Flr-philosophy - Quintessence Of FLR

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Give & Take & Take & Take

Equal relationships are about give and take. You give a little, you take a little, and you get along. But being with a submissive male is quite different. You see, being submissive means he gets his pleasure from giving only and is quite happy getting very little or nothing in return.

It took me a little while to realize that to give him what he needs and desires, I had to learn to become a taker and to even deny him some things.

To be the woman of his dreams, and fulfill his fantasies, I had to learn to become selfish. I needed to become his superior, make him serve my needs, and to take control of him. He needed and wanted to be pussy whipped by me.

It’s a hard concept to try to understand and for most people it makes no sense. But it is his kink to be used, abused and neglected and I try to do this in a loving and caring way.

That’s why I tend to concentrate on physical control and away from the sadistic abuse you find in most pornography these days. That stuff is brutal and I want no part of it and he doesn’t either.

I think that is why I shied away from dominating him before thinking I would have to do all the beating and torture. All of that stuff is hyped up in the pornography and isn’t necessary at all to be dominant.

Everyday Ways males can serve Women

So let’s say you are a male who is not in a relationship, or you are in relationship but spend some portion of your day away from your Goddess. Remember that all Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such! Here are a few suggestions on how you can serve your Superiors:

If you are on line and there is a Woman behind you, let Her go before you.

If you are going out to pick up something for lunch ask your coworker what She wants don’t accept Her money.

Find out how your Female coworkers like Their morning coffee/tea and bring Them drinks every morning. In fact find out what They like for breakfast and bring Them breakfast.

Leave Waitresses a 30% tip or $10 whichever is greater.

Only go to Female professionals: doctors, dentists, attorneys, ophthalmologists, tax accountants, financial advisors, etc.

Shop at Women owned stores, restaurants and farm stands.

When you are at a gas station and a Woman pulls up behind you, tell Her you just got a promotion at work and you want to treat Her to a full tank of gas. Only buy premium gasoline and pump it for Her so She doesn’t have to get out of the car.

Elderly Women are nothing less than Goddesses with wisdom and They need to be served as well. Help an elderly Goddess cross an intersection, carry Her bags home, if at a supermarket push Her cart to Her car and load Her groceries. It goes without saying if you live near an elderly Goddess check in on Her to see if needs anything daily.

At work many positions of power are still held by males but thankfully that’s changing! If you are one of those males support Women anyway you can. Promote a Female employee, during bonus times reward your Female employees and hire Women only.

You are out to dinner and you see a table of Women. Call Their server over and tell him/Her to bill your credit card. The server can’t tell the Women until They ask for the check and the server can’t tell the Women it was you. Tip the server according to rule 4. This can also be Women with children.

Volunteer at a Women’s shelter. Donate money as well.

Vote for Female candidates, officials and judges. Volunteer for Female candidates and financial support Female campaigns.

If you are stockholder vote against male members of the board and vote Female members of the board. Enter proposals for greater representation of Female employees at all levels and that the company source goods from Female owned small businesses.

Compliment Women daily with meaningful thoughts like: “I love your smile.” “Blue is a terrific color for you.” “I love your hair.” “You have the most beautiful eyes.”

Treat Women with respect. Always say things Yes Ma’am or No Ma’am until She tells you to call her something else. Stand when a Woman arrives or leaves a table, hold doors open, etc. always say Thank You and Please.

Go to a Nail Salon and tell the manager you want to pay for the nail treatments of the next 5 customers. The manager cannot tell the Women until They are finished and the manager cannot give you credit. Tip the nail salon workers very generously. you can also offer to randomly pay for a strangers hairstyle at a beauty salon.

The list is a start. Don’t feel limited to only these ideas. The point is Women are Goddesses and should be treated as such until we all live in a true Gynarchy.

Femdom and the Alpha in the Man.

I have news for you. You’ve been lied to. Femdom is not what all the hateful jaded women and self-loathing sissies out there try to make it out to be.

Female Domination, at least to me, is about a culture of Strong and Wise Women taking the lead and asserting their power in personal relationships and in society.

It is about women taking charge of their men in and out of the bedroom to get what they want and to train men to submit to female guidance at large. It is about teaching and leading a man to be a better person. It is about focusing his mind on giving rather than receiving. And it is about making him into a stronger man. There is absolutely no contradiction in a hyper-masculine Alpha Male completely submitting to a DOMINANT WOMAN.

It is NOT about humiliating and belittling men, treating them as worthless and acting as if they are inferior creatures made to lick the dirt off womens’ feet. This is just online idiocy. Perhaps you are simply a beta-type guy, but if you think this means wearing diapers or emasculating yourself every second of the day or begging a woman to treat you like shit, you need to wake up and get some help. Sure, everyone has their odd fetishes, but in real life, any woman who wants to be with a man just to treat him like scum is simply angry, pathetic, mental and low-rent. It is in no way a healthy form of kinky masochism. It is just sad. And always a fleeting waste of time and life. A submissive male should seek out a Dominant Female in order to make himself better, not worse.

Femdom is about a Woman asserting her power over a man because she wants to be in control. She believes she was born to be in charge and she believes she has earned the right to be in charge. She believes her guidance is superior because she knows intuitively that her inner strength and her inner wisdom is superior to that of a man’s. Sexually, it is about the eroticizing of power and the transformation of personal identity. She fucks. He gets fucked. Even if this means her wanting him to fuck her rough and hard, she is ultimately deciding how things go.

For me personally, a relentless degree of strictness is paramount to how I dominate. It is paramount in what I expect from my man and my boys. Stern rules and sound spankings are how I make my Femdom a factual reality. I believe in female authority as the core of my family and share that belief with every woman in my personal sphere not because I want a world of weaker men but because I want a world of stronger men who are ultimately guided by the wisdom and strength of even stronger Women, day-in-and-day-out, in this generation and in all succeeding generations.

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