Imyoursweethabit - ♡︎Sof♡︎

A couple of weeks ago, I had an incident where I was openly invalidated and shamed for being closeted by two people I trusted. As someone who has struggled with internalized homophobia in my youth from my environment growing up and is still closeted to my loved ones, this situation has weighed heavy on me.

Yet, these past two Harry Styles shows, I felt the courage (alongside my friend) to display my identity in the most public of ways by waving a bi flag. The first night, I was overwhelmed with all the love and support from everyone who saw our flag draped over the balcony— both in-person and in photos/videos/livestreams. The second night, we were able to be in the pod next to the catwalk, and wave our flag during Lights Up where Harry looked directly at us. He didn’t interact with it, but just knowing he saw it— he saw me with such a big part of me grasped tightly in my hand, it felt unreal. I’m so fortunate for Harry and the space he’s given me for years to be myself and to love myself when I feel otherwise, because I don’t think I would’ve been as comfortable or as free as I did these past two nights with that flag if it hadn’t been for him and this special space he’s created. I cant thank him and my friend enough for allowing me to be myself during such a rough time. Just happy. Yeah ✨🤍

here’s a full 3 minutes of louis tomlinson guarding a rainbow flag, for your viewing pleasure 

So you lied on a court doc.. okay?

https://www.tmz.com/2021/04/13/olivia-wilde-jason-sudeikis-not-living-together-exes-harry-styles/

(Hopefully I’m not late this time. Lol I haven’t been on today since I’m working. But the notification came up and I had to send it to you! Lol)

I totally agree. This is beyond ridiculous. Damage control 101.

Sources close to Olivia and Jason tell TMZ ... the former couple does NOT live together, although they're both in the United Kingdom co-parenting their two kids. We're told the exes, who split in November, maintain separate residences.

It's unclear why Olivia said in legal docs she was living with Jason, but we're told her intention was to get court-ordered protection for herself, her family and her extended family.

full article here

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qué piensas de las propias larries qué tienen en un pedestal a ele

Hipócritas.

Se olvidan de las veces en las qué harry lloro por la presencia de ella? y ojo qué fueron veces qué lograron ser grabadas pero todas las otras qué no lo fueron? Todas las otras qué nunca vimos? Las veces qué Louis estuvo mal porqué veía que ya no podia controlar la situación? Veia a harry mal por el tema y ustedes creen qué el se sentia bien despues teniendo que salir de la mano con ella?

Muchos dicen “pero no es su culpa” pero sabes? Si es su culpa porqué acepto trabajar en el bearding. Acepto ocultar la relación de dos chicos de 17 y 19 años a los cuales les dijeron qué no era normal qué ellos se amaran y qué su amor no iba a durar. Todos los bitchy moments qué eleanor tuvo porqué se sintió con el poder de “pisotear” a Harry Styles porqué claro, podia hacer sentir mal al gran HS con un solo movimiento. Ustedes creen qué ella no lo hizo? Yo no entiendo cómo ven a eleanor y louis cómo los mejores amigos en la vida real, en un au o en una fic ya te creo qué de risa pero en la vida real no. Quizás con los años maduró y le pidio disculpas a harry y a louis pero eso no le quita el peso a sus acciones.

Ella tuvo la culpa desde el momento qué firmó su contrato asi qué porfavor no la vengan a defender y menos si son larries porqué se estan cagando en todo lo qué harry y louis tuvieron y qué para peor, aún tienen que pasar.

🕺🏼 Groovy

Anti larries don't do masterposts full of stereotypes, don't force them out of the closet, don't take it upon themselves to decide what their sexuality is and post it on thousands of posts for years upon years on internet, don't fetishize, don't make them more uncomfortable by having even more pressure to be careful if they are indeed in the closet. Anti larries do listen to Dan and to Lauren and so many other queer people who said their closets, their sexuality is not your fandom entertainment

of course not, you’re way too busy being larries fans. you have entire blogs and podcasts, yt channels, all dedicated exclusively to larries and what we say and do. your entire online presence is not about Harry and Louis, it’s about us. you don’t stan the boys, you stan us. you love to call us a cult, but you do the exact same thing... except you’re lives turn around random, strangers online. we’re not famous, we’re not celebrities and yet you and your fellow minions act like we are. stalking us daily, screenshoting posts, @us, threatening, doxxing, sending ask after ask to every blog you can reach, discussing every single thing we say in length... that’s fan behaviour, baby. borderline obsessive, actually. you should buy yourself a mirror and look at it for a good hour before ever thinking of trying to have high moral ground over larries. out of the two of us, you’re the one on the inbox of someone you could simply block and forget. you’re not some justice warrior, go find a healthy way to cope with your problems and leave larries alone. especially tumblr larries, who stay out of anywhere public and keep it to their blogs that no one can find unless they look for it - like y’all do :)

no, you know what? i’ll say some more. y’all love to ignore the many, many celebs that have come forward and talked about being forcefully closet, ignoring that it happens because the industry is disgusting and homophobic and not because a bunch of fans think they’re gay. you claim to care so much, but ignore every abuse as long as it fits with going against larries. you ignore real valid concerns and questions, that fans are allowed to have, just because you think you’re the heterosexual messiah. you’re no better fan than anyone else, you’re on the same boat, buddy. you’re just an asshole with a god complex and zero balls to come off anon. that’s the truth

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