There’s A Misconception That Grief Only Happens When We Lose People. This Is Not True. We Can Grieve

there’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. this is not true. we can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. in fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. the version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.

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when mary oliver said ‘if you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy, don’t hesitate. give in to it.’

and mahmoud darwish said ‘and if happiness should surprise you again, do not mention its previous betrayal.

enter into the happiness, and burst.’

It is what it is *throws up*

Remus: Where are James and Sirius?? We're gonna be late

Regulus: They're probably brushing each other's hair saying how they're going to be the prettiest boys at the party

*James and Sirius upstairs in the dorm room, James brushing Sirius' hair*

James: We're going to prettiest boys at the party <3

4 months ago

controversial opinion but unfortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are mean to people, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have secret kind thoughts. fortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are kind in your actions and your words, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have mean thoughts. the power is in working against inner negative thoughts and being a better person despite it. you have the ability to cultivate the person you want to be.

James: We’re marauders of course we became animagi of our own accord

Peter: We're marauders of course we avoid Filch using the map

Remus: We're marauders of course we sneak to Hogsmeade using the secret passages

Sirius: We're marauders of course we want to kiss Moony

James: *pulling Sirius aside* that's not how the trend works mate

Remus: *blushing profusely*

Peter: We're marauders of course we have gay angst

going for the weekly scheduled torture appointment (work)

my hobbies include listening to music and pretending i’m not real

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