MI ESPOSO ME REGALA UNA CAJA MISTERIOSA DE BTS!!! Y NO Sé Que Tiene L Fabbi Lee

the one problem i have with people my age and younger is that a lot of us do not have hands on hobbies. like i have spoken to so many people my age who go to work, go to school and then fuck around on their phone/computer for hours and then ???????? like no wonder ur depressed and have low confidence in urself. u need to get ur hands on something, feed those dopamine receptors! learn how to play guitar, garden, scrapbook, fucking make model trains. i don’t give a shit, MAKE SOMETHING!!

it feels better than drugs when i finish making a thing—and then show it off or gift it.

and then so people my age say to me ‘well—i can’t draw/paint/knit/etc. like you can. my stuff would be terrible.’ yeah, well duh—a part of developing skill is sucking at something and then practicing it over and over and over again until you suck less. u’ll have a hard time feeling lonely or bored when you can’t stop thinking abt a technique you want to try or something you want to make for someone else. making things has SAVED MY LIFE. it gave me a reason to keep living day after day when i wanted to die.

making things improved my generational relationships (when i worked for the newspaper i would talk to customers abt jamming recipes or cross-stitch, one of my grandmas always gives me pattern books and tell me abt when she knitted things for mom, my other grandma is giving me a wedding quilt that HER grandma gave her 50 years ago because she knows i will appreciate it). it also got me likeminded friends who also make things.

take a ceramics class! pick up water colors, bake cakes! learn to work on cars! make soap. DO SOMETHING THAT DOESN’T INVOLVE STARING AT A SCREEN.

It’s okay to romanticise the small things about your day-to-day life. It’s okay to romanticise sleeping in, waking up to the sun tickling your skin. It’s okay to romanticise the texture of fingers against a page. Sometimes to save your day you need to romanticise sitting at a desk and working, or romanticise studying hyped up on coffee. It’s okay to picture yourself as if you were the mc in a movie. Watch yourself go through shit and know that it’s just the climax of your own story, and that while you sit in your room sobbing to sad songs, good things are just around the corner.

Sometimes to be okay or get through the day you need to romanticise the simple things.

Grammar Friday: Ya and Todavía

CHINESE MASTERLIST!

*for future reference the masterlist link should be under my profile pic on my homepage!

FLASHCARDS

C-SERIES INTEGRATED CONTEXT VOCAB 

01_10 Flashcards 

02_16 Flashcards

03_18 Flashcards

04_18 Flashcards

05_17 Flashcards

06_15 Flashcards

07_18 Flashcards

RADICAL VOCAB 

01_General Vocab

02_Colours 

03_Valentine’s Day

HELLO TALK - Real life Chinese Conversations with Native Speakers 

Part O1 

Work, Continuing a conversation, Clarifying questions, Language ability, Getting ready in the morning

OTHER VOCAB

EMOTIONS

Emotions vocab list (w GIFS)

APPEARANCE

What type of boys do you like?

What type of girls do you like?

CHINESE PARTICLES

The three DE’s

MISCELLANEOUS VOCAB

01_My Mr. Mermaid + Body Parts 

02_My Diary Phrases 

03_My Mr. Mermaid + Body Parts PT2 

04_My Mr.Mermaid ep 2 + 3 

05_My Mr. Mermaid ep 3 + Chinese Pod describing drinks

06_PETS (describing animals/pets)

07_My Mr. Mermaid ep 4 + Home vocab 

08_My Mr. Mermaid ep 4. cont

Sentence Order 

Basic sentence order 

Time/place word order 

Test Yourself:

C-SERIES vocab lists 1-5 

i wanted to share some thoughts on ‘온유하게 해요 (shine on you)’. everybody is already aware of the title pun by now, but there’s another meaning on it that rly impacts me & i want to say.

so as many know, onew (온유) is an actual word in korean. i wouldnt give 온유 an exact translation but it’s along the meaning of softness, tenderness, or mildness. i’ll use ‘tender’ here.

so, onew’s name is in both titles. ‘온유하게 해요’ means ‘to make (smth) tender/onew’ & in ‘shine on you’, ‘on you’ sounds like ‘onew’ too. that’s cute, but what i want to focus on is the verse where this sentence appears:

‘싱그러운 미소가 불안했던 마음을 온유하게 해요’.

my personal trans goes: ‘your refreshing smile makes my (previously) troubled heart tender’. note that ‘-했던’ implies past onto ‘troubled’.

now, what makes this verse so lovely to me is exactly bc 온유 is his name. he is 온유. then saying ‘your smile makes me tender’ ends up meaning ‘your smile makes me who i am’. and more than that: ‘your smile makes my troubled heart tender’ seems to paint that ‘seeing your smile makes me remember who i really am’.

isn’t that such a beautiful love to have? to remember yourself in someone’s smile, to find strength in them to never stop being own tender self through all the troubles that come. it’s incredibly romantic.

and if you think about it, this verse is so precious bc it comes such a long way: if jinki wasn’t named onew all the way back 10 yrs ago, this sentence wouldn’t mean much today. it’s a verse with a simple sound, but its meaning came together in a careful & rare balance.

it’s this sort of thing that adds all the magic in art.

KOREAN LEARNING MASTERLIST:

originally a quick bookmark that became a comprehensive, work-in-progress, reblog-able masterlist of all korean posts i’ve made and come across on tumblr, ordered by topic/theme. last updated: 04/05/2019

VOCABULARY:

Time + Space:

eojetbam-studies: five a day #21 — time related vocab

eojetbam-studies: position in korean 어디에 있어요?

eojetbam-studies: countries in korean — 어느 나라 사람이에요?

eojetbam-studies: days of the week

koreanstudytips: frequency adverbs

dailydoseofkorea: korean geographic vocab

Relationships:

eojetbam-studies: family in korean — 우리의 가족

Nouns:

koreanstudytips: animals in korean

eojetbam-studies: five a day #3 — thanksgiving related vocab

Adjectives:

eojetbam-studies: colors in korean — 한국어에 색들이

Verbs:

jesslearnslanguages: 25 common korean verbs

19tc: to like/to dislike

patroocle: sleep related vocab

Internet:

patroocle: on the internet

GRAMMAR:

Particles / Attached Endings:

learn-korean-with-alli: object particle 를/을

adventuresinkorean: contrastive ending (으)나

yasuistudies: future tense and probability (으)ㄹ 거예요

Taking Action:

koreanstudytips: let’s in korean

Negatives:

koreanstudytips: how to say don’t in korean

Other Grammar:

h-eonno: korean sentence structure

OTHER:

Honorifics:

koreanstudytips: 존댓말 vs. 반말

cute things // cosas adorables

teddy bear - osito de peluche (m.)

angel - ángel (m.)

bee - abeja (f.)

butterfly - mariposa (f.)

dew - rocío (m.)

pond - balsa (f.) / estanque (m.)

kitten - gatito / gatita

orchard - huerto (m.)

snowfall - nevada (f.)

field - campo (m.)

mist - neblina (f.)

teacup - taza de té (f.)

dusty book - libro polvoriento (m.)

duckling - patito / patita

cotton - algodón (m.)

hug - abrazo (m.)

bouquet - ramo (m.)

enchanted - encantado

ethereal - etéreo

shimmering - reluciente

sweet - dolce

to cuddle - abrazarse

to blossom - florecer

to daydream - soñar despierto

to caress - acariciar

to hum - tararear

to whisper - susurrar

to giggle - reírse

Oliverio Girondo. 12. Espantapájaros (al alcance de todos). [01]