I found this amusing post in the tags so I'm responding to it in a new post, but
"Why won't p-shifters stop calling themselves p-shifters?"
Because p-shifter is short, sweet and to the point - p-shifter means physical shifter, and even if you don't like the "p" abbreviation (like I don't) shifter is just sort for shapeshifter, a general common use word
The community is fragmented so it'd be hard for all of us to change the word; try getting ALL p-shifters to call themselves "body distorters" or something like that
This would be seen as escaping our responsibility to fix the problems in our community. If we all just switch to a new word without fixing the problems, we're just creating a new community where abuses can happen. It's better to fix what you have than run from your problems
We would lose access to all our resources and community. If you're not a p-shifter you don't have access to p-shifter resources, and while the content of some resources might be dubious (like magic-based turning guides) there's enough good things there that losing it would impact people negatively. People would also find the community harder to access and be unable to understand what they are.
Side note: I think otherkin would be dubious of a p-shifter rebrand anyway? Like I think if we all got together and decided to call ourselves "aniforms" or something similar, guaranteed there'd be a call-out post saying "p-shifters are now calling themselves aniforms to infiltrate the otherkin community! They won't take responsibility for their past, that's why they're skirting responsibility by using a new word!" So we can't win 🤷
Herbs I Wish Grew in My Backyard (and Why)
If I could plant a little garden of magic, these are the herbs I’d want growing wild and free — each one carrying a secret spell in its leaves.
• Lavender — for peace, sleep, and soft dreams woven into the air
• Rosemary — for memory, protection, and cooking with a little bit of magic
• Chamomile — for calming storms inside my chest
• Thyme — for courage when the world feels too loud
• Mint — for energy, healing, and sweetening every breath
• Mugwort — for vivid dreams and wandering through them safely
• Basil — for luck, prosperity, and the feeling of being cared for
• Lemon Balm — for joy, gentleness, and mending what is frayed
• Rue — for strong protection, old-world magic, and standing tall
• Yarrow — for healing wounds you can’t even see
• Vervain — for drawing love, inspiration, and secret strength
A backyard not just full of green things — but of whispered spells, stitched into the roots.
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this week i've really fallen in love with the act of praying.
i've been praying to my deities first thing in the morning and sometimes even right before bed. i've been keeping them updated on life, and really taking the time to strength my bond with them.
and it got me thinking - why didn't I do this earlier?
I think coming from a catholic background, I was always told how to pray and what to say. I was taught the structure from an early age and learned it until it felt comfortable and second nature.
but with paganism, there aren't any structures to follow - there aren't any rules to learn and memorise. you have the power of doing your acts of worship in any way you want - and that can be a little daunting for someone like me.
I didn't know the right things to say or how to structure it - and I guess I didn't want to look stupid 'doing it wrong' if that makes sense.
until it dawned on me that prayer is just a conversation. it doesn't have to be magical and one of a kind. It can just be a good morning or even a thank you to count and sometimes that is all you need to keep that connection alive with your deities + loved ones.
so for those overthinking it like I was - remember it doesn't have to be a massive grand gesture to be special.
sometimes deities just like to know that you're doing okay ❤︎
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i read,,, a lot of books. and with a special interest in this shit that means i have a considerable amount of books that are just witchcraft/paganism related. ofc, not all of these are going to be the Best options out there, i know that it's much better to get your information from a primary/secondary source or academic study, but i'm working with what i have and what i know how to get access to. if you have any recommendations or addendums to these, let me know! i'd love to hear what yall have to say.
sigil craft: teaches you the basics of creating your own sigils using existing imagery, alphabets, and your own creativity
encyclopedia of magical herbs: honestly just a great resource to have for any witch. i'd say any herbal magic book is a must have for a witch
don't wanna buy the book? here's a great alternative!
crystal, gem and metal magic: another must have imo!! i prefer this book to the crystal bible because that book/those books spend a long time on chakras, whereas this book is more concerned with things like astrological associations and cultural contexts
don't wanna buy the book? here's a post i made that has some basics
enchanted tea time: love this book, it was honestly such a good find. tbh though, i wish there was more clear warnings about some of the ingredients, and some of the recipes like the lucid dreaming ones could have a more thought out presentation
don't wanna buy the book? here's a post i made that's similar
the complete book of incense, oils and brews: another great book by scott cunningham (honestly i had no idea how much of a shill i was for him until now), but it's probably not a must-have, especially if you're not very crafty or already have an herbal grimoire and a good youtube tutorial
guided tarot: it is so important to me to have a book like this, because no matter how many little guidebooks and online guides i looked through, NONE were as detailed and accurate as this. i personally prefer this book the most out of all that i've seen, although it could have more information on reversed cards tbh. i prefer this book to seventy-eight degrees of wisdom cause that book has some weird overlapping ideas of qabbalah, although i do recognize it's very well written and thought provoking
just some good spellbooks!
