I'm So Attention Starved That This Actually Sounds Nice To Me..

This.

Jerking off/fingering yourself to trans girls is all fine and good but what you should be doing is sending them pictures of your holes so they can jerk off to YOU

personally I think when cis people say weird shit that implies queer sex is worse or less loving than cishet sex we should be able to bitch about it, but ig that’s too radical for the be gay do crime site 🤪

This. This is exactly what it is.

so many of the transfems i know spent their time pre-transition performing a kind of lifelong exercise in self-deprivation, the goal of which was to find out exactly how little a person needed to live. they starved themselves, dressed carelessly, shunned friends, and hollowed themselves out so as not to be burdens on anyone but themselves.

i see it now, too, in the girls around me. i'll ask if they want care – a home-cooked meal, relaxed company, sex without the expectation of reciprocation – and they say no, no, thank you, i don't need it; what would you like, what do you want, because in their head they're still doing that awful calculus, still training themselves to disappear in the eyes of the people around them.

i don't think i'd have died without transition – not in the conventional sense, at least – but to take that leap, i had to stop thinking of myself as a human experiment in fuel-efficient living and start nurturing the anemic, atrophied flame of desire in my heart. i had to learn to eat well, to exercise, to style myself beautiful, but harder than that, i had to learn to ask the people around me to work on my behalf in order to enrich my life and give me the things i wanted.

and i did it; i learned. and it was agony, but courage is a muscle you can train, and every day i get better at accepting gifts with the hungry gratitude i never learned in my years and years as a sad, scared, lonely boy.

so be patient with the trans girls in your life. better than that: be proactive, attentive, generous; be forceful, if you have to, and learn to distinguish real discomfort from the terrified reflex of self-denial that so many of us once learned to rely on.

and if you are so lucky as to love a trans girl, you must insist upon her. you must insist upon her happiness, her comfort, her pleasure, and her rest, because she may still not yet know how to make those demands for herself. if you can devote any amount of energy to becoming an engine that nurtures the flame of even a single tgirl then there is a place for you in trans heaven, which as far as i'm concerned is the only one worth going to

I wanna be a cute lil trans elf too.. >.<

as is tradition, happy pride from everyone's favorite transgender video game couple!!!

so i just got yelled at by my mother to "get out of [her] house". and scolded for every single little thing i do, even shit i dont do. and my sister is lying about me to our parents. so uhh

help if you can i guess. if everyone could just send like five bucks my way i'd be doing considerably better.

not if youre one of my friends tho i cant let yall do that.

N-n-need to do this o.o

found out the other day that my pup is a VERY heavy sleeper <3 i’d already fucked him and tired him out so all i had to do was put my arms around him and he was fast asleep ,,, it was very cute but after we slept for a while i had to get up for a sec, when i got back i realized he had Fully slept through me getting up, and so after cuddling him for a while longer, i didn’t even have to *try* to keep him asleep, i just rolled him onto his back, spread his legs and used his warm puppy hole like a toy,, i fucked him for 3 minutes before i decided to slap him to wake him up, his first sensations returning to consciousness being me deep inside of him ,,, nnhhhhh been thinking about that . a lot. so normal i had to post it

I-I got a Creedence Best of vinyl, and it'd be pretty cool if we got to listen to some Nazareth and Sabbath too >.< 👉👈

A cute transfem should come over listen to 70s rock with me we do so on Vinyl or however you prefer and make out and kiss or something

Holy fuck

This won’t make your blog look ugly. How could you not reblog this? REBLOGGING THIS COULD SAVE A LIFE!!!

I, and due to me also my girlfriend, actually have this in our regular vocabulary

Yeah yeah subby femme x dommy butch, that’s fun and all.

But where’s my subby butch x dommy femme? Where’s my butches who wear chokers “because they look cool” but in reality it’s proof that the femme owns them? Where’s the femmes who are half the size of the butch but super possessive? Where’s the femme who orders for the butch? Who makes the butch blush in front of their biker gang? Reblog and I’ll make this a story