If You Ship Someone’s Innie And Outie Together Is That A Normal Ship Or Is That Selfcest?

House canonically watches The L Word on mute.

I love House MD. Where else do you get a show where a lesbian patient who’s liver is failing and her girlfriend willfully volunteers half of her liver despite the secret that the patient was actually planning to leave her girlfriend but that actually wasn’t a secret and the girlfriend gives up her liver to her so that she’s trapped in this relationship and can’t leave. And then House gets accused of not understanding lesbian relationships.

The comparisons between Dolores Dei and Kim by having Kim be slightly dolorian is so intentional and driving me crazy like. Kim does not seem religious At All and doesn’t believe anything that isn’t based in reality so at first this really surprised me. Learning dolores was a real person and ruler made this understanding more clear, but what really got to me is how Kim is kind of Harry’s own personal dolores dei. Harry sees him with a halo present in religious iconography, he’s a perfect representative for the moralists and Moralintern in everything he does and stands for, likes the old RCM motto better, a shoe in for liberalism still benefiting from capitol. If Dora is also represented as Dolores, a physical manifestation of codependency, then I also believe that this applies to Kim. Harry sees those important to him, those he relies on. as impossibly tall and imposing, surrounded by light and beauty, while also recognizing they may also have beliefs and practices more befitting to a capitalist and internationalist delusion (thinking realistically unlike communism).

And Harry knows this. Of course about his past love, but I think this also applies to the lieutenant standing right next to him becoming more and more ecclesiastic the more time we spend in this church.

And what if all those Harry loves also had a fondness for figurines. I remember who was first yacking about francogerian knights…

if it doesn't sound fetishistic to say you're attracted to people with long hair or freckles or wide hips or dark brown eyes that look almost black, then it shouldn't sound fetishistic to say you're attracted to fat people. If it's not inherently a fetish to say you like people with sculpted backs or toned arms or six packs or small breasts or a coke bottle figure, then why would it be fetishistic to like a soft face with a double chin, or a round stomach, or big legs rippling with cellulite or stretch marks on rolls. you can find a fat person attractive. you can love the way their cheeks press up to meet the corners of their eyes, or the way their arms look, or the way their love handles spill out of their clothes. you can just. like fat people. you can say you like fat people. do you ever think how strange it is? how someone may think you're some sort of "perverse" weirdo for just...liking a body? how strange it is to put these precursory disclaimers of "not to be weird, but", "I don't mean it in that way, but", "I'm not a chubby chaser, but", or "I know it's kind of problematic, but..." could you imagine if it was any other body?

"not to sound like a muscle gain fetishist, but I love women with athletic bodies. It might sound weird, but I love short kings. I don't mean it in a weird way, but I love girls with hip dips."

It would seem strange. unnecessary. one may even assume there is some sort of guilt or fear you're hiding because it's normal to have things you like. it's normal to find certain things cute, hot, sexy.

you can sexually desire fat people and enjoy that they are fat. you can do that.

also, if you genuinely have a fetish (or deep sexual attraction if u for whatever reason are uncomfortable with the word fetish) for something that is found on larger bodies (bellies, fupas, thighs, underarms with fat/breast tissue in them, sagging breasts, big arms with skin that wobbles, cankles), or for a bigger body in and of itself (because I know some of y'all still want to sever yourselves from this), there is nothing wrong with that. people have fetishes for hands and teeth and earlobes and kneecaps and butts and shoulders and calves. what makes their thing any more acceptable than yours? there is nothing wrong with being aroused by bigger bodies.

please do not add tags and reblog this with "except when such and such is involved". I am not bringing those situations up for a reason. do not attempt to pivot this post into a thinkpiece on the objectification and/or abuse of fat bodies, ESPECIALLY if you yourself are not fat.

this is coming from the perspective of a Black person. Namely, a Black Nigerian-American person. Where I come from, there is a cultural, pre-colonial practice of gaining weight (and yes, particularly getting fat) to accentuate beauty. my body was handed down to me lovingly by my ancestors. i love my fat.

and if you love it too, that's okay. ♡

👆🏻 what are you talking about you can’t go on t without changing my voice and that would like…kick me out of performance jobs!!! woe is me!!!

what if we locked legs as we did our t shots while staring out your window and watched the branches sway.

Our modern circle of hell project is for mobile advertisers who make unskippable ads with fake exit buttons that link you to the App Store

Collages are fun :D

this genre of anime boy is so beautiful and captivating to me. I can’t help but be entranced.

just met her…obsessed with how she clocks Harry immediately and starts a cycle of “no YOU need a husband!” Right back at him. Maybe she should take him husband hunting.

clothes I shoplifted in my dream

Quartal Superstition - improvised 1 to 2 finger alterations on a theme.

why haven’t I posted more about women on here. Anyway I have such a personal connection to Ruby the Instigator and I don’t know why. Maybe because we’re both sound and car nerds. Maybe because we both freckles and medium length hair. Maybe it’s because we were both framed for things we didn’t do. That were exacerbated because of our sexualities. I think she speaks to the lesbian desire to run away, as historically documented. She fell in love with her only girl best friend who betrayed her and didn’t even look that shocked. She’s friends with boys. She buys guns and cigarettes. She’s tough. She’s weak. She feels love more strongly than anyone else. Especially to those who will never love her.