Latest Posts by lovely-little-lamb - Page 4
Just a quick reminder that:
๐ซ itโs okay to have a very specific age that you regress to
๐ซ itโs okay to have a huuuge age range that you regress within (like me)
๐ซ itโs okay to not know what age you regress to
Stuff like that can be tricky to figure out so donโt put pressure on yourself to decide on a small age! You donโt need labels (unless you want them) and youโre regression is just as valid without them ^-^
here it is for anyone who doesnโt use insta :3
I made some art!! go take a lookie cuz im very proud of it!
Shout out to my fellow regressors who don't like the usual foods everyone always recommends!! I'm not a fan of mac n cheese and dino nuggets, which most food rec posts contain, I eat more "adult/healthy" things when regressed and I LOVE to cook and can do so without much trouble, even things like grilling and using a stove/oven :)
I know there's definitely other regressors who don't like that stuff too (not to mention the vegan/vegetarian regressors, and the ones with food allergies/those whose disabilities prevent them from eating certain things too!!) and I just want everyone to know that no matter what you eat, you're completely valid!!
Feel free to share your favorite non-traditional foods/recipes in the notes, I'd love to hear and am always up to trying new things :D
โนโโกโ Wallace & Gromit DNI Banner!!
requested by: @pawtrolling!!
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๐ Space Alphabet! ๐ช
Found this on Pinterest and thought it was really cute n fun so wanted to shares ๐
Little one with this on the wall ๐ฅบ learning their Abcs with mama/papa
Just a friendly reminder that everyone is cool and valid. ๐ฉต๐ฆ
What if Pokemon & Animal Crossing had a crossover game? #10 Made in Blender, Wooper design by @omuart on instagram!
Winnie-the-Pooh Moodboard
Requested by: @cloverleaf26
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basics with pumpkin ๐คฃ.๐ฅง.๐กผ.โ
sometimes people donโt know to do the basic things of life + thatโs completely okay! iโm going to do my best to explain the basic day to day things for the little ones who need it <3.
this one was requested on babble talk !!
todayโs task : flossing
flossing can be really confusing to understand, i know i struggle with at times too !! - so here are miss pumpkin's tips + explanation !! โก
๐ฆท the right size of floss would be around 45 centimeters (18 iches) !!
๐ฆท once you've cut it to size, wrap the floss around one of your forefingers (index or 'pointing' finger) + hold the floss tight between your forefinger + thumb on your other hand.
๐ฆท the length should be long enough to reach each front, middle + back tooth!!
๐ฆท hold the floss tight + move it towards your teeth.
๐ฆท place the floss gently between the tooth + pull down. - the floss should slot down between the side of the tooh and the gum line (be gentle!)
๐ฆท use a gentle rocking motion to get all the little icky bits stuck in between the teeth + should also help you prevent any unneccessary irritation to the gums.
i hoped this helps sweetpeas !! โก
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considering the idea of making custom pacis and/or paci clips ๐ค I just don't know where to start! any tips would be super cool ๐
middle regressor are worthy regressors! that includes:
middle regressors who get angry and experience teenage angst
trans/non-binary middle regressors who are transitioning and experiencing puberty all over again (mentally and physically!)
bratty and opinionated middle regressors
middle regressors who can't afford regression gear like a new wardrobe
middle regressors who don't have or even want a cg
middle regressors who regress to mid-late teens (we/they exist!)
middle regressors who don't feel valid because they're not soft little baby regressors/feel underrepresented
Friendly reminder you're still valid and you're not "weird" if you:
dont have/dont want a cg
wear/want to wear diapers in a sfw way
wear/want to wear a collar or tail/ears in a sfw way
dont have/want any little gear
dont use any community labels
are still figuring out your regression
you have a fully adult life outside of agere (e.g if you are sexually active, drink, work, etc)
dont fit the stereotype of the "agere aesthetic"
aren't white, skinny, neurotypical, etc.
are a boy, nonbinary, trans, etc
are lgbt+ in general
are disabled and/or mentally ill
get sad/struggle with your mental health while regressing
regress because of/to deal with trauma
your regression is yours, you know yourself, and as long as you're staying safe and not hurting anyone, no one can tell you otherwise.
