace it
I am now w h o r e
one of my least favorite parts of this disorder are the parts with different allergies and the parts that have different levels of good eye sight. like a) fuck the parts that can see without our glasses theyre so ridiculously lucky
and b) fuck the parts that are allergic to things and dont realize caus theyll caus a reaction that ends up triggering our mcas
im going to ask steven out after we get out of school today. debating on if ill get him a tea or coffee. probably a tea. i hope he says yes.
i really like him. hes so smart and kind. and he always gives the best hugs and im scared to lose him.
-marc