Friendship Is Both Demanded And Dismissed. You HAVE To Have Friends Otherwise You Are A 'loser', But

friendship is both demanded and dismissed. you HAVE to have friends otherwise you are a 'loser', but also you are not supposed to care THAT much about your friends they are 'just' friends. you HAVE to want friends otherwise something is wrong with you, but also when you find a lover you can stop seeing your friends for a while, they will understand it's the normal thing to do. you NEED friends because everyone NEEDS friends they are so important, but also never important enough, if you think they are too important you are childish or are you secretly in love with them

see that's why aplatonics and aros need to stick together, neither of us are winning. we need to dismantle amatonormativity, but ALSO platonormativity, otherwise we won't make any progress

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6 years ago
Lapidot Week Daty 4: “Garnetswap” AU

Lapidot Week daty 4: “Garnetswap” AU

My fan-fusion doesn’t have much in common with Garnet, so I just imagined her having her own episode in the style of “Garnet’s Universe” (that episode is so cute!!) 

This is why she has two arms in this drawing

6 years ago
Ishido Shuuji Moments From The Dark Video Game
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11 months ago

"this is a universal queer experience"

>ask if it's universal or white

>they don't understand

>I pull out a diagram explaining what is universal and what is white

>they laugh and say "It's a good experience sir"

>I'm a native american trans woman

>Experience is white

4 years ago
#656.5 - Froakie Live Near Bodies Of Water, Remaining Close To The Water’s Edge While Young And Venturing
#656.5 - Froakie Live Near Bodies Of Water, Remaining Close To The Water’s Edge While Young And Venturing
#656.5 - Froakie Live Near Bodies Of Water, Remaining Close To The Water’s Edge While Young And Venturing

#656.5 - Froakie live near bodies of water, remaining close to the water’s edge while young and venturing further away as they age. Beneath their happy-go-lucky attitue, they keep a watchful eye on their surroundings for predators. If they are attacked, flexible bubbles secreted from their back and chest help to reduce any damage they take. As Froakie mature, they are emboldened by a newfound speed and swiftness. Their protective bubbles - dubbed frubbles - can also be used to attack; older Froakie often practice throwing bubble-covered stones, gaining precise control over time.

#657.5 - Frogadier are skilled marksmen, never missing a target when throwing bubbles - and eventually - when throwing water compressed into sharp-edged throwing stars. Their swiftness only increases with age; a fully mature Frogadier will appear and vanish with a ninja’s grace. As their skill increases, they no longer need their protective bubbles, and will only produce them in select areas of their body. As adults, Frogadier wear their long tongue around their next like a scarf, masking their face in an expression of their stoic nature. If necessary, they will use their ready tongue to attack.

Named:  Froakie - Frogadet - Frogadier - Ribburai - Greninja ⓘ

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3 years ago
You Know Who Espurr Reminds Me Of? This Restraint Pokemon, Always Keeping Destructive Psychic Power Under
You Know Who Espurr Reminds Me Of? This Restraint Pokemon, Always Keeping Destructive Psychic Power Under
You Know Who Espurr Reminds Me Of? This Restraint Pokemon, Always Keeping Destructive Psychic Power Under
You Know Who Espurr Reminds Me Of? This Restraint Pokemon, Always Keeping Destructive Psychic Power Under

You know who Espurr reminds me of? This restraint pokemon, always keeping destructive psychic power under check. Psychic powers it has no control over. Or it’ll destroy everything within a 300 foot raddius. Yup.

You Know Who Espurr Reminds Me Of? This Restraint Pokemon, Always Keeping Destructive Psychic Power Under

Also, Espurr is like, technically a cat right? Smol little psychic cat.

8 months ago

How it feels to be in the fandom of a show about friendship :

How It Feels To Be In The Fandom Of A Show About Friendship :
5 years ago
Some People Are Being Weird About Stevonnie’s Intersex Designation.

Some people are being weird about Stevonnie’s intersex designation.

Hopefully I can write a post that sums up and addresses a few confusions and criticisms I’ve been seeing!

Intersex: This is a term for anyone who has one of the dozens of biological sex variations outside of “male” and “female.” Knowing someone is intersex does not tell you anything about their genitals, their hormones, their surgeries, their gender identity, whether they identify as trans or nonbinary, their secondary sex characteristics, or their chromosomes.

Some intersex variations are hormonal. Some are about genitals. Some are chromosomal. Some are a mixture.

Intersex is a designation that is exactly as “sexual” as calling someone “male” or calling someone “female.” It isn’t explicit in a way that makes it racy, sexualized, or inappropriate for children to see. And in fact, it answers zero questions about what is in Stevonnie’s pants (or the pants of any intersex person).