Dni: lgbt+ exclusionists, r/adfems, ns/fw, e/d, s/h or discourse blogs, pr0ship, anti-agere/petre/sfw cglre or if you call people cringe because of their interests.
hey, kiddos!
maybe you, just like me, are little bookworms! that's why today I bring you
how to play library
First of all, a library need books! so gather all the books you can! (if they're not yours, you might have to ask permission first)
if you don't have kid books for a kid section, that's OK! you can make your own, folding pieces of paper and inventing little stories! (if you want, I can teach how to do that in another post!)
second thing, a library needs to be organised! you can make separate the books in different piles, one for each genre (that's the type of the book!) and you can make little paper labels for them!
now a library needs people! get your dolls, or stuffies, or maybe get some friends to play with you! you can make little library cards for them, with their name and a number! (don't forget a pretty picture, that can be a drawing of them!)
now, you can be the librarian! you can help them choose and rent books, making notes on a notebook, or you could make a circle and tell a story!
i hope both this post and the game keep you entretained (that means busy and happy) for a while little ones!
have fun!
shout out to regressors who:
๐ have temper tantrums when regressed
๐ have emotional dysregulation
๐ dissociate
๐ are impulsive
๐ are hypersexual
you're not doing something wrong and you're not weird for having these issues. trauma affects everyone differently and it's OK if you have these issues. and remember, healing isn't linear.
get the stuff you didnโt get as a kid if it makes you happy
Minty's Affirmations For My Fellow Boy Regressors (Cis, Trans and Everywhere in Between)
๐ It's okay to regress.
๐ It's okay to have 'girly' interests.
๐ It's okay to cry.
๐ It's okay to prioritise your self care.
๐ It's okay to feel vulnerable.
๐ It's okay to set boundaries.
๐ You will be okay.
Kink blogs, this is not for you.
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ.
You really do. In all the different ways of life, in every aspect you can think of. You make a difference and hold value to those around you. Your existence has a meaning and you have inherent worth.
Your emotions are valid. Itโs okay to hurt, angry, enraged, sad. Itโs all okay. Those emotions matter. Feeling them matters. Talking about it matters. Validation of them matters.
Sometimes, when we feel low, we can convince ourselves that what weโre feeling is irrelevant. That weโre irrelevant. But this isnโt true. You are releveant and worthwhile.
People hold love for you- and if you canโt see that right now, then acknowledge that I hold love for you.
something that isn't talked about
(but is important to bring up)
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Caregivers can be caregivers to bad littles as much as littles can be littles to bad caregivers. I've never seen a post bring up this topic so I will.
Littles who manipulate their cg to take care of them longer, do exist. Littles who make their caregivers feel bad over something they can't control, exist. Littles who will ghost theirs caregivers to make them worry and/or to punish them for something, do exist. And littles that are bad DO EXIST.
I'm tired of this common trope around the community where it brings light that tell littles the red flags in caregivers, (which is important); but so is letting caregivers know what is the red flags in littles as well. There are bad caregivers, and there are bad littles as well. I've seen it brushed under the rug a lot simply because "oh littles don't know any better they don't know blah blah blah-" yeah well that isn't an excuse to treat your caregiver horribly. /Not at anyone (reading this post)
Caregivers aren't robots that are gonna be there 24/7 to take care of you. to protect you, to coddle you, etc. They have feelings and have their own bad days too. Please don't use that against them simply because they don't feel the best that day. Treat caregivers with the love and respect they deserve. They do so much for us already that it's unfair to treat them like all they are is to be your caregiver, and not some friend or anything.
Thanks for coming for my tedtalk. ~Cole, they/it, a fellow caregiver ๐ฐ
