So Tired... Of This Mess.

Lets talk about coping mechanisms

Many nuerotypicals will say that our coping mechanisms are ‘cringy’ so for all the non mentally ill people, here are some reasons why we use different things to cope.

Age regression: yes, some people do this because it’s a fetish or because they think its cute, but many child abuse or csa victims use this because they feel like their childhood was not theirs to live. Please dont make fun of the 39 yo who sleeps with a stuffed animal, you dont know what theyve gone through.

Kin types/ otherkin: some people just like to do this because they really like a creature, but some of us use this to help us escape our thoughts. Its much easier to calm down from a flashback or panic attack if you can pretend that you are a snake or dragon. It may sound weird to you but remember, you don’t use it as a coping mechanism.

Self harm: although no form of self harm is ok, many people feel like they have no other option. If you self harm, try putting an ice cube on your wrist until it goes numb. Or take a hair elastic and snap it against your wrist. These will still give you that sting that you want, without actually hurting you.

Stim toys: many autistic people or phsycotic people use stim toys to help ground themselves. Adhd and add people also use them. You may think that fidget spinners are cringy, but for many of us tools similar to that help us from having a meltdown or panic attack.

Dark music: you may think that mcr or p!atd is for emo kids, but alot of us use this music so that we can get our emotions out without hurting ourselves.

Asmr: some people are just relaxed by asmr, but for me at least listening to a calm voice or someone eating can actually help you feel less alone or help you relax. Yes some asmr is kinda weird, but alot of us use it to get to sleep.

Lastly, please dont make fun of people’s coping mechanisms. Some may be unhealthy, and you can help those people find better ones, but dont take our tools away. I have to always count my steps and if i get interrupted i have to start over, friends and family make fun of me but it helps me not get overstulimulated. Neurotypicals please reblog this to educate others as to how us neurodivergents cope with our symptoms. Its the same as you guys eating or watching a movie to calm down. We suffer without our coping mechanisms, please dont takevthem away.

not to pull the 18 year old minor card but some of y'all really think people just magically become fully developed adults once they're legal. the difference between 17 and 18 is just a few months and it doesn't give you license to prey on teenagers. just because something isn't gonna get you put in jail doesn't make it morally right. don't let the number 18 stop you from protecting young people, especially vulnerable teenage girls tricked into thinking they're "mature for their age"

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               The Hashira meeting concludes with a final word of thanks from Oyakata-sama, leaving the nine most talented and powerful swordsmen and swordswomen still feeling warm and exceedingly loved each by their kind leader and father-figure. Mitsuri, in particular, still sports a blush on her beautiful face after remembering how Oyakata-sama praised each of them for their skill and smiled kindly at them.

               “Now that the meeting’s over and done,” says Kyojuro as he gets up from his kneeling position on the ground. “Who’s up for some snacks? Kanroji has been very kind with her offer to share some favourite of hers to all of us. It would be great if we all eat what she’s brought together!”

               Beside him, Tengen crosses his arms in thought as the Love Hashira gestures for a Kakushi bearing a cloth-covered basket to come forth and takes the package with a bright “Thank you!”

              (It doesn’t escape everyone’s notice how Obanai sends a deadly glare at the poor Kakushi for receiving a smile from Mitsuri.)

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Villain stans are like “omg he’s built different!”

yeah, he’s built like ikea furniture without an allen wrench

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Yellow Diamond...

Cheerful and Mature

Beautiful Smile

Oldest Gem

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What else though?

Yellow Diamond is the oldest gem in the series right now. She has had many patrol partners. All who have been taken to the moon other then Zircon.

Yellow Diamond’s Occupation: Fighter

Orange Zircon’s Occupation: Fighter

Alright now lets dive deeper into this beautiful character.

• Yellow Diamond is mature but has low self esteem.

• They feel personally responsible for their siblings.

• They don’t seem to like being called “old”

• Yellow Diamond is the oldest gem and is partnered with the second youngest gem, Zircon.

• Yellow Diamond is 3699 years old (post hibernation)

• She also has a hardness of 10 (Well duh... She is one of the diamonds)

• She also seems to have patients for other gems including Phos. (Who has a tendency to get into trouble a lot)