Can we please stop associating being a good person with how much you're willing to suffer in silence for other people? You can be a kind person and still say "no, I don't have the time/energy to help you with that." You can be a kind person and still say "this makes me uncomfortable, please stop." You can be a kind person and still say "I disagree and here's why." You can be kind and still say "I'm not okay with this." Being kind is about treating people with kindness and respect, not about being the human equivalent of a doormat!
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fortunately i will only ever get prettier, healthier, and happier. and i hope you do too!
Good day! Take time to listen to the newest single of the biggest girlgroup, Little Mix! Girls deserve to be recognized for making this wonderful music and filming a music video as possibly they could just to serve us a fresh and great song while we're all in quarantine. For all mixers out there, stream on YouTube, Spotify or any platform you have and make this song trend and become one of your holiday music playlists.๐ถ
โi know exactly who i want to be. iโve shaped this ideal person in my head, from the color she paints her nails in winter, to the silk pajamas she wears to bed. i think about her when i mess up, when things donโt go my way. how she would laugh away the stress and know exactly what to say. she is the version of me that i most want to be. so happy and kind and always carefree. iโve tried so hard to be this perfect girl, that iโve forgotten how to be me.โ
โ the perfect girl in my head
I don't think I am easy to define. I have wandering mind and I am not anything that you think I am | ๐ต๐ญ |
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