for a long time i had this "i need to be strong and independent" mindset too. which made many things in life very difficuld for me. i couldnt ask for help because i thought i need to do it on my own even if i coulnd do it on my own. or focused on things i m not suited for because i thought i need to know this or i should be able to do it. i couldnt follow commands because i thought i knew it better. i had trouble to be respectful towards Men because i thought i m on the same page as them.
this all lead to a hard life for myself much harder as it should be.
but since i changed my mindest and worldview much got better in my life and i m a much more positiv and happy person.
This response to the anon about girls craving men that are better than them. A lot of women I know personally who are “strong and independent” with their college degrees n good paying job have hardest doing life. Either they can’t keep a man or the men they date long term are lazy losers and make more money than him. Whereas girls who aren’t compete idiots but clearly lack intelligence, work some unimpressive job(waitress, yoga instructor, secretary) always got men chasing them
Men who want to take care of someone are only interested in girls that want to be taken care of. If you’re strong and independent and “don’t need no man” then look forward to a life of men that don’t need you either.
i just need to reblog it again because its so true!
since i stoped being someone i thought i need to be what in parts the world around me said i need to be. i m much more happier and found new things about myself.
i like to make myself pretty. i like sexy clothes. i like make up. i like this all girly stuff people say its stupid. i like to please people. i like to make people happy. and i like to be liked.
i dont need to be tought. i dont need to be a smartypants. i dont need to be in a compedition with men. i dont need to be equale with men.
i cant say this about all girls but for me it is like that.
maybe i never become like the bimbos here maybe i will. i dont know.
but i m happy and i think i begin to be true with myself.
It didn't realize who it was ..................
until it stopped being who it wasn't ................
...... all through its conversations with its Black Master / Owner / Trainer, slavetrainer24
cant say it better! 😋😝
Lately i realized that every time i’ve done something because a man told me to or because i thought he would like it. Every time i’ve made a big mistake it’s because i did what i thought i wanted or tried to figure it all out for myself.
thats something i never were good with. wast money on stupid stuff. and decisions arnt as simple as it looks like
You are a woman. You shouldn't think about money. You shouldn't think about decisions. You should follow your husband. Simple. It's nature
wonderful writen. but i would say from my own view its not only about jobs but the whole life someone buildes. from family to friends to jobs.
to lead and be better as someone else is something many connect with beeing respected.
To Me, there is nothing more unattractive than a female in a leadership role. The clothing alone is unappealing as is often the look on their faces. More often than not, their roles were necessitated by a lack of money. they found they were remotely good at something that worked and stuck with it.
The sad part about professional females is that, even if they did somehow find the error of their ways and wish to become a submissive or a slave, the damage is already done.
They're trapped.... unable to even think of a career change outside of their comfort zone.
Years of doing the same thing have cemented the mentality that they cannot change now. Even if they are miserable or wish to serve a Man, the duality of being both professional and slave will be so confusing that they will inevitably go back to what was the most stable.
Those of you females reading this, you either know it is true or you fear so.
The safety of the job will prevent anything from ever happening and the female will once more be alone. Whether it is sad, upset or angry at its decision to return to its comfort zone, nothing will ever change.
The desire of every parent is to have their child do well in the world and be successful but, in these cases, especially for young females, parents often do more harm than good.
thats pretty much summs it up. 💯🙇🏼♀️
A few people have asked what are some of the ways a girl should act. Here are the things I always go with!
1.) Don’t try to be smart, don’t think you are smart, don’t act smart.
2.) Don’t be a bitch.
3.) Acknowledge men and women are different. Men lead, women follow.
4.) Always try to be pretty. Always. Having a bad day? Stressed out? Tired? Doesn’t matter, get your ass in the bathroom and clean up.
5.) Don’t get fat unless your man wants you to be. If you don’t have a man, don’t get fat. Stay in shape, stay thin. Don’t be anorexic.
6.) Be happy, be friendly, comfort men and be the light to brighten their day.
7.) Be easy, but don’t cheat. Guy wants sex? Have sex. In a relationship? Don’t cheat and get your man back you up.
8.) Dress feminine. Skirts and heels, not jeans and butch-wear.
9.) Men come first, pleasing men is your purpose.
10.) Support men who support you. A real man leads and controls you, but does not hurt or abuse you for no reason. Don’t support cruel assholes. Support sexist, patriarchal, and traditional men.
Remember your purpose can be summed up in 3 words: Sex, Children, Care-taking. Care for you man, make people happy, cook, clean, have kids when you should, and be sexually available!
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