Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via
partygirlmeltdown
)
omg
(via pussychakra)
✨The Marauders Yap✨
it's here !! i did it !! y'all asked for a pod wayyyy back in july and i deliberated (stressed) for so long about it but ! it's here <3
this is a very unprofessional podcast where i (and anyone that i drag on along the way) sit and yap about harry potter ! the characters, the ships, fandom etiquette and discourses, engaging in a fandom space, creating for one, jkr etc etc -> it'll all go down here ! we're gonna yap !
Ep 1: The Importance of Fandom -> link here
this is the introductory episode so you know 🙂↕️ give him some grace 🙂↕️
i talk about how i got into the marauders fandom and what it looks like for me, and then about the importance of preserving these spaces given current events!
i yap about representation, community, and creativity and how these things are so so soooo important right now, and how we need to do our Best to keep them here <3
this is a Solo episode, just me and my dodgy mic!
the next ep will be my jkr,,, thesis? dissertation. diss track. application for a defamation claim. whichever is your preferred term for it is, it's my jkr monologue!
but for now, i hope you enjoy listening to a 20 year old wizard fan with the technological skills of a caveman that's been confronted with chatgpt yap away about fandom spaces for 50 minutes !
and thank you @itsradla for the logo and banner <3 again, tech is my worst enemy <3
(guys fr like the sound is not great sorry ! it goes very back and forth because i figured out what was going wrong AS i was editing, so i fixed the worst bits?? but i didn't want to refilm all of it because i liked that it was unrehearsed and sparsely planned ! but i promise from here on out, my mic works and i will not sound like a lawnmower <3)
the black sisters
🖤🖤🖤
if you would consider platonic web weave,
black sisters pretty please!
ofc ofc this is also once again me complaining about spotify changing the colors for the lyrics because this would've looked so much better with the lighter colors :/
Everything that touches the floor is a cat toy
Cat Perspective [yougetcake]
this!
why are all these people I like so much so far away?!?
the tragedy of tumblr is you will inevitably meet people who you should be having a sleepover with. you should be rolling around on their floor and rummaging through their fridge and watching shitty movies with. you should be shopping with should be going out to a cafe with should be wandering through the aquarium with. people who you should be experiencing quotidian joys with... and you cannot! because they live one million miles away
Am I annoying? Yes
Do I give a fuck? Also yes I really am sorry about me all the time
i love when characters lie to themselves in the complete privacy of their own minds
🪩 Posting Day Two 🪩
Fics and art can both be found in the AO3 collection here
Edits will be shared in a masterlist here once they are all posted over on TikTok! For now, they're being saved into the public folder here
Art can also be found with #HPFemFest art where we are reblogging everything on this page <3
Make sure to check out the collection and share some love to all of the creators who took part in this fest, we have so much more to come throughout the week 💞💞
Teddy and Papa
that march 1st deadline seemed so reasonable
that was then
FEMININOMENON !!!
HEY! HI! things are rough out here right now, and i think in times of unrest like this, when we're not quite sure what the next day will hold or where our place in the wider world is, community is more important than ever. and i think we're all in agreement when i say fandom can be such a lovely resting spot from all of it so, hey. hi. you have a place here!
this fest is dedicated to female and genderqueer stories, art and edits, aiming to represent those who are feeling unsteady right now, and give us all a bit of space to breathe, be seen, and simply Be.
THE BASICS:
Signups are open here from today (November 11th) until December 13th.
Fanfictions, edits, and fanart are all accepted as submissions
Two servers: 18+ and 16-17 will be placed in separate servers (nothing else is different! just keeping it as safe and comfy as possible <3)
Fics: told from pov of female/gq character(s)
Any era/pairings/au allowed (or no pairings! you pretty much have free reign!)
No minimum of maximum WC for fics: oneshots or first chapter of a multi-chapter fic.
You can do as many submission across as many of the three categories as you want.
EXEMPTIONS: non-con and family pairings are excluded from this fest.
DEADLINE: working deadline of March 1st for submissions - flexible! (taking into account holidays, Jan 20th and all the emotions surrounding that <3)
HOPE TO SEE YOU THERE !!!