Me: Is Fine Being Single, Understands I Am Still Capable Of Love, Is In No Rush, Doesn’t Like Relationships

me when a character is described as tall, dark haired, sharp jawline, cheekbones, and blue eyes:

all these leaks about a test screening, different ending where ben lives, with babies, Ireland sets filming... it's all making me more angry, depressed... how could they possibly screw up so badly? so greedy, so afraid of the fanboys, trolls.... erasing characters, bringing a trio (tm) no one ever asked. and Rey ALONE. "you're so lonely. so afraid to leave. at night desperate to sleep you imagine a ocean. i see the island. and... Ben Solo."

If you are a Reylo and you are afraid of what may happen in EPIX, NEVER EVER forget this:

“Then they should have no problem retrieving the droid. Unharmed.

I want that map. For your sake, I suggest you get it”.  

“Forget the droid. We have what we need”.

Tchaikovsky’s Romeo and Juliet Fantasy  sounds

*I am a creature in a mask, fear me*

*I’ am not a creature in a mask*

“don’t be afraid i feel it too”

The map, where is it.     WHERE   IS   IT    

*Not extracting the map*

*Not extracting the map*

*Not extracting the map*

*Not extracting the map*

*Not extracting the map*

*Not extracting the map*

*Still not extracting the map*

*nope…*

*Definitely not extracting the map* 

Not only the prisoner escaped, a stormtrooper helped him to escape, a Tie Fighter  was stolen and the destruction of the base is quite important.

Reaction -Calm and clear :“The one from the village. FN-2187″.

The girl (who is collaborating with the resistance for the first time in her life , is not even a soldier,and is still in the base  ) escaped. Reaction:

“She’s just beginning to test her powers. The longer it takes to find her, the more dangerous she becomes”. “Put every hangar on lock-down. She’s going to try to steal a ship”

“ The longer it takes the more dangerous she becomes”

The longer it takes…

“  the more dangerous she becomes”

dangerous

“The longer it takes”…

“The longer it takes”…

“The longer it takes”…

  she’s completely cornered…   Just stop her right?

I guess when he sees her again he will be furious…

right?

*Runs towards her completely unarmed*

Furious?Mad?: Not -even -a -little

Let’s not forget Rey last name:“I’m not giving you anything”

And Rey last name: “I ship Myself to him”

And Rey last name: “I don’t know what personal space is”

“No. The Supreme leader is wise”.

You know what? You don’t need your grandfather’s lightsaber right now.You have your own red  lightsaber in your waist…

Just grab it and fight..

Except that you don’t want to fight, right?

You just want her to stay with you

Okay this time, he’s really furious…

You should inform your army that she’s running away…

Boy…

You should inform your army that she’s running away…

she’s running away… inform your army

No?Okey… 

Do you still have doubts about what will happen in IX?

In my boys I trust, always …

Cottagecore aesthetic 🍄🌿

Because there are still some people who worry about Daisy‘s interview, here are some twitter posts from Matt Martin and Pablo Hidalgo that might make you feel better :)

Bonus: Daisy Ridley:

Bonus: Mark Hamill:

Matt Martin is part of the star wars story group so he literally knows the whole plot of the story, wich the producers should follow.

Does anyone else think about how Daisy said that Adam had some really comedic moments in this film?

...and how JJ said that Kylo does some really cool things??

...and also how John Williams likened the film, in particular Kylo and Rey's relationship, to a comedy???

Because I think about those things a lot. If you're not, please do.

Idk if I’m taking it the wrong way but it bugs me how in the Prequels, Anakin’s love for his mother Shmi and his wife Padme are framed as his weakness and that his emotions are what drove him to the Dark Side when it was all just natural. They took little Anakin away from his mom and then shamed him for missing her and told him to “man up”, when he was concerned for her the Jedi told him to stop caring but he didn’t and he was right: his mom had been in danger. But his tears when she died are not him being sad that she died, but that he is “falling to the Dark Side”. As if grieving wasn’t appropriate and instead a sign of evilness.

And when pregnant Padme was dying in his dreams, Anakin wasn’t taken seriously by Yoda and told to just stop caring because “death is natural”. And what did we get? Padme did die in the end. There is a reason that he was trying to keep his love to her a secret and eventually turned to Palpatine: Because no one listened to him when he was expressing concern and emotions for his family members. Palpatine seemed to be the only one to care about his feelings and the only one to give him actual advice, but Anakin his still framed as the bad guy for listening to his feelings, especially his feelings towards women, as they are essentially “corrupting his pure mind and true self”. And I don’t care that this was some kind of shitty, self-fulfilling prophecy.