For all my witches out there, here’s a handy list of the 2025 dates for the solstices, some commonly-referenced holidays, full and new moons, and special astronomical events. I’ve listed my sources at the bottom.
Dates and times for all events are calculated for Eastern Standard Time, USA, Northern Hemisphere. Adjust for your location as needed and check the DarkSky Placefinder to see what special events will be visible in your area.
On a related note, readers are encouraged to create their own seasonal calendars, holidays, and observances based on your local biome and personal preferences. Enjoy!
Solstices, Harvests, Quarter Days, Some Common Dates
February 1-2 - Imbolc / Candlemas / High Winter
March 20 - Spring Equinox / Ostara
April 30-May 1 - Beltane / May Day / Walpurgisnacht
June 20 - Summer Solstice / Midsummer / Litha
August 1 - Lughnasadh / Lammas / Summer Harvest
September 22 - Autumn Equinox / Mabon / Fall Harvest
October 31 - Samhain / Halloween / Final Harvest
December 21 - Winter Solstice / Yule
Full Moons
January 13 - Wolf Moon ♋
February 12 - Snow Moon ♌
March 14 - Worm Moon ♍ (Lunar Eclipse)
April 12 - Pink Moon ♎
May 12 - Flower Moon ♏
June 11 - Strawberry Moon ♐
July 10 - Thunder Moon (aka Buck Moon) ♑
August 9 - Sturgeon Moon (aka Corn Moon) ♒
September 7 - Harvest Moon ♓ (Lunar Eclipse)
October 6 - Hunter's Moon (aka Blood Moon) ♈
November 5 - Frost Moon (aka Beaver Moon) ♉ (Supermoon)
December 4 - Cold Moon ♊ (Supermoon)
* The full moons in September and October are almost EXACTLY equidistant from the Autumn Equinox this year, so whether you'll have a Harvest Moon in September or October depends on where you live!
New Moons
January 29 ♒
February 27 ♓
March 29 ♈
April 27 ♉
May 26 ♊
June 25 ♋
July 24 ♌
August 23 ♍
September 21 ♍ (Seasonal black moon, second new moon in Virgo)
October 21 ♎
November 20 ♏
December 19 ♐
Special Celestial Events
March 14 - Worm Moon Total Lunar Eclipse
March 29 - Solar Eclipse
September 7 - Harvest Moon Total Lunar Eclipse
September 21 - Seasonal Black Moon / Solar Eclipse
November 5 - Frost Moon Supermoon
December 4 - Cold Moon Supermoon
(Check the DarkSky Placefinder to see what will be visible in your area!)
Mercury Retrogrades (in case you need them)
March 14 to April 6
July 17 to August 10
November 9 to November 29
SOURCES & FURTHER READING:
Bree’s Lunar Calendar Series
Bree’s Secular Celebrations Series
Moon Info - Full Moon Dates for 2025
Calendar-12 - 2025 Moon Phases
Full Moonology - 2025 Full Moon Calendar
AstroStyle - All the 2025 Full Moons
Your Zodiac Sign - Astrology Calendar 2025
Old Farmer’s Almanac - Mercury Retrograde Dates 2024-2025
Sea and Sky - Astronomy Calendar of Celestial Events 2025
DarkSky International - Dark Sky Placefinder for Stargazing
Patheos - 2025 Wheel of the Year Astrological Calendar
Image Source - How Stuff Works
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1. Our talismans disappear into thin air when we no longer charge them with incantations. Not stolen. Not misplaced. Disappeared.
2. Our tarot cards are fiercely loyal to us. When someone touches my decks without my permission, bad things happen to them.
3. We have a standing order for vengeance against people who do or say malicious things to us. We don’t need to cast a curse each time.
4. We make difficult deals all the time. That’s why manifestation is safer than sorcery. It doesn’t require you to give anything back for a wish.
5. We cannot go a week without eating native food. It would weaken our ties to our lineage. Our magic would stop working.
6. We can decide not to pass on our gifts to our children. Sometimes they have the wrong temperament, or are too weak to handle it.
7. There is a hierarchy that emerges naturally. Even if there are some who are older than me, they will call me “Ate” (elder sister) if I am more powerful than them.
8. We can try to learn a craft, but if it’s not meant for us, we will fail. Likewise, we can ignore a craft all our life, but if it’s meant for us, we will shine in it anyway. By craft, I mean divination, healing, spells and the like.
9. We recognize other people who have supernatural powers. It’s not as vulgar as seeing a light above them or seeing a shadow tailing them. We just know. So far, for me, it's never someone with Zodiac sign tattoos or moon earrings. At least in my country, magical people don't make it their personality.
10. We subtly talk about the craft to those who don’t believe, because a part of them always wonders. And that faith — no matter how faint — helps feed our magic.
Types of Divination
A means of divination through the interpretation of atmospheric phenomena such as cloud formations, wind currents, rain, fog, lightning, thunder, cosmological events, and positions favorable or unfavorable to the planet.
