This Was The Hardest Part For Me And Took Realy Realy Long To Learn And Accept.

need help!

summer is alredy here and i need new swimwear (old ones dosent fit anymore or is damaged) are swimsuits okey too or only bikinis??

there are some swimsuits which are sexy like hell too but i dont know if this is corrct or not.

please help!!! 🫶

i did this in past too alot.it is a habbit hard to unlearn. i struggle even now on it. but now i focus more on listening.

there isent a reason to backtalk.

when he tels you you did something wrong than apologise.

when he talks about things you disaprove than thats because he understand stuff better then you

A woman must remain silent when men are talking and only answer when directly addressed.

Groundrules

some groundrules i want to follow from now on.

•respectfulness

show Men the most respect in everyday live

•obedience

be obedient towards Men if its rational. i mean its important to be obedient towards Men but not if i hurt myself or others in any way.

•dociel

follow Mens lead. dont be stubborn and be changeable. accept if i do something wrong and better myself

•supporting

accept i m in a supporting role in live. Men do the most and hardest work in live. and this mostly better as most girls can do. but i can support Men with other things. make a good and nice enviroment at home or at work. bring coffee, by nice and happy, make people feel good and things like this.

•focus

focus more on my apperiance and improve this. focus on Men and what Men need and want. and focus on things more suitable for girls. focus on my femininity.

•detox

detox on things, ideas and people who are not good for me. people who are very hateful, feminist, untrustworthy or generaly not good people. things or ideas which arent good for girls like leadership roles or some kind of higher knowledge because leadership is just very unatural for girls and some higher knowledge just useless for girls. i just noticed i m very easiely influenced and i think most girls are like me easiely enfluenced. thats why its important to ban bad influence as good as possible.

i cant say thank you enough Men. thank you

thats the right kind of rolemodel 💃🏼

something very useful! i struggle alot with how i want to look and stuff like this. but this helps alot. 🩷

Manifest your dream appearance ♡

DECIDE HOW YOU WANT TO LOOK

figure out how you want to look and what features you want to have.

you don’t have to have a clear image, just the overall knowledge will do.

SCRIPT

open your journal or notes app, and start writing the things u want to have/change.

examples by @dreamlifebunny

facial features:

eye color:

eye shape:

eyebrow shape:

lashes shape:

nose shape:

lip shape and qualities:

face shape:

words that describe your face/eyes etc:

hair and skin:

hair color:

hair style:

hair qualities:

skin qualities:

body, posture, scent:

height:

weight:

body shape:

hand shape:

nail length:

posture:

walk style:

signature scent:

beauty marks or scars:

these are just examples! you can add whatever you want there are no rules.

MAKE A BOARD

make a board so u can visualize your characteristics.

this step is not essential but I think it’s very fun. a little board/collage with your dream appearance.

AFFIRM

affirm your thoughts about your appearance!

that doesn’t mean that you have to religiously do it, do whenever u feel like it.

I like to do them in the mornings while doing skincare in a quirky way for example "my lips look very juicy" and hyping up myself.

LIVE IN THE IMAGINATION

forget the 3D, and live in 4D.

You are constantly in your head, what you see is what YOU want to see. It’s all about you and nothing else. So walk , talk , act like you already have it because you do (law of assumption)

have fun ! ໒꒰ ྀི ⸝⸝⸝ ꒱ა

perfect toys to be played with. would love if i could change places with her 🔥😍

good morning ♥️ ready to start the day 🌄

👠☝🏻

for a long time i had this "i need to be strong and independent" mindset too. which made many things in life very difficuld for me. i couldnt ask for help because i thought i need to do it on my own even if i coulnd do it on my own. or focused on things i m not suited for because i thought i need to know this or i should be able to do it. i couldnt follow commands because i thought i knew it better. i had trouble to be respectful towards Men because i thought i m on the same page as them.

this all lead to a hard life for myself much harder as it should be.

but since i changed my mindest and worldview much got better in my life and i m a much more positiv and happy person.

This response to the anon about girls craving men that are better than them. A lot of women I know personally who are “strong and independent” with their college degrees n good paying job have hardest doing life. Either they can’t keep a man or the men they date long term are lazy losers and make more money than him. Whereas girls who aren’t compete idiots but clearly lack intelligence, work some unimpressive job(waitress, yoga instructor, secretary) always got men chasing them

Men who want to take care of someone are only interested in girls that want to be taken care of. If you’re strong and independent and “don’t need no man” then look forward to a life of men that don’t need you either.