- put stickers on your furniture if you’re allowed
- add a canopy above your bed
- make a permanent blanket fort/reading nook
- glow in the dark stars!!!
- christmas lights
- lots and lots of stuffies
- cute throw pillows
- fluffy rugs… make the floor comfy to crawl around!
- foam puzzle piece floor mats work great and are cheap
- disney posters
- get cute bedding and if you can’t do that just get a cheap kids blanket from walmart and cover your bed with that
- add cute details like an animal shaped lamp
- or a snow globe!!
- don’t forget a nightlight
- display some kids books on your book shelf
- consider having a toy chest
- put a “keep out” sign on your door or whatever you want
- try peel and stick wall murals
- try a beaded curtain
- paint glitter on things
- display any pictures you coloured
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super important. as a regressor with a mental illness, this is extremely helpful, thank you very much!
To starts this off, imma regressor wiv Panic Disorder an Autism. Dese tips are for when your regressor is havin a panic attack or meltdown of any kind! An remember, each panic attack and meltdown is different. Even the same regressor might want different steps taken in different crises.
💬You gots to work out if your regressor wants to be held. In a panic attack, even a normally cuddly regressor might struggle and flail if touched. Ask them! They might nod or shake head. Might jus say “mm” tho. Dis one takes knowin your regressor, if you still arent sure after askin, try gentle touch an see if they come to you or shake you off or just stay listless. If they dont move or do come for cuddles, then proceed to respond how seems fit. Do not grab the regressor or make any sudden movements!
🍼Get them drink in a bottle, preferably somethin calmin and warm like milk drinks or hot choccy milk, or even teas like chamomile.
🐒 If trying to touch them earlier went wrong and they accidentally hit or kicked you while flailing, this is nobodys fault. Ive done it before an felt awful. Please do not punish the regressor now or later for this. Even if da rules say no hittin, this doesn count. They not mean to hit, i promise.
🔊Find out first if they wants sounds on, then put telly on with soothing show. Be ready to mute it if the regressor responds by shaking head, covering head, making unhappy noises etc.
🎶If there isnt telly in the room, see if the regressor responds to talkin or singing to them.
🥛The regressor might tell you to get out or go away. Theyre not being mean, they just cant handle people right now. Please go outside the room, and make them drink and/or a snack. Give it 10-15 minutes then knock on door and tell your smol that you have left these things for them. Even an isolating smol appreciates the effort, even if they dont respond well at the time, give em time alone an theyll come get the offerings when theyre ready and itll help as they come down.
😿If the regressor wants you in the room, but no touching or sounds, please just sit down and give reassuring smiles if they look at you. You can play on phone or read book or other quiet activity. Dont fall asleep if you can help it.
🐰This one is hard, but when they start to feel better theyre gonna come to you, and you might be upset because they yelled at you or accidentally hit you. Please know it was an accident and they didnt mean to lash out (if your regressor hits a lot or says absolutely awful things… thats abuse. Thats not what im talkin about here. When in a panic attack or meltdown, imagine youre dealing with a frightened rabbit). Do not try to “talk about the behaviour” or make them explain themselves. Theyll tell you why they panicked when theyre calm. Right now, theyre coming down and need comfort.
🦄When the smol is calm, try the television again, or a game or book. Something that doesnt require a lot of energy. Theyre very tired. They might go to sleep and thats fine too! Now is the time for letting them be calm and happy.
⚠If you want to talk about what happened, please wait at least a few hours. This gives them time to be calm and they probably want to say sorry too!
⁉If youre somewhere public, Try to get your smol somewhere private and proceed with the steps above. Even if its them sitting in the parking lot of a supermarket and you going to buy them a milkshake instead of the other steps, your care and effort is still amazing.
I hope these tips helped. Meltdowns and panic attacks can be hard to deal with, but i hope this list helps!
-being tired, so tired all the time and your muscles always ache
-They are always watching but you can never find their cameras and microphones
-your pets know what you are saying/thinking and they can talk but they choose not to say anything and just spy on you
-having speech problems at random times and people think youre being rude or trying to be funny
-never having a routine, never eating regular meals, never brushing your teeth or showering or doing other basic things
-feeling nothing and then feeling it all at once at bad times
-hearing constant ringing or humming or buzzing
-crying for no reason or never crying when you know you should
-looking in the mirror and seeing someone thats not you
-switching between arguing with voices and agreeing with everything they say
What you will need:
1 cup Rice/almond milk
1 tsp vanilla
2 tbsp Maple syrup
½ tsp lavender
¼ tsp cinnamon
A pinch of nutmeg
1 teaspoon butterfly pea flower powder
How to make it
In a small saucepan set over medium-low heat, whisk together milk with maple syrup, butterfly pea powder, lavender and spices until powder is dissolved and milk is warm but not yet simmering.
Whir briefly using a handheld milk frother.
Pour into warm mug and enjoy.
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