hydrating skincare routine for those dry-skin days
surrounding yourself with only positive + engaging people
cozy sweaters / sweatshirts
a workout routine that works to meet your goals
a go-to puffer jacket to throw on over everything
soft bound moleskines + black muji gel pens
ugg boots are a must
40oz hydroflask with straw for hot cocoa or ice water
fenty gloss bomb lip luminizers
glossier ultra rich moisturizer
baby long sleeves
cute matching workout sets
slick back ponytails or simple blowouts
shiny, healthy hair and nails
journaling, meditating, stretching
a favorite pair of staple mid-rise straight jeans
new books to devour, one per week
whole foods; eg solid, protein packed meals + produce
bluelight glasses > headaches + eye pain
either eight hours of sleep or two per night (no in-between)
phone screen time less than 1hr 30mins
glossier you solid or sol de janeiro '62 all day every day
body care forever... scrubs, washes, oils, u name it
signature simple jewelry
lash serum or extensions for an effortless glam
hot girl treadmill walks when you're too tired to run
studying and revising daily
homemade matcha or starbucks rewards
saving money for meaningful purchases
loving yourself & finding joy in everyday
BECOMING THE BEST VERSION OF YOU !! xx
please enjoy and feel free to send asks with more prompts/q's !! š§āāļø
I think that a problem that a lot of people have nowadays when discovering their identity is āaestheticsā. I donāt mean like,Ā āoh wow, thatās so aesthetically pleasing!ā It is 100% to enjoy something because of how it looks. The problem, though, is when you enjoy an aesthetic (or several) to the point where if a part of your identity doesnāt correspond to one, you have toĀ āfixā it. Itās harder to be yourself when youāre constantly worrying about which behaviour would fit into little boxes, and which wouldnāt.
That being said, thereās nothing wrong with enjoying an aesthetic, or simply liking something based on its appearance. The problem is when you lose motivation to do things you love because they arenātĀ ācutesy cottagecore femmecore coquetteā. For example, I used to be utterly obsessed with theĀ āThat Girlā aesthetic. I woke up everyday at 6:30, worked out for 10 minutes, ate healthy foods whenever I could, took up journaling, started researching whatever I felt like, and cleaned up after myself and others. Thereās nothing wrong with that. The problem began, though, when I found traits that werenāt something thatĀ āThat Girlā would do. Iād listen to loud rock music, Iād sleep in on weekends, sometimes Iād skip workouts, etc. And because these habits didnāt fit into my little boxes that I made, I felt awful. I fell into a pit of self-hate, and started beating myself up over it. I found new interests, and lost even more motivation to fit into that aesthetic. But hereās the thing:
Nothing in life is going to be perfect.
The idea of having to correspond to an aesthetic is ridiculous at this point. Want to be āemoā, but also enjoy dressing in colourful clothes and donāt want to spend $500 on a pair of shoes? Okay!Ā
Want to beĀ āThat Girlā who has a 10 step skincare routine and is super fit, but lack the dedication and funds? Thatās okay, too!
Nothing is everĀ going to fit in a single little box. Sometimes theyāll fit into cabinets. Somethings theyāll mix with other things. Sometimes, you can just enjoy something. There shouldnāt be a pressure to have a perfectly curated image, just because it corresponds to a certain category of being. Youāre not just an aesthetic, youāre you.
Thereās a good video by Shinspeare on YouTube, calledĀ āSocial Mediaās Obsession with Aesthetics and Curated Identitiesā that is really lovely, and talks about the subject as well!
Hey putting this here as I want to collect my thoughts as well as speak to people before putting out an actual statement. I just wanted to apologize for the way that I handled the discussion about the racism that exists within my community. I thought as a way of discussing it that I would talk about some other things while playing a game in order to hopefully attract the part of the audience that actually needs to hear what is being said, as I thought that if I made an entire stream around it, those people would not click on it as they think that it doesnt apply to them so they wouldnt need to hear it. I see now that that was not the appropriate way of handling it even though before I thought it was and I thank you for bringing that to my attention. I should have put more emphasis on the issue and I should have at least have had it at the beginning with nothing to distract from the message. I also apologize for saying "move on" during the conversation. What I meant was when an argument starts over something that is not important, instead of bringing it to a point where someone takes it too far, to simply move on from it and to not have it get to that point of argument. I would never tell someone who has been affected by racism to just move on from it so know that is absolutely not what I meant and I am sorry again for not wording that correctly.
I take responsibility for how I handled today, it was not the correct way of handling the issue. I am speaking with people in order to get a better grasp of exactly how to address this situation. I am sorry to any bipoc who have felt let down because of this. I will continue to educate myself and I will do better. The issue starts with me and I apologize that I made it worse. I am sorry.
hey loves! i want to share this post to give some of my tips on becoming a happier person. obviously this wonāt help treat mental illnesses- for mental illnesses please get the proper care and treatment you need :) these tips are just for building a more positive mindset and feeling more content in life :)
healthy habits:
meditate daily (even if its only for 5 minutes or so)
get enough rests- take naps if needed
eat healthy foods, stay hydrated
have a support system of people you can trust
practice self care
say positive affirmations daily
keep a journal to vent, track your thoughts, and oberve your emotions
cut off negative people
sparking joy:
find hobbies that bring you happiness
make gratitude lists/ lists of all the things that make you happy (even the little things)- list about 5 things everyday
get fresh air daily (even if itās just from an open window)
make plans with friends/family
make plans by yourself
find music you like
keep comfort items
all of BSI shares one communal brain cell
ok but we're all missing the important question here... WHO in the vatican has taught the spanish-speaking pope how to say faggotry in italian. how on earth did it come up. was it a prank. was it political sabotage. is there homosexual tomfoolery afoot in santa marta. I need to know more
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do you have any podcast recs?
the wellness cafe
80/20
guide me glow podcast
morning rae
busy, yet pretty
hot girl energy podcast
the rebeca leigh podcast
grow with zo
the goop podcast
the "that girl" guide
not your typical with katelynn nolan
my monday mood
ethereal girl
made me for fitness
confession by anastazia
Start appreciating more little things in your life! Itās the flaming 20ā²s for gods sake, start enjoying more things outside of your computer screen! Hereās a thread of things! (Updates whenever)
Why does writing descriptions feel malancholicAnywaysGayyyyyyyyyyyy
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