Latest Posts by joosiebamboosie - Page 10

Trans relationships really do have those kind of role reversals.

Am age regressing.. Scared. Want a big sis to take care of me..

It do actually be like that.

It really do be like that.

This. This is exactly what it is.

so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.

i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.

i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.

and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.

so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.

and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to

Nya!~ :3

👆 big brain thinking right there

Hey. You. Horny trans person on the internet.

You're given the option between these two superpowers.

I'll get one then ^^

What's stopping you?

This totally makes sense. And yeah, I was afraid that it was actually about the physical aspect and that I was misinterpreting it as mostly psychological, that's why I edited. Also, yeah, I know, cool genderspicy transboygirlthings hoorayyyyy!

Wish I was afab..

Mrrrow! >:3

Woof

Woof!

Holy fuck

This won’t make your blog look ugly. How could you not reblog this? REBLOGGING THIS COULD SAVE A LIFE!!!

bnuy

im too eepy to post right now but i want to. i keep just opening a new draft and typing "buny"

woah.. lebsibans :0

Repost, sorry for deleting before lol

Nya :3

reblog if it's okay for your mutuals to message you and create an actual friendship, not just interactions

@practicalkim I know exactly why u reblogged this >:3

Talking to transfems treads such a fine line between joking and flirting, that the lines are so blurred and you can’t tell which is which until you both end up making out sloppy style and frotting in the backseat of her escalade in a wendy’s parking lot.

As a professional fumbler, oh trust me there are sooo many ways to fuck up real baddd

fumbling a freak should be punishable by death

Sometimes I feel this, a lot. Other times I'm glad I'm a trans woman. There's joy in looking upon the achievement that is my transition, and I believe there is a special bond between me and my trans friends (especially fellow transfems), which I wouldn't have otherwise. I'm proud to have fought for the way I am, and I'll continue that fight, head up towards the sky. Stay strong 💚

Edit: I hope i didn't interpret that wrong and had an absolute stupid reaction, if so I'm sooo sorry qwq

Wish I was afab..

@practicalkim this~

you are so pretty and sweet to me, i want to choke you and spit in your mouth

The likeerrrrrrrrrrr :3

- @eightbrokenglass

I'm a simple girl. I see depraved submissive hornyposts, I like

Trans Zero Suit tucks.

Praying for all trans girls in Florida <3 (and all over the world but JESUS fuck Florida..)

property owner? in this economy?

ohhh you mean you own a trans girl okay that makes sense

I knew you'd reblog this

that guy who was really focused on being considerate at all times is now a puppygirl who will bark for anyone if they ask her to.

Good thing is trans girls can easily be shared, so the market isn't artificially shrunk by trans girl multi-owners, PLUS we do not leave our property mostly unused and empty.

property owner? in this economy?

ohhh you mean you own a trans girl okay that makes sense

Don't step back a single inch.

Also: omg trans cattos just like meeeeeeee

In regards of the Trump government scraping all trans inclusion in its queer information portion of its websites I have made this thing. Spread the word. Don't let them pretend we never existed.

P.S: Don't like! Reblog! <3

EDIT: Well this got a lot of attention! I got a few users asking to print or repost my art and I am unimaginably grateful to everyone's interest, especially since it's a really simple drawing I made on a whim haha! Anyone who is looking to print these out to hang or hand out or repost on another platform is free to do so, although I ask you to credit me and let people know it's from my Tumblr profile! If anyone wishes to do anything else with my art or post and wants to clarify what I consent to then they can message me privately and I'll explain! <333 all my love to my queer siblings

EDIT: I made an LGBTQIA+ version with a focus on trans and intersex folks, it's on my pinned if you prefer this version of the acronym.

@practicalkim us? 👉👈

making out with a girl between classes at the bottom of some barely-used stairwell, one hand down her skirt groping at her bulge and the other with a thumb in her mouth, her mind too blank to notice I'm biting and gnawing on her cheek enough to leave some verrry conspicuous marks, then when we have to go, leaving the building and walking with her across campus, not bothering to let her know about it :3

Her not noticing until after her next class when she sees herself in a mirror in the bathroom, me looong gone :3

This.

Mmmmm I think a lot of the discussion around "should trans men be in women's spaces/have access to women's resources" are missing a factor in that, if coming out as a trans man means losing access to those things, it could be pretty fucking dangerous, because A lot of the resources there just don't exist outside those spaces, and if they do, there's a lot less to go around. I mean like, overall, there are tons more charities and organizations focusing on grants/scholarships/job fairs/emergency housing/etc etc opportunities for women than for men. Because usually men aren't the ones needing it! But there are also more for women than LGBT as a whole.

But it leaves trans men in a grey area of "stay in the closet (or god forbid detransition) and get help, or come out and lose all your help." It functions as a punishment, unintentional or not, for coming out. And this is what people are talking about when we say transmasc invisibility kills.

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I would punch your tummy for you~

Would you still love me if you were a worm?!

Only if you went up to the next fish pond and told those hungry bozos "See this cute worm? She's my girlfriend, and you can never have her!", just out of spite

Would you still love me if you were a worm?!

Only if you went up to the next fish pond and told those hungry bozos "See this cute worm? She's my girlfriend, and you can never have her!", just out of spite

Will you be stimming on her tiddies?

I-if she let's me...h-hell yeah..