A form of divination where you use cards to get the answer to your questions. There are different forms of cartomancy like playing cards, tarot, lenormand and oracle cards.
Or bone throwing. It's an ancient form of divination used by many cultures. This method consist of throwing the bones and then interpret the results and pattern.
This method consist of observing the subtle movements of the pendulum to gain information about a question, object, or situation.
Scrying is divination by seeking a vision while gazing into a transparent, translucent, or reflective object and it's often done by crystal ball gazing, fire scrying, water scrying, mirror scrying, etc.
This type of divination interpret movements and relative positions of celestial bodies, and how they influence us. Astrology gives an understanding of situations in our lives, based on our individual astrological birth chart.
Also known as stone divination, is a form of divination that uses stones or crystals to gain insight into an individual’s future or to provide guidance on a specific issue.
Necromancy is divination through communication with the dead. In this method the practitioner summons or communicate with spirits of the dead in order to gain wisdom.
The practice of reading the flames and wax of a candle. The candle is lit and the flame examined for clues to the mood and energy surrounding the situation and then the wax is allowed to drip into a bowl of cold water or sometimes onto a piece of paper. The practitioner examines the shapes formed by the melted wax and makes predictions based on his or her interpretation of the shapes.
Is a method of divination where you read pattern and symbols from tea leaves or coffee grounds sediments.
Arithmancy is known as divination using numbers, while numerology is divination through using dates and words turned to numbers. Numerology doesn't require any psychic abilities, instead the method use calculations involving name and birth date numbers.
Palmistry is also referred to as palm reading and is divination through reading and interpreting the lines and structure of the hand. It is common to read the dominant hand as a characterization and also predicting the future.
is the divination by randomly chosen passages in books, often religious books or Grimoires. This method consist of picking a random passage from a book to answer a question.
is a form of divination using sea shells. Placing a seashell on your ear and analyzing the sound counts as Conchomancy. You can also use seashells in Casting divination.
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No, I'm not human and I never have been. I've always been a werewolf. Yes I may appear human but I'm not. It's just my human form, I'm a wolf under all of this flesh and bone.
Im a werewolf in every single way
Does anyone here believe that their animal self isn’t just themselves?.. am I the only one who believes that my wolf isn’t only me but that of an entity?
I’m always told, “your animal is only you” like… no?? It’s really not just me. I refer to my inner wolf as a female as it’s what I have felt over the years from MY own experience.
I know I’m not the only one who believes this. No, it’s not DID or any mental illness. It’s not a defense mechanism either. Sigh.
If anyone knows of any users who have this experience, let me know! 😅
a list of simple tips and correspondences for coffee magic
— sun water | energy, happiness
— new moon water | new beginnings, new projects
— full moon water | manifesting, calming
— cinnamon | love, happiness, money
— honey | friendships, relationships, protection
— sugar | manifesting, attraction
— nutmeg | legal matters, good luck
— clove | protection, clarity, abundance
— cardamom | love, lust, confidence, beauty
— anise | purification, protection, love
— ginger | quicken manifestations
— cocoa | grounding, prosperity
— vanilla | calming, good luck, love
— hazelnut | protection, fertility, wisdom
— milk I growth, fertility, strength
— oat milk | prosperity, abundance, fertility
— almond milk | love, prosperity, wisdom
— coconut milk | cleansing, protection, blessing
— stir clockwise | to manifest
— stir counterclockwise | to banish
— paint sigils on your coffee mug / glass
— read your coffee grounds / cream clouds
— scry using black coffee as a reflective surface
Low energy land spirit work
Please note that I would recommend properly greeting land spirits before talking to them, or making offerings to them. If you're intrested in reading about my thoughts and experiences with land spirits, give this previous post a look!
Open the window and let the outside air in. If your window is equipped with a screen against bugs, you can place a drink at the window for a few hours to serve as an offering
Taking a walk around the block, spotting the nearby trees, gardens, flowerbeds, rock formations...
Journal about your personal relationship with local natural spots, indigenous plants, wildlife...
Become interested in local birds! Birds are among the most common types of wildlife to be observed in urban areas, which makes it all the more relevant to do so. Setting up birdhouses also makes for a great offering!
Limit the amount of processed foods in your diet
Read up on plant identification in your area
Engage in artistic activities in order to depict nature! It might seem silly, but it's a good visualization exercise, and any time spent meditating upon the land spirits may be considered devotional. Drawing, painting, writing... no matter your activity of choice!
Reflect on what local issues might affect them, especially concerning environmental protection
Leave a bowl of clear water outside as an offering
Do your part to respect nature: composting, recycling, saving water and the like make perfect devotionals
Talk to them regularly, if only once a week. Spend a moment outside to tell them of your appreciation for their presence and protection
Use natural elements to decorate the house: get flowers when available, pick up the acorns or fallen leaves that strike your fancy...
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