Luke is told similar stuff in the Originals: that he should shut off his emotions because they are “leading him to the Dark Side” or that he should “stop loving Leia” because the other (bad) men could see this as a weakness. Yet Yoda and the other Jedi are still framed as wise and right, while Anakin and Luke are supposed to come off as bratty and impulsive. Not to mention that fear alone doesn’t lead to hatred because experiencing fear is very much needed in a human’s life to prevent them from dangers. Especially fearing for your loved ones is not, as the Jedi put it, something bad that will turn you evil.

But still, it is shown that Luke being concerned and having intense emotions is what makes him fail his training and therefore something he should stop, to be “better”. But in the end, Luke successfully brings Vader back to the Light because he was thinking of him as a father in an emotional way and this is how he managed to reach out to that last spark of Anakin that was left in Vader.

Both Anakin and Luke are actually at their best when they are trying to save their friends and family, they are determined and compassionate, not evil, because they are right.

In the Sequels though, Ben Solo aka Kylo Ren is actually framed as good for staying to his true self and emotions in the end and his love for his parents and Rey is not something that corrupts him, but what brings him back to the Light in the end. (In addition, I wanted to mention that I firmly believe that Kylo Ren is a character who is coded as mentally ill). The good relationships with women in his life is what fuels his good side, not the other way around, like in the Prequels. Same with Luke at the end TLJ on Crait, where he is fueled by giving his sister hope.

 Especially in TFA, Kylo is constantly seen trying to put on an emotionless face and to deny his true feelings (”[Han] means nothing to me.”), which result in fits of rage because it is actually damaging him to mask his true self. We have seen Kylo/Ben at the end of TROS: the tantrum-throwing bad guy isn’t who he really is. He isn’t taken seriously by someone either, until Rey comes by and offers him support, what gives him hope and a reason to change. And regarding Kylo being a “crybaby who should man-up” - this is a dangerous thing to say as well. Kylo isn’t actually crying in the moments when he’s evil, but in the moments where he is allowing himself to feel his real emotions.

Take a look at the confrontation between him and Han in TFA for example: When Han approaches Kylo on the bridge, he is trying to talk him out of thinking that the “mighty Kylo Ren” whom Snoke apparantly values and teaches so well, is an illusion and that he didn’t destroy his son. Kylo still tries to be in his role until his true self breaks out: he starts crying and admits his true feelings (”I’m being torn apart. I want to be free of this pain!”). And we see that he actually is torn apart and thinking of going back to the Light side. But when he decides not to and commit the horrible act of killing his father instead, he stops crying and puts on an emotionless face,shutting off his true feelings once again, right in the moment where his father forgivingly strokes his cheek one last time.

And what happens? Kylo trying to cut off the bond with his father and telling himself to not feel a thing about the murder only results in backfiring, causing even more pain and confusion for Kylo and throwing him into an even bigger identity crisis. And he realizes that he cannot kill his mother and feels ashamed for what he has done to her life in TROS, believing that she will hate him, even if he comes back. He knew how bad his crimes were in the end.

But when he is vulnerable to Rey, actually crying out of compassion for her, he has a goal in life again: killing Snoke and starting a new order with Rey by his side. Not quite what is needed, but it is the next step in being himself again and valuing his actual wants again. No matter how much I hated how they trated the character in TROS, I will always cherish those 3 minutes of Ben Solo we got at the end.

At the end, Kylo/Ben was cherished for his true emotions and giving in to them, to his love and concern and having compassion and not to suppress his feelings because he was told that this was right. He wasn’t weak for crying, he was weak for thinking he shouldn’t.

Because this is actually a beautiful message that boys should keep in mind.

Telling boys and young men to be emotionless, to be careful with bonding with other people and staying to their true emotions on the other hand, is not a good message.

Also, for more information on this topic, watch “The Case Against The Jedi Order” by Pop Culture Detective on YouTube.

Thanks for coming to my pep talk

Y’all.

Y’ALL.

What if Ben didn’t die and went to the world between worlds?

HE COULD LEGITIMATELY COME BACK.

AND WHAT IF DISNEY FINALLY GETS THE BALLS TO DO AN EPILOGUE WHERE REY GOES TO HIM AND BRINGS HIM BACK

THE WAY SHE LOOKS AT HIS LIPS ,, THEY WERE BOTH SO GENTLE BUT THEN SO HASTY LIKE OUCH MY HEART

“It wouldn’t be healthy” oh please give it up

Google, I—

EXCUSE ME I—

OKAY BUT—

Google... is a Reylo.