i wanted to share some thoughts on ‘온유하게 해요 (shine on you)’. everybody is already aware of the title pun by now, but there’s another meaning on it that rly impacts me & i want to say.
so as many know, onew (온유) is an actual word in korean. i wouldnt give 온유 an exact translation but it’s along the meaning of softness, tenderness, or mildness. i’ll use ‘tender’ here.
so, onew’s name is in both titles. ‘온유하게 해요’ means ‘to make (smth) tender/onew’ & in ‘shine on you’, ‘on you’ sounds like ‘onew’ too. that’s cute, but what i want to focus on is the verse where this sentence appears:
‘싱그러운 미소가 불안했던 마음을 온유하게 해요’.
my personal trans goes: ‘your refreshing smile makes my (previously) troubled heart tender’. note that ‘-했던’ implies past onto ‘troubled’.
now, what makes this verse so lovely to me is exactly bc 온유 is his name. he is 온유. then saying ‘your smile makes me tender’ ends up meaning ‘your smile makes me who i am’. and more than that: ‘your smile makes my troubled heart tender’ seems to paint that ‘seeing your smile makes me remember who i really am’.
isn’t that such a beautiful love to have? to remember yourself in someone’s smile, to find strength in them to never stop being own tender self through all the troubles that come. it’s incredibly romantic.
and if you think about it, this verse is so precious bc it comes such a long way: if jinki wasn’t named onew all the way back 10 yrs ago, this sentence wouldn’t mean much today. it’s a verse with a simple sound, but its meaning came together in a careful & rare balance.
it’s this sort of thing that adds all the magic in art.
have contact with this language by hearing it on movies, tv shows and music. this will help you with your pronunciation skills and with your vocabulary
learn vocabulary and grammar at the same time
read kids books and translate what you don’t know. it might be hard at the beginning, but keep trying
speak to yourself will help you like crazy. I like to pretend that I’m acting or that someone is interviewing me hahah see the magic happens
READ AND WRITE. this is as important as speaking. It used to be so hard for me to write in English and I felt awful because I could actually speak very well. But my writing skills were just a lower level than my speaking level. Thankfully it’s getting better with practice.
try to study a little everyday. if you don’t have time to do so, watch a movie or something, but have this contact with the new language at least once a day
be persistent because the processes of learning a new language can really piss you off. sometimes you will understand nothing and that will drag you down. the difference is to keep pushing until it doesn’t bother you anymore!
Yeah sex is great but have you ever listened to a song in your target language and suddenly understood a new line for the first time
So I am at that point in my apps where I have to write a personal statement and I am S T U C K. I can talk and talk about language and how much it means to me, when I put pen to paper, suddenly I feel less valid and like my ideas and interests aren’t all that interesting.
I know that I shouldn’t be as nervous as I am. I know that I am a good scholar and that I worked really hard to even be able to consider going to grad school. I know that I can do this.
I think I just need some more perspective.
Call for › demander/réclamer.
Call in › faire appel à quelqu’un/obliger quelqu’un à rembourser sa dette.
Call off › annuler.
Call on someone › rendre visite à/faire appel à quelqu’un.
Call out › crier/appeler.
Call up (a file) › appeler/ouvrir (un fichier).
Care for › s’occuper de.
Carry on › continuer.
Carry out › réaliser.
Get carried away by › s’emballer pour quelque chose.
Carry forward › reporter.
Carry off (an award) › remporter (un prix).
Carry through › mener à bonne fin/aider à réussir.
Cash in › se faire rembourser.
Cash up › faire la caisse.
Catch up › rattraper.
Catch on › devenir populaire/prendre.
Catch out › prendre en défaut/démasquer.
Cave in › s’effondrer/céder.
Change over (to) › passer à.
Check up on/check out › vérifier.
Check in (airport) › se présenter à l’enregistrement.
Check out (hotel) › payer sa note et partir.
Clean up › nettoyer/faire fortune/faire son beurre.
Clean (someone) out › nettoyer à fond/mettre quelqu’un à sec/dévaliser.
Close down › fermer définitivement.
Close in on › cerner.
Too many phrasal verbs with To come, find it special post here.
Conjure up › évoquer.
Cut across › toucher (pas au sens physique).
Cut back › réduire/diminuer.
Cut down (on) › réduire.
Cut off › couper/déshériter.
(feel) cut off › se sentir isoler.
(be) cut out for › avoir des dispositions pour quelque chose.
To (be) cut up › être très affecté.
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It’s okay to romanticise the small things about your day-to-day life. It’s okay to romanticise sleeping in, waking up to the sun tickling your skin. It’s okay to romanticise the texture of fingers against a page. Sometimes to save your day you need to romanticise sitting at a desk and working, or romanticise studying hyped up on coffee. It’s okay to picture yourself as if you were the mc in a movie. Watch yourself go through shit and know that it’s just the climax of your own story, and that while you sit in your room sobbing to sad songs, good things are just around the corner.
Sometimes to be okay or get through the day you need to romanticise the simple things.
Estoy en el coche de mi mamá,
escoba escoba,
conseguir fuera me coche
♡ ♡ ♡
“You are the love of my life,
without you,
I am incomplete”
If you should be doing your work rn think about Elle Woods and how far she got. Study now.