Preoccupation with nonbinary, intersex, and trans people’s genitals is what’s inappropriate.

And unless the person in question wants you to know, it isn’t your business.

Please also acknowledge that while we’re talking about a cartoon character here, the way we treat and talk about them shouldn’t be different from the way we treat and talk about real people. It’s not about whether we’re concerned about “hurting” an imaginary person. You all know that how people react to conceptual people is often how we learn to react to real people. Trans people and intersex people and people with hormone variations have historically been (and continue in the present to be) mocked and paraded as weirdos, from “man in a dress” pitched as a joke to “bearded lady in a sideshow” tropes.

Note: Say intersex, not “intersexed.” Because people aren’t intersexed any more than they’re maled or femaled.

I personally have a couple intersex friends who are open about their designation. It’s way more common than you might think and the shame and stigma surrounding intersex is part of why many people have been saying it’s bizarre or gross to talk about associated with Stevonnie. Intersex isn’t rare, bizarre, or gross. It’s just what happens when physical sex isn’t a binary, which it’s not.

Some people don’t find out they’re intersex until they have genetic testing for some reason and see a chromosome anomaly. Some people don’t find out they’re intersex until they don’t experience typical puberty. Some people find out they had unnecessary surgery when they were infants to “normalize” their external genitalia, which is something some intersex activists are trying to stop from happening (especially since a. unnecessary surgeries can be painful and dangerous; b. they cannot consent at that age; c. they may have preferred an intersex body; and d. the sex determined by doctors or parents to be the right one might be the wrong one if the intersex person grows up and identifies differently gender-wise, and the parts they were born with are forever taken from them).

Stevonnie being intersex is a positive thing overall, mostly because intersex is not talked about for no good reason, and because of that we’ll continue to have generations of parents who want unnecessary surgery on intersex infants, intersex people feeling ashamed or weird about their bodies, and people in general believing untrue things about the physical sex of bodies. A character just casually identifying as intersex is a really nice change for once.

The only issue I have with it, honestly, is the same issue I have with non-binary representation on the show. So far, we’ve only seen it explicitly acknowledged in Fusions.

Fusion is a magical concept on a SF/fantasy show, and I do worry that the value of intersex rep on the show is somewhat diluted by the fact that it’s attached to a character who is LITERALLY a mixture of male and female characters. Being “a mix of male and female” isn’t really the best way to see intersex people–the parts in question have names and what determines their maleness or femaleness or non-binary-ness is who owns the parts–and I worry that if some people are introduced to intersex for the first time as if it only exists as a result of an impossible science fiction concept, they might also get the idea that it doesn’t happen in the real world.

It does happen in the real world! Just like nonbinary people and same-sex couples!

I would love to see some explicit nonbinary and intersex rep among human cartoon characters, and more same-sex human relationships too. SU is the perfect show to do this because it’s got sensitive, informed, diverse, cool people behind it who know how important this is. There are still people watching this show who are “excusing” its queerness because it’s mixed with literal aliens, but the intention of the show is the opposite: to give its audience characters that are relatable to historically marginalized groups who are not from outer space. So far it’s still GREAT that we got a Gem wedding, a few casual references to humans who are probably gay or queer, a polyamorous Gem Fusion, and a nice little gaggle of nonbinary Fusions, including an intersex Fusion. The only reservation I have with it is that introducing these concepts attached to characters whose non-binary and/or intersex identities and designations are consequences of being literal mixtures of more than one person does make it less readily incorporated into a less savvy viewer’s real-life understanding. What’s still fantastic about it is that people can see Stevonnie supporting Intersex Awareness Day and look it up and find out why it exists. It’s absolutely a stepping stone if nothing else, and they’re not wrong for doing it.

And please do stop claiming that talking about intersex is sexually explicit or disgusting because you think it refers to the genitals of minors. That isn’t true AND it is misleading when it comes to what intersex is. If you wouldn’t consider it inappropriate to ask a new parent about the gender of their baby knowing they can’t ask the baby and are therefore explicitly disclosing what genitals the child has, you shouldn’t consider it inappropriate to have a children’s show character identify as intersex.

Hope that helps.

4 years ago
Touched Up Some Old Sketches And Made It Into Finished Stuff 83 Wooohooo! No Matter How Old I Get I Will
Touched Up Some Old Sketches And Made It Into Finished Stuff 83 Wooohooo! No Matter How Old I Get I Will
Touched Up Some Old Sketches And Made It Into Finished Stuff 83 Wooohooo! No Matter How Old I Get I Will

Touched up some old sketches and made it into finished stuff 83 wooohooo! No matter how old I get I will always love pokemon TuT

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