“You think because he doesn’t love you that you are worthless. You think that because he doesn’t want you anymore that he is right — that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don’t. It’s a bad word, ‘belong.’ Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn’t be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can’t even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, beacuse the clouds let him; they don’t wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can’t own a human being. You can’t lose what you don’t own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don’t, do you? And neither does he. You’re turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can’t value you more than you value yourself.”
— Toni Morrison, Song of Solomon
You will never find another heart that wants you more than mine
Car sex while it’s heavily raining outside >>
“i could never do the things you did to me. i could never lower myself to that level. my only revenge was replacing you with someone who could love me the right way.”
— R.H. Sin
imagine reading a book, early in the afternoon, with your partner lying on your stomach as they cuddle you, and being able to take pauses in between to comb their hair
you deserve that perfect love that you think may not even exist ♡
“There’s always that one person that will always have your heart.”
— Usher
Blythe Baird, from If My Body Could Speak; “Concerns from a hot-boxed jeep”
[Text ID: “How do I stop / carrying everything / that had ever / happened to me?”]
“‘do you want to know the worst part about walking away?’ she asks him. 'it’s hoping that they’ll run after you. that they’ll stop you and tell you not to leave. that they’ll beg you to stay. that they’ll tell you they need you,’ she says. 'but they never do. you never did.’”
— unwrittenphrases
Question about Cycle Syncing. Do you know where i can find, like a masterlist of food that fits into the steps of the cycle? I always see the same food but how abt the rest? Would be nice to know for example for meal building.
This post is a masterlist of everything that is recommended you eat while cycle syncing. if you don’t know what that is, read this beginner guide.
This post is a researched post, because I actually couldn’t find a proper masterlist. So, I researched what kinds of nutrients you need during your 4 phases, but I am NO DOCTOR. Just a little disclaimer!
MENSTRUAL/FOLLICULAR PHASE - high iron, vitamin C foods
VEGETABLES
Spinach
Silver beet
Broccoli
String beans
Peas
Sweet potatoes
Beet greens
Dandelion greens
Collards
Chard
Chilli peppers
Sweet yellow peppers
Parsley
Brussel sprouts
FRUITS
Oranges
Guavas
Black currants
Cantaloupe
Kiwis
Lemons
Lychees
Papayas
Strawberries
Oranges
Watermelon
Figs
Prunes
PROTEINS
Beef
Lamb
Liverwurst
Pork
Veal
Dried beef
Eggs
Shrimp
Clams
Tuna
Sardines
CARBS/OTHER
Whole wheat bread
Enriched pasta
Rye bread
Enriched rice
Tofu
Beans
Lentils
OVULATORY PHASE – complex carbs, lean proteins, anti-inflammatory, vitamin B6, folate/choline
VEGETABLES
Carrots
Spinach
Sweet potato
Red potato
Green peas
Chickpeas
Butternut squash
Asparagus
Turnip greens
Romaine lettuce
Beets
Sweet corn
Mushrooms
Pumpkin
Parsnip
Cauliflower
FRUITS
Bananas
Avocado
Mango
Blueberries
Apple
Peaches
Tangerine
Pink grapefruit
lemons
PROTEINS
Egg whites
Strained yoghurt
Skinless white meat poultry
Plain greek yoghurt
Low fat cottage cheese
Tofu
Lean beef
Powdered peanut butter
Beef liver
Pork loin
Bison
Organ meat
CARBS/OTHER
Lentils
Kidney beans
Green peas
Walnuts
Flaxseeds
Cashews
Almonds
Pistachios
LUTEAL PHASE – High fibre, vitamin B12, magnesium
VEGETABLES
Spinach
Swiss chard
Collard greens
Green peas
Sweet corn
Cabbage
Arugula
Bok choy
Celery
Lettuce
FRUITS
Pears
Strawberries
Avocado
Apples
Raspberries
Blackberries
Blueberries
Bananas
PROTEINS
Animal liver
Animal kidney
Clams
Swiss cheese
Turkey
Crabs
Ham
CARBS/OTHER
Oats
Popcorn
Almonds
Fresh coconut
Sunflower seeds
Dark chocolate
Wheat
barley
“Once you lose someone, it is never exactly the same person who comes back.”
— Sharon Olds