why is my entire feed rn hannibal
just a kind reminder to please be kind to the people you know with gastrointestinal disorders/conditions! they're embarassing, often very painful - sometimes debilitating - and very hard to talk about without oversharing a lot more than most are comfortable with.
if someone you know:
- spends a lot/long time in the restroom
- has a colostomy bag
- requires diapers or similar implements
- experiences a lot of gas and/or bloating
- requires tube feeding or other alternative methods of nutrition
- has food restrictions (e.g. cannot handle a lot of spices, certain proteins, etc.)
- eats a lot, or only a little
or other similar factors of their life...
please be patient and understanding, it's hard having guts that really like disagreeing with you!
Alright a conversation with my friend has led us to a dilemma so:
he's just some guy leave him alone !!
hi? uhhh im just really bored so here i am?
hi im liu (or L.W.). my existance is kind of a big trigger for the system as a whole but im slowly working through that (i can say my first name now!) and i think im doing pretty well at it
i have this nice little scarf i found in the closet, its grey and dark ggrey with little green stripes in between the other stripes. i havent taken it off since i got frontstuck a few days ago. it reminds me of my scarf
sully and i are still only one person flitting between the two of us but tim thinks the same thing that happened with jay and skully will eventually happen to us (they split into two seperate alters) so that could be interesting
ive made a few friends from source and stuff its pretty nice to talk to people i know! i only really know about two of the irl friends we have because they were around before i went dormant. i hope i get un frontstuck soon and maybe i can make some more friends? thatd be cool.
-L.W.
personally i just think it should be illegal to have more than 2 things going Bad with your body at a time. it's just excessive. i want to speak to a manager. the current hardware was not designed with the user in mind.
Day Two-"You Can't Hurt Me Like I Can"
Woo boy I might've angsted a bit too close to the sun for this one.
CW for a bit of suicidal ideation on Bruce's part (oopsies my hand slipped and I made bruce want to die)
Bruce Wayne has failed so many people; his sons, his parents, his daughter. He's failed everyone that's ever relied on him. At least that's how he feels.
guess who's celebrating october by writing a batfamily angst fic everyday
this guy 😎
I've got another one
yes it works for bpd
it doesnt work well for dissociative disorders though because you need to do parts work and face trauma before youre able to actually ground yourself and have a wise mind
most dbt skills temporarily calm you down but as soon as you stop actively using them youll start dissociating again
dbt isnt made for chronic dissociation
heres my wacky opinion of the day:
DBT is useless for people with dissociative disorders and i think it needs to be talked more about how and why
why tf do endos treat being a system like its an identity that you can pick and choose to label? why do they constantly push the transphobic rhetoric of using "traumascum" to refer to traumatized individuals that just dont want people to treat their symptoms like its fun?
being plural/being a system is nothing like being lgbtq+ and i really think we need to stop treating it as such
yes we are a community, but this community is one formed on the basis of being traumatized as kids, its not based on something we choose to refer to ourselves as
we need to be there to support each other but not blindly. we need to help spread information to others with the symptoms so they can receive help.
you wouldnt treat people with personality disorders the way you treat systems so why is it acceptable to treat systems this way?
i actually completely agree with what you said. the original post i made was specifically about nondisordered plurals. my autism makes me struggle with the concept of it a lot and people consistently throwing around ableist when theyre actively trying to say its not disordered makes my struggle even worse
how is not believing in endos ableist? if you're not disordered how can you be disabled (in this specific way, def not saying you cant be at all)?
like how do you get away with calling the people that are actively disabled by this condition ableist????