We live in a world STEEPED in sexual objectification; where we hear about so-called "sex positivity" constantly; a world where BDSM and other amazingly harmful and revolting kinks are celebrated and those who are against them are shamed; where it's considered normal to walk around naked at public events, and to simulate sex on stage in musical performances that are viewed all over the globe...
And ONE blogger says, "I think these things are harmful," and people ACTUALLY have the audacity to show up and talk about how they're "tired of the sex-negativity."
It's just...astonishing, really. These people act like a fish suddenly taken out of water if they're exposed to a sex-negative or even anti-promiscuity/anti-kink post. "Put me back in my pool of shallow sexual objectification! THIS IS VIOLENCE!" đš
Nature in humans/most mammals;
Females= Must be hunted and penetrated by males, must carry all the reproductive burden, all the pain of our bodies ripping itself apart to create life, must nurture offspring, repeat.
Males= Maybe get in a scrap, hunt females and penetrate.
Why were we the ones subjected to all the suffering?
Coming to terms with the fact that we canât change the dynamic of nature is hitting a brick wall.
The only way we will have freedom is if the power imbalance doesnât exist, which means extinction is the only route to true freedom.
The 'womanhood is based on biology, not behavior' gang getting ready to call anyone who's too abrasive, uses bad language or even just doesn't agree with them a secret male.
TRUE. So they're saying being honest and analytical is male behavior then. Interesting.
The second most common accusation after "male" for women who criticize them is "lesbian," which really says a lot as well about who they see as a problem.
TRAs be like: Are you gay as in bisexual or gay as in transphobic
I believe the myth that anger turns you into the people/person that abused you was created to keep women placated and in a position where we are never fully able to take ownership of their own rage because, according to that myth, that makes you just as bad as your abusers. Please be a hater and angry till the day you die. WHAT THEY DID WAS NEVER OKAY AND IT NEVER WILL BE.
The transition a large swathe of people have made from "this cause is righteous therefore it is would just of me to support it" to what we have now which is "I am just therefore any cause I support is righteous " has done irreparable damage to online discourse, and frankly it's dones irreparable damage to people's ability to critically think or discuss literally anything
have you ever seen that post where someone called out how simone de beauvoir was trafficking young girls and a radfem reblogged it to write this long drawn out post on how simone was actually the real victim in the situation, with not a peep about the girls she helped victimize
And I still remeber that. I also remeber the backlash i got when I made the post :)
These women don't give a shit about the well being of girls.
Time and again I have seen them defend misogynist women and not hold hem accountable because of some stupid concept of solidarity that they don't even know about.
"supporting women's rights and wrongs" doesn't even sound funny at this point.
You are true anon. These radblrinas defend their dead idols over the well-being of women.. Mary dale was very homophobic and still her texts are passed around. Andrea dworkin's texts on lesbians opened my eyes on how lesbophobic she is. And no one batted an eye.
But what I seem to notice is that this solidarity doesn't seem to extend for lesbians, woc and marginalised women.
They hate gay males for misogyny but find their bfs misogyny cute.
They write posts "Avg white male is less misogynistic than avg man in middle east" "Afghan men hated women, so they established Taliban" while their western gov actively supplied funds for terrorist organisations and de stabalised the middle east.
Their sympathy extends only for women who uphold oppression.
As a person who has worked with many groups of kids in my life, none of them has been hurt by a #childless woman on social media. A woman who is openly child-hating to the point she complains about crying kids on an airplane presents no harm to kids. These women are self-aware enough to know that they are not capable of caring for a child. What they truly hate is society constantly pressuring women to be mothers and caregivers. Even women who claim to be feminists refuse to understand that children are hurt by people who claim to love them and spend loads of unmonitored time with them (relatives, teachers, religious figures, and other caretakers). If you even spend five minutes in childless/antinatalist female spaces, it's about birth control, getting tubes tied without being married, and memes about having free time or dunking on people who say women without children can't be truly happy. Nowhere in these pages are women recounting abusing children or fantasies about harming children...you know...like men would.
Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.
Virginity is a controversial topic among people especially feminism. I think virginity and the separation from is a female liberated as it can get, letâs be real. When I think of women separating them self form to extreme form is âvirginityâ and abstaining form men in general both sexually and non-sexually. In many ancient civilizations, virginity signaled a woman's independence and strength, they were literally seen psychically and mentally stronger than most women, Virgins were free women," not subject to the will of a man."
Which reminds me of âArtemisâ and other female divine figures who are virgin. Virginity have a tons of ties to women who are connected to archery, wilderness and wildlife in some way or form I learned. These days virgin' became even more embarrassing thing to do be towards sex centered and patriarchal centered people especially with the rise of pornographic, prostitution and patriarchal culture; unfortunately.